Since she possesses these qualities you mentioned, her body count doesn't matter. Everyone has a past. How are you even sure if a virgin would not cheat on you someday? Grab her now, before you lose a rare gem.

Bro. Please don't take her back. She will do same thing to you next time she sees another guy she admires.

Good one op.

Nice questions. I am gonna try them.

This is really painful. I know Mr Etubi in person. Still battling with the shock of his death.

FRANCISTOWN:
I totally agree with your immeasurable depth of wisdom. Cultures that worked in the past may not work now. Therefore, things that worked in the past may not work now.

A'ight so,
•Men should start carrying pregnancies.
•Women should start training their future husbands thru schools.
•Women should also bring fruits, food stuffs, money and pay groom price. As I'm paying your family, you are paying my family too. No cheating
•Women should fix their husbands' car tyres.
•Should a snake find it's way into the house, the husband and the kids should hide . The woman should kill it.
•Once the woman loses her ability to contribute her quota. She should be seen as irresponsible and worse than an infidel.
•Women should also do the heavy liftings around the house.
•Are we goin on vacation? The husband should hold the kids hands. Women should drag the luggage and throw them in the car's trunk.
•Women should also make their will and make their husbands beneficiaries too. Anybody can die first.
•On the wedding day. It shouldn't be the bride's day. It should be the couple's day.
A woman should put on nice blazers. There are nice suits for women too .
•A woman should grow beards too, so the kids can know there are two men in the house.
•In case there is an arson or inferno, any fire outbreak in short . The woman should firstly rescue her husband and her kids to safety even if it's at the detriment of her life. After all, a real man sacrifices his life for his family.
•The wife should defend the family in the case of uninvited visitors about the house in the middle of the night. The husband and the kids should hide in the basement.

Abeg if una remember anything, help me add.

At least, I'm paying a bride price for a reason

You nailed it bro!

I also feel that one other way to handle sexual urges is to redirect our energy to something more worthwhile, like writing, arts, music, sports, setting up New goal and pursuing them, among others.

Stop misrepresenting the Pope! You created a thread about this same issue earlier. I tried to educated you on what the Pope meant. You still held on to your earlier view. I don't think I will keep teaching you what the Pope meant. But misrepresenting the Pope is not really cool. And I really wonder why you seem to be so obsessed with this issue.

GodisStriking:
It's a gay parade on social media as they post these nasty thumb nails of gay scenes. Forget the stories behind them and see what the evil ones are doing.

Do you know you are indirectly drawing more attention to homosexuality by this unnecessary elaboration. Allow us to rest abeg. People who really understood what the Pope said are not wailing the way you are wailing.

If I already like the girl, I will accept.

GodisStriking:



Christ was crucified for the sodomite religion of Egypt.

The punishment for Sodomy is death not blessing.

The Pope never approved the blessing of Sodomy, if you really understood what I said. They are blessed as God's creatures. Their union can never be blessed by a priest. I don't know how best to explain this.

dkidd:

God clearly forbids gay and same sex relationships and if the pope can align himself with those words according to u then he actually supports and approves gay marriages wich is alk shades of wrong in Christianity which he's supposed to be a custodian of. I'm happy everything is coming to light as the true nature of the vatican has always been very far from true Christianity. Time will expose everything and everyone

You still do not understand what I meant. Everyone who asks for blessings from any priest irrespective of whether he is a sinner or not, should be blessed. This is not the same as blessing gay union. The Pope does not approve the blessing of gay union, but gays too could be blessed. After all, even Jesus loves the sinner but hates sin.

The Pope never approved gay marriage. He only meant that gay couples could be blessed just same way priests bless objects and individuals. It has nothing to do with blessing of their union. People just misinterpreted the Pope.

Nice one.

SweetBuns:
It’s called give and take
You provide financial stability and lifestyle, and you get companionship, love and your future generations in return

But I guess you’re too self absorbed to realize that
Women are people, not machines placed on the earth for your selfish whims and pleasures

You sound like only men benefit from companionship, love and future generations. Do women not also enjoy the above from men? Even sex which many women feel is an exceptional favour they are granting men, is enjoyed by women also. Selfishness is just too real in many relationship.

Well said!

jeromestarks:
There's no mind.

A computer has a CPU. Your body has a brain. Simple.

If there is no mind but brain, how are all the information we have in our brain stored. Are they stored as concrete material entities or as immaterial entities? If for instance, I have an image of a building in my brain, if someone scans my brain, will he see the image of the building exactly the way I conceived it?

This topic was inspired by a previous thread where someone asked: what made us believe in spiritual realities?
Some persons have argued that the spiritual can never be proven scientifically. That made me to wonder if the mind which everyone knows really exists, is a spiritual or a material reality.

Let's look at it from a philosophical point of view. Is the mind a material or a spiritual reality? It is true the mind needs the brain to function properly, but can we say the mind and the brain are exactly one and the same thing? When we store up information in our mind, are they stored up as material or immaterial substances? If our brain were to be scanned, would we see those images we stored in our minds?

Littlechild:
About Wet Dream

Wet dream is when a men ejaculate semen or a women have orgasm while they are asleep. Wet dreams happens when your physical body is full and need a release. Your physical body and spirit man need to have a synchronism for wet dream to occurs.

As an adult, your body will release semen/orgasm when you see your (spirit man) trying to pee in your sub physical state. Wet dream can also silently occur without you trying to pee in your dream state. Any other form of sexual wet dreams, or sex in dream that made you to ejaculate is pure demonic projection and spiritual attacks.

Like I said before; a normal wet dream will occur without demonic manipulation. It will still occur when you want to pee in your sub physical dream state.

Any other form of sexual wet dream is a spiritual attack.

I don't experience wet dream as pee in my dreams. Once I feel like urinating in my dreams (or even when I urinate in my dreams), I wake up to urinate in the physical. So, mine does not work like you are trying to present. Wet dreams are natural. Don't see evil where it does not exist. Of course, I am a Christian and I know evil exists, but we must not read evil in a natural phenomenon.

Nice write-up

My God! I know him in person. May he be found alive and healthy. Amen

You need to go for counselling. Go to a psychologist. You need serious therapy.

Let go. Your fantasies can never come to pass. There are other amazing guys too out there. Let go of this fantasy and embrace reality.

Let go. Your fantasies can never come to pass. There are other amazing guys too out there.

Samantha124:
I think in order to keep the chemistry going in a relationship, both parties need to have a life of their own outside of the relationship, just so that they can miss each other.

In that way, whenever they make time for each other, the chemistry will always be there... You'd just see it through the body language.

I agree with you. They need to get a life of their own, so they can give each other some space.

May God intervene in his situation

Try a heart to heart communication first. She might tell you what the problem is.

So much sense in your advice.