Don't know why the obvious seems elusive to you. Your partner was in a relationship before he met you. In you he has found new love. He feels guilty leaving the other woman for you. In his bid to explain away the reason he can't turn back from the divorce to the other woman, he fabricated this letter in order to show to the other woman that he tried all he could to save the marriage but you remained adamant to keep the pregnancy hence his reason to go ahead and marry you. I don't think he had a child from the other relationship. I think that latter is meant for the other party, to justify his leaving her in the cold. You are his new found Romeo- enjoy it. He must have a conscience to be able to concoct this to ameliorate the other partner.

An avoidable death, other negligent people in power should hv sumtin to learn from dis, karma visits us all
RIP nevertheless

dat this man can afford to meet-up with such bail condition should be more source of worry n a confirmation of his guilt. as far as we continue to treat issues of corruption with kid-gloves and sympathy the impossible it becomes for us to alleviate ourselves and country from the economic quagmire we presently find ourselves,

Re: How Do You Know The Character Of A Lady
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a zebra can't hide or  change its colours

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to liken a woman to a zebra is misleading. a woman can moreless be likened to a cameleon.
hence only patience and paying attention to details would reveal all,

happy easter all!!!!!

hello,troubled one, 1st i must advise u get suicide off your mind.being hiv positive is not really the big deal,but how you can live positively with it is what is most important. I am a pharmacist and happen to work in a general hospital in lagos and have dispensed as well as counseled PLWHA (pple living with Hiv aids) for a long time.
ist i will count you lucky for finding out about ur hiv status dis early as a lot of pple arent't dat lucky.most would be bed-ridden b4 they found out. this is a big plus to you cos with early commencement of ARVs by you and your partner and proper adherence and compliance,you and your partner can live a normal life.
you have to register urself in any facility where you can access ARVs and counselling(most are free of charge).Ur cd4 level has to be determined and you ld likely to be placed under PMTCT(prevention of mother to child transmission) medications during your late pregnancy .one way you can live positively,is to do all u can to prevent transmission of the virus to d unborn child.you may also consider having ur delivery in d same facility where ur status is known so appropriate preventive measures can be taken during and after d course of delivery.they include giving you a stat dose nevirapine when u go into labour,stat dose nevirapine to d child on delivery as well as six-weeks dose of zidovudine  to the child.
also you may inquire from your counsellor about breast-feeding and hiv as well as other feeding options.
the internet is rich with a lot of info about hiv including past,present and on-going researches geared towards finding a cure.the more knowledge u equip urself with about d ailment,d more u demistify it and overcome unecessary fears.join a care group where you can meet others living well with the same condition and it will also do a lot in alleviating your fears.
Your husbands needs your love and support most @ dis trying time and vise-versa. Be strong and optimistic and all will be well.Feel free to ask for any more info.