Romance / Re: Things Smart, Single Men Look For In A Woman by MayraC(f): 11:14pm On Dec 27, 2013 |
Tuljaking: see dis fools 1.money 2.yansh 3.boobs 4.arewa like if am on point Hahahaaaa come on !!!! ![tongue](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/tongue.png) |
Family / Re: Priest Aids Wife To Build Without Husband's Knowledge by MayraC(f): 3:44am On Oct 31, 2013 |
Men have to be conscious and understand that the times when they were the only contributors to family's needs are definitively gone. How do you guys expect a woman to appreciate and recognize the value of something she did not earn, or participate in? Men should be more aware of the importance to let their wife earn their own salary and contribute to the marriage..Even if you guys earn 15 times your wife's salary, you have to make sure that you give her the opportunity to participate in the family's expenses. I am a woman and I cannot imagine myself not earning my own salary and not participating in family's expenses. I am not married yet, but I always said to myself that I will need to earn as much as my husband to feel comfortable...I will not feel ok with a man who will earn more than me, but on the other hand, I will never feel comfortable with a man who will earn less than me.. ![tongue](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/tongue.png) ..My man has still to be my MAN... ![wink](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/wink.png) |
Politics / Re: If NIGERIA Was To Divide Which Region Will SUFFER Most by MayraC(f): 2:41am On Sep 14, 2013 |
Seriously I don't see the point of that topic. U do not think there is enough problems with African countries to add problems inside a specific country by dividing it ![](/faces/huh.png) Instead of promoting a specific region in a country or a specific country in Africa, African people should start thinking globally. It is not about countries, it is about AFRICA. It is not d time to divide, it is d time to start thinking together and deal together on the African continent. If Africa wants to get stronger, Africans have to put their mind and forces together, and contribute to the rise of the all continent ![wink](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/wink.png) 2 Likes |
Foreign Affairs / Re: Russia Warns America Over Interference In Syria by MayraC(f): 11:26pm On Aug 26, 2013 |
Countries should not jump and start something they will not be able to finish..The Syria crisis is of grave concern, but I think a military intervention is misplaced and can have unintended consequences particularly in a region as volatile as the Middle East. Before any intervention, countries should analyze d situation carefully.. .... |
Politics / Re: A Nigerian Police Caught Sleeping On Duty (pics) by MayraC(f): 11:01pm On Aug 26, 2013 |
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European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) / Re: Manchester United Vs Chelsea (0 - 0) On 26th August 2013 by MayraC(f): 7:20pm On Aug 26, 2013 |
All d way Manchester United supporter !!!!!!!!! |
Family / Re: My Wife And Her Ex- by MayraC(f): 7:14pm On Aug 26, 2013 |
coolsammy: @Mayra C: Thanks just at a lost why a woman will put her ex- first at d detriment of her marriage yeah at that point, that does not make sense at all..I think u should have a serious discussion with ur wife and tell her how u feel about all that..Ask her if she will be happy and fine if u do d same stuff with an ex girlfriend ... ![wink](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/wink.png) |
Health / Re: 14-yr-old Indian Boy With Progeria by MayraC(f): 7:01pm On Aug 26, 2013 |
sunny t: God is great Sad pics..I can be wrong but how God is great here? Go and see this child and his family and tell them God is great !!! Seriously...R people stupid or what? We r all free to write comments but those comments have to make a lil sense ![tongue](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/tongue.png) Pls stop putting God everywhere...This poor child already suffers..d worse thing is that d disease gonna get worse as he ages..Just pray for him and his family..and pray God may help researchers and medecins to find a way to reduce the pain of people suffering from progeria.. |
Family / Re: My Wife And Her Ex- by MayraC(f): 6:41pm On Aug 26, 2013 |
coolsammy: Based on some Nairalanders advice, i had to move this story of mine to the family section. i was assured that i was going to get some candid advice from this section that will really help my case. My story goes does;
My wife still relates with her ex- and kept assuring me that there is nothing going on between them. though this her ex does not stay in same town with her. but i discover that she is always engaged with him on the phone and they exchange series of text messages via watapps. i av stumbled on several of such messages on her phone. i av taking time to put up fights with her on several occasions and even quarelled the so called ex- over phone. but they would nt just bulge. i knw my wife sees him whenever he comes to town. he even credits my wife's account occasionally. i knw u guys will be wondering if i dnt fulfill my responsibility as a husband. I do of course, give her monthly allowance that is equal her monthly salary cos she works. i av never for once allowed her to spend her salary on home issues. she spends it all for herself. i av a well paid job. i bought her a car and was even planning to change her car come early next year cos i already told her to start looking for the kind of car she would prefer. i even sat her down to inquire why she is doing this to us but she wouldnt come up wit any tangible excuse, all she kept saying is nothing going on btw them. she even told me of a recent jokingly that the ex- is tryng to buy her a car and try to inquire from me if i will nt be mad with that. i am just confused about the whole thing. dnt just knw wat step to take any longer. av told myself that divorce is not something i will want to settle for in life and considering again that there are issues btw us. it really make it difficult for me. the said ex- is also married with kids. why they wouldnt let go of each other is wat i am yet to understand. Pls i need a serious and matured advice on this. Thanks wow Am sorry about all that..Am a woman and I am not gonna lye..Seems like ur wife still has feelings for his ex..na u sabi ![tongue](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/tongue.png) I can be wrong tho..For how long have they been together? Seems like d guy is encouraging her too..I mean u can break up and still keep in touch and talk, there is nothing wrong with that...I saw ex who became d best friends ever so why not? But all that can only work if no one has no more feelings and no expectations..Seems like ur wife is not hiding nothing, so that's a good point..Relationship r based on trust..I can understand ur feeling tho..Just be confident in urself, and keep being understanding cuz that's a great quality..Relationship r not easy..marriage neither..nothing is perfect..Strongly believe that every relationship is a mix of patience, understanding, forgiveness, ..so we have to make it work.. |
Car Talk / Re: The Longest Road Trip You've Driven? by MayraC(f): 3:14am On Aug 20, 2013 |
rman: Lagos to Burkina Faso.
The route was: Lagos >>>> Zaria >>>> Sokoto >>>> Niamey ( Niger) >>>> Ougadugu ( Burkina Faso)
It took us close to 48hrs because with stopped in all the major cities.
It was with a couple of friends ( undergraduate days)
A very interesting road trip.
Where has this adventurous side of me gone? ![angry](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/angry.png)
Just wanna make a lil correction here ..It is Ouagadougou ..not Ougadugu ![wink](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/wink.png) |
Romance / Re: Is It Wrong To Have A Sugar Daddy for School Fees? by MayraC(f): 3:36am On Aug 14, 2013 |
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Romance / Re: Is It Wrong To Have A Sugar Daddy for School Fees? by MayraC(f): 2:44am On Aug 14, 2013 |
Donxavier:
Two questions
1.Why should anyone give $6500 for free? 2.Why should anyone expect to get $6500 for free?
Why not? Thanks God there is still people on this earth who give without expecting nothing !!!!!!! Secondly, u can thank d person who gave u d money in another way than giving sex !!!!!!!!! |
Romance / Re: Is It Wrong To Have A Sugar Daddy for School Fees? by MayraC(f): 2:12am On Aug 14, 2013 |
Donxavier:
For starters, the OP concerned is sexually active and is ok with the whole thing. Read her post well and she's smart too I must say cause she understands that there isn't any free lunch anywhere.Everything comes at a price but you don't seem to understand that which is why I asked if you were a learner ?
You are also talking as if it's the man's responsibility to just help her like that. Why must you even expect to get $6500 without giving anything in return That's what's wrong with your thinking which is why people suggested various means to raise the money(writing,entrepreneurship,bank loans,student aid, scholarships)......but the OP sees sleeping with sugar daddy as the easiest way to go and probably the only thing she could offer. Nobody is obligated to do anything about her situation except herself and nobody is judging her but she understands what she needs to do.
First if she put that post, I don't think she's completely ok with that...Secondly,u cannot use d fact that she is sexually active to validate d guy behavior and all this...''everything comes at a price'' ![](/faces/huh.png) Human values, human beings have NO price..By the simple fact of knowing that she needs money so bad and she's ready to do everything she can for that, this guy is just taking advantage of d situation..Pretty sad..Do u really think that she would have been with him if she did not need money...so pls again, some people have to stop taking advantage of other people's weakeness..If someone really wanna help, he can go ahead without taking any advantage of d situation...u cannot give money for helping expecting sex in return .. |
Romance / Re: Is It Wrong To Have A Sugar Daddy for School Fees? by MayraC(f): 1:16am On Aug 14, 2013 |
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Romance / Re: Is It Wrong To Have A Sugar Daddy for School Fees? by MayraC(f): 12:53am On Aug 14, 2013 |
Skinni10ne: Its wrong to sell ur body for anything. Try to hustle for money in other ways. Life comes with challenges, dont make immoral decisions because its easy. I agree but don't think anobody here can judge her..That's just pretty sad that she has to do that..The only thing I wanna say is ''Shame on that guy !!!!" If he really wanna help her and has money, he can't behave like that..he can just lend her d money and she can pay him back when she has a job if he agrees with that...But seriously people have to stop using money and other people's weakeness to get whatever they want !!! Sad.. (Modify) (Quote) (Report) |
Romance / Re: Is It Wrong To Have A Sugar Daddy for School Fees? by MayraC(f): 12:50am On Aug 14, 2013 |
Nobody here can judge u..That's just pretty sad that u have to do that..The only thing I wanna say is ''Shame on that guy !!!!" If he really wanna help u and has money, he can't behave like that..he can just lend u d money and u can pay him back when u have a job if he agrees with that...But seriously people have to stop using money and other people's weakeness to get whatever they want !!! Sad.. 3 Likes |
Romance / Re: Can Cheating Ever Be Acceptable? by MayraC(f): 12:05am On Aug 13, 2013 |
bukatyne:
I don't care the moral codes you live by but don't drag God into this before He gets annoyed with you.
Read Heb 13: 4 and let it sink if you are a Christian. If you are not, I'm sure that the Quran speaks against it. do u have a boyfriend? |
Romance / Re: How Real Is The Love Calculator? by MayraC(f): 8:35pm On Jul 21, 2013 |
sakaguchi: Dumb OP I agree lool seriously stop losing ur time ![wink](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/wink.png) |
Islam for Muslims / Re: China Bans Ramadan For Muslim Students by MayraC(f): 8:06am On Jul 16, 2013 |
miky:
Was about to say the same.. From simple fasting to wanting sharia, then comes extremists.. China is a serious country that has the determination to build its economy and become a betters society not to dabble in religious matters which are not only foreign but troublesome kudos to them!!
P.s they should ban Christianity too, and keep their budda wow ok China is a serious country, so that gives them d right to ban people from fasting ![](/faces/huh.png) Seriously ![](/faces/huh.png) Let s talk about human rights in China.. ![lipsrsealed](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/lipsrsealed.png) There is extremists everywhere, but that does not give u d right to ban d right people. Don't be an extremist urself by banning d right muslim people who want to fast ![embarassed](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/embarassed.png) I agree countries should be more aware about extremism and its dangers, but it is not by banning d right muslim..A lil tolerance guys ![smiley](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/smiley.png) .. U wrote they should also ban Christianity...A powerful economic country that bans everything ![](/faces/huh.png) pls, guys look a lil at d past and what happened to countries who tried to ban everything..Sure China, let s ban everything and do not respect human rights if that makes u stronger why not ![](/faces/huh.png) Until when...I don't known, just saying...Countries have to prevent and be aware of extremism but banning and do not respect human rights is not d right solution ![wink](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/wink.png) |
Romance / Re: Sex Is More Spiritual Than Physical by MayraC(f): 5:44am On Jul 12, 2013 |
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Family / Re: Mother Stabbed Her 8-month-old Baby 90 Times Because He Bit Her by MayraC(f): 5:11am On Jul 12, 2013 |
Poor baby ..Really really sad story.. Lots of sick people in this world ![angry](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/angry.png) |
Celebrities / Re: Charlyboy's New Photos by MayraC(f): 5:05am On Jul 12, 2013 |
wow so different from what we use to see out there ![shocked](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/shocked.gif) but why not ![tongue](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/tongue.png) If that makes him happy ![wink](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/wink.png) Am not a big fan tho..lool but showing again that some people dont give a f*** ![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) |
Romance / Re: Picture Of A Girl On Her Knees Proposing To A Guy by MayraC(f): 4:40am On Jul 12, 2013 |
wow just realized i did not saw d pic..Really funny.. ![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) Cannot stop laughing.. Lil weird cuz we do not use to but finally why not ![](/faces/huh.png) If she felt confortable doing that ![tongue](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/tongue.png) |
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Science/Technology / Re: There Are Just 34 Lions Left In Nigeria!!! by MayraC(f): 4:22am On Jul 12, 2013 |
wow did they count them ![](/faces/huh.png) R u sure they did not miss anyone ![tongue](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/tongue.png) looool |
Celebrities / Re: Is Rihanna Dating Drake? by MayraC(f): 4:19am On Jul 12, 2013 |
Let them be !!!!!!! ![smiley](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/smiley.png) |
Family / Re: Woman Sleeping In A Cot While Baby Sleeps On The Bed! by MayraC(f): 12:40am On Jul 10, 2013 |
Seriously ![](/faces/huh.png) Wow Something is seriously wrong here ![tongue](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/tongue.png) With such mom, I am definitively scared for d baby ![tongue](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/tongue.png) |
Politics / Re: Katsina Has Highest Rate Of Teenage Pregnancy — NPC by MayraC(f): 12:11am On Jul 10, 2013 |
Implementing conventions to reduce teenage pregnancy ![](/faces/huh.png) How ![](/faces/huh.png) Please, let's start by some basics..EDUCATION..I dont think any law gonna reduce d level of teenage pregnancy...Parents, school have a huge role here..Sometimes, teenagers do not even know d risk they r taking..yeah we are talking about teenage pregnancy, ok but seems like you forgot to talk about another huge issue, AIDS or other sexually transmitted diseases ![sad](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/sad.png) In my opinion, education is a major way to prevent teenage pregnancy. Biology classes should have a huge part related to sexuality..Medecins have to come in class and explain to teenagers what is really going on..what r d risk.., they should also have some testimonies of people who have been pregnant at a early age or people who have AIDS..and see the impact on their life, maybe the next time they gonna have sexual relations, they gonna think better. D only way d government could help here would be by providing funds to high schools to develop campaigns related to those issues, and financing specific classes or meetings related to those issues.. Education is a basis here ![smiley](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/smiley.png) |
Romance / Re: Can Cheating Ever Be Acceptable? by MayraC(f): 2:44am On Jun 26, 2013 |
D-Explorer: Cheating can be accepted depending on the status of the rela. "Depending on d status of d relationship" ![tongue](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/tongue.png) Am sorry but whatever d type of relation (u should read a lil d definition of a relation between 2 persons), relationship and cheating r NOT compatible at all..That s so easy guys, be strong, if u wanna cheat again and again and not stronger enough to be entirely committed to d one u say u "like or love", pls dont be in any kind of relation, be single, it is so easy and just go have fun with d ones who wanna behave d same ![wink](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/wink.png) |
Romance / Re: Can Cheating Ever Be Acceptable? by MayraC(f): 2:33am On Jun 26, 2013 |
miky:
thats the difference!! a man cheats and its nothing, absolutely nothing, no attachment zilch!! when a lady cheats you can be rest assured she either has feelings for the guy or about to.. thats just how God made it.. on the contrary no body goes out to cheat, but trying to fight a war that your already loosing blah blah.. na u sabi "A man who cheats has NO attachment, but a lady who cheats has feelings or she s about too.." ![tongue](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/tongue.png) Dont try to convince urself here ![tongue](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/tongue.png) U should just look a lil outside " thats just how God made it"..now God has something to do with cheating ![](/faces/huh.png) "Nobody goes out to cheat"...Seriously ![tongue](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/tongue.png) How can u explain that married men, or in a long lasting relationship r outside every week end, in clubs without their girl.. ![](/faces/huh.png) yeah just for enjoying d music, u r right, not to find someone or cheat.. ![wink](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/wink.png) Seriously, guys stop deceiving urself ![wink](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/wink.png) 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Can Cheating Ever Be Acceptable? by MayraC(f): 2:17am On Jun 26, 2013 |
miky:
why? its just ordinary sex.. whats so special about this..you guys will just zero urself to a corner Seriously ![tongue](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/tongue.png) I read lots of men comments on that topic, and that s pretty sad ..Cheating is "just ordinary sex".."what is so special about this.." wow ![smiley](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/smiley.png) Seems like some men r just trying to minimize d thing for not feeling guilty ![wink](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/wink.png) . Am sorry but cheating is not right, and is not just ordinary sex..Are u trying to convince urself?? Saying u love someone, and cheating are NOT compatible at all..If u want ordinary sex and cannot control urself, just go with some girls who agree with that kind of stuff, and just be SINGLE ![wink](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/wink.png) Seems like nobody never cheated on u..lol..u r such a lucky guy ![smiley](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/smiley.png) ..If think d day a girl u really like gonna cheat on u, u gonna change ur speech ![wink](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/wink.png) |
Crime / Re: N70,000 Mysteriously Turns To Pieces Of Paper by MayraC(f): 10:28pm On Jun 19, 2013 |
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