RedCreme21:
Second paragraph.

OK I get it. Thank you!

RedCreme21:
Neither. The soldier would make things worse, and her disgracing the man publicly would make it seem as if she's guilty of all he's been saying.
He's married, thats his weak point. She shouldnt threaten him outright, but in a subtle way, make it clear that he's a family man with a good reputation to uphold.
It depends on her delivery. She can do it stupidly, and he would send thugs to kill her. Or she can send her message and he'ld back off.

What kinda message would make him back off

luvyaself95:
Let the girl talk by herself and do action also
why are you disturbing yourself like this.

I'm only asking if what she wants to do is right.

Remember, she's on her siwes/IT here. Thanks

Good evening nairalanders. Please I need your candid advice on what my girlfriend should do

There's this particular guy where we're observing our siwes.. Showed interest in her and she told her NO! But he persisted even after knowing I'm her boyfriend..so in the course of winning her over, he paid for her wig, the one I actually bought for her cause he taught it was new... While all these was going on, I was aware. They never had a time together cause my girlfriend is always with me. Now, cause he saw he lost and my girlfriend won't give him anymore attention, sometimes, my girlfriend tends to be more romantic with me when he's around. Now, he has resolved to be telling everyone he spent so much for her, and he already slept with her. My girlfriend is so mad right now she feels like disgracing him whenever he sees him in public, or calling her bro on him cause her bro is a soldier. Mind you, this man is a married man with kids

I'm furious about this too.. What do u think she can do? Should she go on with her initial plan of disgracing him outside where people/ students or his co workers are? Or call her soldier bro on him


Thank y'all in advance