Felimax:


I don't have a choice bro. I know the level of temptation that follows when a man decides to get married, mostly a man with grace. My only advice, hold on to God and move on regardless of what any pastor or bishop will tell you. Open your mind, listen to God and follow.

Ask him to speak that you are listening. The world including my Reverend father in church all asked me to postpone my wedding because things were difficult for everybody as at that time, they were all giving so many kind of excuses why i should postpone the wedding. I tired to know what God wants and to my greatest surprise it was a Keke Rider that gave me God's message. He was talking but never knew he was talking to me, i got the message and moved on.

The moment you decide to get married, though some people don't have same experience that is when you know there is witchcraft.
That was the time everybody i was owing started dragging me to pay them their money but when God is on your side, hmm.

Your wedding will be successful regardless in Jesus name. Ask God to continue to have mercy on you and your spouse and tell Him you are a failure without Him, my brother if you nor va believe God before you go believe am by force. He will speak through Radio, Beggers, anywhere you find yourself God will speak, just open the ears of your mind, speak very little regardless of what you hear from God. God hates people who don't know how to guide their tongue.

I don't know why i am typing so much, i don't want to but i have to.
Tell people what they want to hear and NEVER what they need to hear, ask your spouse to do the same thing.
To the extent i had to tell everybody i was not marrying again, na that time i see witchcraft. i shock dem o, some are still in shock till now, waiting for my marriage to crumble. Let them wait till eternity. I am four kids already, it is not my power. My brother believe in God and nobody else.

Shalom!

Wow this is really insightful...thank you sir!

Felimax:


Your wedding will come and go in Jesus name. The hand of God will rest upon your dream and your heart desires will met. I have taken your details and I will do the needful as I can soonest.

Congratulations in advance!

Amen� don't know how to say thank you for your kindheartedness. Your words are full of life and you have the ability to save a soul. God bless you for me sir!

Felimax:


Which month are you looking at?

August...I can't really imagine that some people are saying things that are really demeaning and depressing by their comments. Thanks alot for concern and being positive.

GenBuhari:
Do the wedding according to what your pocket can manage. If it is #100,000 so be it.

Thanks for your advice

chival:

I think you mean your wedding plans are at stake, not astake. Anyway, depending on goodwill to fund your wedding is all shades of wrong. Forget about this issue of age, biological clock and what my mates are doing. If you cannot afford a wedding now, then this is probably not the right time for it. Already, you sound stressed. Take it easy and plan this properly with your wife. Both of you should save together for a modest wedding that will not put a big hole in your pocket. I pray your bride to be is a good and understanding woman. It will make the load easier to bear. All is well.

Amen! Thanks alot

[quote author=Nyascobar1414 post=114516575]New scope alert...

You guys are always smart though...[I appreciate you for your comment. This is my experience right now, if you believe it or not doesn't change the fact that I'm saying the truth. The fact the many people lie to gain favour does not mean the truth doesn't exist anymore. It's your heart that you know. Thanks ]

Greetings sirs and mas!

I'm a male graduate (35yrs) without a job but I'm hustling for survival in this our harsh naija. Honestly, it has not been easy for me without connections, backups and inheritance.

My desire to get married to attract God's blessings is eating me up and giving me sleepless nights. I've been with my girl for over six years and I think I might be missing it, if I wait for things to get Rossy before settling down.

I've done the first step by the grace of God I've also picked a date for the marriage/wedding which is fast approaching and I've proceeded buying few things for the marriage. But the problem now is that the contribution group which is the main source of the money budgeted for my wedding has been dissolved���.

Please! I need help, I can't keep mute and have BP or die in silence. Please my people, if God laid it in your heart to assist me, please help me with anything, nothing is too small.

My phone number and account details below: God bless you!
0047503664 GTB
08050592542.

Greetings sirs and mas!

I'm a male graduate (35yrs) without a job but I'm hustling for survival in this our harsh naija. Honestly, it has not been easy for me without connections, backups and inheritance.

My desire to get married to attract God's blessings is eating me up and giving me sleepless nights. I've been with my girl for over six years and I think I might be missing it, if I wait for things to get Rossy before settling down.

I've done the first step by the grace of God I've also picked a date for the marriage/wedding which is fast approaching and I've proceeded buying few things for the marriage. But the problem now is that the contribution group which is the main source of the money budgeted for my wedding has been dissolved���.

Please! I need help, I can't keep mute and have BP or die in silence. Please my people, if God laid it in your heart to assist me, please help me with anything, nothing is too small.

My phone number and account details below: God bless you!
0047503664 GTB
08050592542.

07031273850

pegbeaduma@gmail.com

Your contribution is welcome even if you are below 30, no restrictions.

This is absolutely a difficult choice, it takes extraordinary courage to make. Different strokes for different folks, so whats your take?

If you have passed this age, what were the things you did that make you glad and proud. Also, what are the things you wish you would have done to change your life.

Your opinions would be highly appreciated, thanks.

Greetings to all in here. What is your advice for an unemployed graduate.

Please I need your advice urgently. I met this girl who has a child from her previous relationship. She told me point blank, the endless happiness she feels ever since we met. She is nice, caring, hardworking. She is totally endowed with the lovely and impeccable attributes to make a good and happy home based on my critical evaluation and assessment on her since inception of my relationship with her.

The only apparent pitfall or roadblock in the relationship is that, she has someone else's child.
Please advise me, should i go ahead or just quit my plans to take the relationship to the next level?
Thanks![b][/b]