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Food / Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by meyri: 9:21am On Oct 26, 2015 |
Breakfast-My My (moin moin) w/ fresh fish soup 1 Like
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Food / Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by meyri: 3:20am On Oct 11, 2015 |
Late night ugba. 1 Like
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Food / Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by meyri: 6:16am On Oct 05, 2015 |
armyofone: Eba and semo. |
Food / Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by meyri: 6:10pm On Oct 04, 2015 |
Finishing leftovers. Okro, egusi, and stew.
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Food / Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by meyri: 6:05pm On Oct 04, 2015 |
uniklinkum: What's in the picture? |
Romance / Re: Ladies: Do You Join Your Boyfriend In Watching Football Matches by meyri: 12:17am On Feb 18, 2015 |
Yeah. . . just to be present. |
Fashion / Re: Once Upon A Time Before Brazillian Hair by meyri: 6:27pm On Feb 12, 2015 |
Still use them well well ooo. |
Romance / Re: What Are You Getting Your Boyfriend/Husband On Val's Day? by meyri: 6:22pm On Feb 12, 2015 |
I'm going to try to be a good assistant and help him finish up his work projects. I promise not to complain. Then dinner and a movie if we not tired. |
Family / Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by meyri: 8:41pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
If you findings and suspicions are true, my advice is to put urself 1st. Do what you need to maintain your sanity and happiness (whatever that is to you), everything else is secondary, your children & husband. Once you find your peace, you can take of others. * Me, I can't be in the same environment with a cheating husband. * |
Romance / Re: What's The Factor That's Kept Your Relationship Or Marriage Till Today. by meyri: 12:49am On Nov 02, 2014 |
God, friendship, spontaneity, humility, finding our own happiness |
Romance / Re: Things That Many Young Ladies Are Guilty Of by meyri: 11:09pm On Oct 31, 2014 |
I'm guilty of number 8. I hate for for guys I think that I'm "expensive" so I played it down a lot of times when they want to buy something for me. If I give in they will say "see money". Neither do I want a guy to think I owe him something bc he had bought something for me. It got to a point where I don't except gift or allow a guy to pay anything unless we are exclusive. Even then I tread carefully. SMH. ... me and my wahala. |
Romance / Re: Should A Lady Cook For The Guy She's Dating? by meyri: 10:45pm On Oct 31, 2014 |
Same topic with different OPs! So I'l give the same reply as before. I don't like to cook (that doesn't mean I can't). So cooking for myself,let alone someone else is a chore. So I avoid it if I can. But I have to eat and save money so I cook. If my boyfriend want to chop he know he can come to my house and chop, he's just like any other guest. If I chop, my guest will chop. So I don't go out of way to cook for my bf, unless a occasion calls for it. It's a mutual thing. As long a two individual mutually agree to do this or that for each other, that one should no concern nobody. So there nothing right or wrong about cooking for your bf. In my opinion cooking, cleaning, doing laundry and the like on a consistent basis is too much if your title is just girlfriend. 1 Like |
Family / Re: How Much To A Man Really Need To Settle Down. by meyri: 10:13pm On Oct 19, 2014 |
My own viewpoint and my personal experience if it takes two people to get married, it also takes two people to plan a wedding. The planning should not be left to the man alone. Once two people agree to marry a budget should be set and both parties should save towards their wedding and bride price. Gone are the day where man takes and provide for all. Besides it said that two head is better than one. OP as long u have a steady job your savings is good enough for a wedding. You and your lady should have a budget that non-negotiable and both of you agree to remain a united front. It not impossible. Remember there is life after wedding. My two cents. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Ladies, Do You Like Light Skinned Guys? by meyri: 6:44pm On Oct 19, 2014 |
I like men. Dark, light what have you. No preference! |
Education / Re: Teacher Spends N400,000 To Renovate Classroom For Pupils by meyri: 11:00pm On Oct 06, 2014 |
Life of a public school teacher, indeed. I too have to put aside a small fund each month to provide my classroom/students with supplies. Kudos to Mrs. Opeogun! She's truly selfless. |
Celebrities / Re: Davido Lied! He Can’t Afford The Acquisition And Maintenance Of A Private Jet, S by meyri: 9:58pm On Aug 29, 2014 |
Doesn't concern me he doesn't feed me. 1 Like |
Family / Re: How Low Would You Go All In The Name Of Deliverance by meyri: 9:45pm On Aug 29, 2014 |
I don't believe in man healing man spiritually speaking. All these deliverance, all night prayer vigil doesn't make sense to me. Sure I pray and pray for others. But all the touching, singing, dancing, screaming, fasting, speaking in tongues I don't entertain. I let God do the delivering. |
Family / Re: What Would You Do? by meyri: 9:27pm On Aug 29, 2014 |
I don't have time to worry about wether or not it my business. Or if my friend already knows or wether she'll be mad at me. Her health could be at risk so I'll let her know or at least get her to see it for herself. If she wants to get mad or ignore it then she can carry go. I have said my own. 1 Like |
Family / Re: Would You Stand By Your Spouse, No Matter What? by meyri: 9:01pm On Aug 29, 2014 |
As long as he doesn't do anything that is detrimental to my life, health, my family or goes against my morals or beliefs then I have no problems standing by him. |
Family / Re: What To Do When Your Husband Won’t Help With House Chores by meyri: 7:02pm On Jul 11, 2014 |
I simply ask him to help, if he doesn't I just take my sweet time and complete at times carrying over for the next day. At times he finds that it taking me too long he'll do it himself or help me do it.. I try to minimize my chores by cleaning and washing as I cook, so when I'm done cooking I have no dirty pots or utensils. We eat from the same dishes so there's few to wash.It just us two and we both work, so chores I'd the least of our concern. |
Fashion / Re: Can You SHINE With An Aba Made Product by meyri: 10:28pm On Dec 08, 2013 |
As long as it looks good, why not. Clothes is clothes it not meant to last forever. I take Aba made anytime. |
Romance / Re: Cooking For Your Boyfriend In His House: Is It Right Or Wrong? by meyri: 12:50am On Nov 27, 2013 |
I don't like to cook (that doesn't mean I can't). So cooking for myself,let alone someone else is a chore. So I avoid it if I can. But I have to eat and save money so I cook. If my boyfriend want to chop he know he can come to my house and chop, he's just like any other guest. If I chop, my guest will chop. So I don't go out of way to cook for my bf, unless a occasion calls for it. It's a mutual thing. As long a two individual mutually agree to this or that for each other, that one should no concern nobody. So there nothing right or wrong about cooking for your bf. In my opinion cooking, cleaning, doing laundry and the like on a consistent basis is too much if your title is just girlfriend. 2 Likes |
Romance / Re: Does A Date Have To Be In A Resturant? by meyri: 1:46pm On Oct 15, 2013 |
No, my first date was at an art /literary festival in PH. Super fun! |
Food / Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by meyri: 12:57am On Sep 25, 2013 |
Late night snack, Noodles! 1 Like
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Romance / Re: Can You Marry A Non-graduate? by meyri: 8:39pm On Jul 19, 2013 |
I am currently in a relationship with a nongraduate. Though a graduate myself I never felt that we are on different level. We can discuss and relate to just about anything. He has his own business and provides for himself. So I don' t see the problem neither do I understand why people equate a graduate to a person that is educated, established, successful, eloquent speaker, experienced and a good provider. Here in Naija you can buy an education and unemployment is high so nothing is promised. It's just a matter of ingenuity and hard work, trust and believe I speak from experience. 3 Likes |
Family / Re: Would You Wait For Your Unmarried Elder Brother/sister Before U Marry? by meyri: 12:44am On Jun 25, 2013 |
Why would anybody put your life on hold for somebody else? I'm so happy that my younger sister didn't wait for me, bc she'll still be waiting. She now been married three years with kids. She happy I'm happy. 1 Like |
Computers / Re: Youtube Video On Nairaland by meyri: 8:56am On Apr 19, 2013 |
Religion / Re: Pastor Adeboye: A Jet is Necessary For God's Work by meyri: 11:55pm On Apr 13, 2013 |
Getting 10% from your congregation is also necessary to do God's work! 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Long Courtship Is Bad Business By Funke Egbemode by meyri: 12:55pm On Apr 11, 2013 |
bukatyne: . Destiny na destiny. If something is destined to happen it will happen. No matter what path it takes to get there you eventually fulfill that destiny. Whats the probability u will find your man in uni and he will marry you? You take your chances. Overall if you don't want a long courtship avoid dating while in school. At the same time that doesn't mean be a recluse while in school, make friends just without commitments. Be single(not in a relationship). Personally I cant be a liability in a relationship, I have to make my own money. So just as I expect from myself, I expect the same from my partner. Im sorry but a student just cant do that. Whether you date for a short period or a long period you cant know everything about a person. Marriage is a leap of faith. But usually in your head or on paper you have certain qualities that you look for in partner. Within a short amt of time you can automatically eliminate those who doesn't fit your criteria. |
Romance / Re: Long Courtship Is Bad Business By Funke Egbemode by meyri: 10:57pm On Apr 10, 2013 |
bukatyne: Hopefully at age 33 you should be financially stable to be able to support children. Whether or not you plan before or after marriage the time to have kids is not the point. It not always necessary to have kids immediately after marriage..it good to wait to there is financial stability. A lot of people marry w/o being where they want to be financial, but work together as a couple to get there. So during this time they will put off having kids. |
Romance / Re: Long Courtship Is Bad Business By Funke Egbemode by meyri: 10:18am On Apr 10, 2013 |
adconline:\ Then don't have kids. I don't see how people can immediately start having kids soon after marriage. Children should be planned. It should be marriage...years...then kids. |
Romance / Re: Long Courtship Is Bad Business By Funke Egbemode by meyri: 10:14am On Apr 10, 2013 |
bukatyne: U don't automatically love a person then date that person..... I avoid dating while in school, if my intention of dating is to eventually marry someone why get into a relationship if you cant see that person as a marriage mate or marriage in the near future. Time wasting. You should be matured doesn't mean you will be mature...finishing school, getting a job, and being independent are big responsibilities u must have a level of maturity to be successful in these areas. An 18 year can be "mature" but is inexperienced, and is bound to change. I dont see how you can be in relationship and be considered single. Unless dating is considered hanging out w/ friends. I don't agree with either long or short courtships. Now whether that turn into a marriage or a happy marriage depends on the two individuals it not a time factor. That notwithstanding, within a short amount of time you should easily be able to decide whether or not a person is right for you. Your relationships continue to grow and you continue to fall in love while married. So I don't see why courting should take years. Any relationship is bound to fail it a given. It depends on the persons involve. |
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