Are hospitals being shut down?

Don't ever try to reunite with her.just try and process it on your head,your once wife left you for another man,eventually thing went wrong to which she asking for your mercy.even if you accept your mind would intermittently remember you that a man had once bleeped her while you had an issue with her.moreso,she has learnt her lesson doesn't mean you should reconcile with her,she doesn't worth a wife.am very sure that is not the reason why the man send her out,because didn't he knows she has children before considered marry her.i would kindly advise you increase the upkeeping you sending to her in order to sustain them and sometime help them if they are in need not for anything but for the sake of your children you have with her

andyanders:
The truth herein is that, you can ONLY trust urself. Most friends hang arround u, 'cus of what they can get from you. You can have that trust with a friend, but dine with him with long spoon. Never give him ur whole heart.

it left for open heart to maintain his/herself

It been a year now and you do nothing about it,is it now you you want to act.initially,if you want to confront once again or do anything about it,their or his response would be 'you haven't forgotten about it since all these while' because the man didn't felt bad about the incident;meanwhile, he thinks it is normal.since your father says nothing regard the incident,you have to let it go.or you explain the hardship you are facing right now for the fact that you have no car anymore which was caused by his brother.

Ijaya123:


The silent treatment is simply because sitting her down and talking to her has not worked.

after all he is the head of the family,he knows how to talk to her that would make her adhere to he says.

Do take judgement into your on behalf of God

LeeSmart:

Lol comrade leave ashawo small now, hahaha.

i think you get it wrong,she is riped already

Ijaya123:


How many times is he supposed to sir her down to express his displeasure to such statement?

then is it the silent that develop between them would be the solution.

andyanders:


It must have been someone that knows him that planned for his kidnap and eventual death that followed.

Never disclose to anyone ur travel plan/details, unless ur immediate family 'wife nd kids'.

He must have recognized any of them, after collecting the ransome, they killed him.

They will all die painfully.

your deduction sound truly.however,how do we identify our frenemies

Exceed15:

If this these people were caught and given jungle justice one idiot NL would say jungle justice is evil. It shall not be well with the perpetrators in Jesus name

same here,and rip their flesh off

intruder15:


A single mother doesn't mean she is less than human. What matters is her story and how she fends for her baby. Does she depend on others to feed and take care of her baby? Is she working her ass out to ensure that she doesn't beg anyone for funds?
I find hardworking women attractive. They may be bossy and focused but also a baby when around the right person. Her story matters. It may be fabricated as well. Read between the lines.

this is what the guy is seeking for,so,he need to inculcate it.

Evolutionism:

Yes go ahead.
You have my full backing.

when things goes wrong hope you won't run

chipet67:

Mine na from childhood. Till date, I still have one bothering me, to a point her daughter grew up and also making advances at me too.
Satan I win you. I thank God for distance.

the woman and her generation are nothing to write home about.

Persephone1:
She going through a tough time, seeking compliments is not bad . Uncle if you can't compliment,move on !

you live with her that made you know what she going through or you saying this just because you have been mesmerise by her beauty

That is how they find red flag for themselves.are there no girl at where you work or perhaps you bump at any location

Kobojunkie:
What is wrong with mentioning his mother?

If OP doesn't want his mother mentioned at all in his marriage then OP should cut his mom off completely so she holds no place at all in his life and his marriage. You can't make a god out of a human being, and cause that god to feature in the lives of others around you, while expecting them not to mention the place that god occupies. It doesn't work that way.

I don't say what the OP is demanding from his wife is necessary.but the woman need to abid to what his husband want and doesn't in order to enjoy the marriage she and her husband have been building for a long time.moreover he is the head of the house.

Kobojunkie:
Apologize for voicing an insult-free opinion that may even contain elements of the truth? Are women not allowed to voice their opinions in what is their marriage as well?

yeah,she maybe true.but she shouldn't have mentioned his mother.we cherish our mother more than others do.

The purpose of them demanding for ransom from his family is for him to get release from them.but no,they cut his yet-fulfill-promise life short.it quite unfortune,someone who would have been planing how he would celebrate chrismas&new year.may his soul rest in peace

Dzzzz:
..I don’t go to her place..She comes around and greet like Father Christmas

you shun/caution her seriouly that you can never ever try that with her for the fact she is even your friend's wife

Cromagnon:
àìmọye

meaning

yemmit90:


Majority of guys telling this kind of story are only saying what they are fantasising about. Single women, not to talk of married can't be begging you for sex, the highest they can do is to give you an obvious green light.

If a woman really want sex, she will easily get it from men, so why would she be begging you for sex?

you maybe true.besides they have husband who can satisfy them with that unless he is not giving them the attention they are seeking for.

VULCAN:
Are there people who don't know what an "Ex" is?

Or are you a preteen?

oh!! It escaped my mind.i thought it was the other guy that said they are just friends.

Danyyyyyyyyyyy:
Alright

anticipating

Danyyyyyyyyyyy:


I already have many , I'm just here to debunk the colored hair theory

really
i won't mind if you could accept what pop up from mail

Since all this while,God is wonderful.this is why people said a evil deed can never be done without eventually reveal

You are finding someone compliment you here,why don't get someone who will compliment you physically.

lordnkem000:

Did you ask her if she was toxic? Did you ask her if she was creating issues and so with the man? No man will force a woman away because she didn't give him money, unless she never gave him his respect
That's my point

we can judge this unless we are feed from the both side.

elmagnifico411:
Aswear, I dey wonder too.. cos me no dey see anybody cross my path to even know if I go fall or not.

that is how God does his miracle.what even supprise me most is the fact that they(ladies)are the one making advance

AliEzeOlu:


My dear, please Read to understand. You won't die if you do. Did she say she wasn't supportive. Her ex wanted far more than she could afford from her.

Will she go and steal, commit harlotry or kidnap a minor just to please the phoolish, selfish man?

i read it with calmness,so don't tell me that.there is a reason for me saying that.she may and may not because we are not the one that had relationship with her.that is why i included she should amend if she is not.