thanks for the reply,,, yeh i understand but i just need help and i dont no wot to do,,, people give me really weird looks wen i tell them hes 20 and im 16 so i dont no wot to do, does any1 think that is bad please be honest? and do i need to move on beens hes got a gf or carry on likin him? x

hey i really like this guy he has just turned 20 and im nearly 16 ,,, do u think its a big age gap and should i stay away, people tell me all different things and have mixed feeling about it, i really like him and definately know him very well. although at this moment in time he has a girlfriend and i feel like im having an affair coz he tells me he relli likes me but cant decide who he wants me or her, could anyone help please and give me some advice thanks x