hahahahahahahahahahahahahhahahahahha! god, save me ooooo i wan die 4 lafff!  wait o @poster did u just mention big surprise somewhere during ur conversation  hahahahahahahaha. who do u really wanna surprise? the celebrant or yourself? why not just give her the bleeding money and b done with it? or u get xtra when u wan take pay 4 ur hospital bill, because she fit book u into vip room 4 igbobi. my broda i fit forgive u say u think am sha but no try am.

ifihearam:

Hey peeps,there are certain things guys do these days and it keeps me wondering why,though i have not done it before and dont fin i would at least not for now.There are guys dating a girl or interested in a girl and they discover the girl is highly interested in another guy and the next thing they do is to go beg that guy or threaten him to ave their babes alone.Do you think its good or a sign of cowardice.

To the girls if a guy does that to you,would you consider it as love or weakness on the part of the guy.

I declare this discussion open

WOW! MY NEWEST DEFINITION OF A SUCKER.

midaskid:

TO MAKE THE PERFECT 9JA BABE THE FOLLOWING RULES MUST APPLY:
-COKE BOTTLE FIGURE(BIG JUGGS AND TIGHT BUTT)IE "FIGURE 8"
-SWEET FACE(GLOING WITH LOTS OF PRIDE)
-RECENTLY WE ADDED GOOD HEIGHT AND NICE LEGS
-DARK OR LIGHT( DEPENDS ON INDIVIDUAL CHOICES)
-GOTTA HAVE STYLE
-GOOD COOK 2 (IF U R IN 4 D LONG RUN)

EASIER TO SAY MERCY JOHNSON!

TO MAKE THE PERFECT 9JA BABE THE FOLLOWING RULES MUST APPLY:
-COKE BOTTLE FIGURE(BIG JUGGS AND TIGHT BUTT)IE "FIGURE 8"
-SWEET FACE(GLOING WITH LOTS OF PRIDE)
-RECENTLY WE ADDED GOOD HEIGHT AND NICE LEGS
-DARK OR LIGHT( DEPENDS ON INDIVIDUAL CHOICES)
-GOTTA HAVE STYLE
-GOOD COOK 2 (IF U R IN 4 D LONG RUN)

@poster  !a break for a year! now u seem totally confused girl! Let me tell u something: No lady in this day and age should think of going into a relationship that tends to head nowhere. Look, you have just made it quite clear that you have not really been in a real relationship at all. Showing love or sharing it with the opposite sex is not foolishness neither is it weakness. If love was so bad why did our folks fall in love ? The important thing is that you need to be in a relationship with a future. You are 20 y.o now people will say stuff like

googles:

[size=13pt]aint nuffin wrong in that. . . . . . . . . i avent dated anyone for a year naw and am loving it
wat could be better than a life devoid of boys and the natural headache they come with huh  [/size]

OR

madlady:

  ^^Total agree with you.
     
      @Poster you have loads of time for a Boyfriend in the future.

        Good luck with your studies.

OR EVEN

Tarmpa:

There's nothing wrong in it my Dear,u're just 20,  Just concentrate on your studies & come out with flying colours ok,. Did u know what? U dont even have 2 tell people that u have no boy friend,afterall,u owe them no explanation.

Baby doll, I will tell u the truth 8 yrs time u are gonna b 28 and guess what! You guessed it u start running out of time(as a lady of course). Out of desperation many fail to make the right choice by then and end up with whats left. Dont b rigid about such things just be sensible becos what you may desperately be searching for then could have been possessed now.

And this stuff about a year break, who put that into your brain? When the year is over, what do you intend to do? Go wild, or start dating by numbers, you need a plan or you are gonna fail. Or would you date the first guy that toasts you next year? What about if the best guy that God has picked for you toasts you tonight? what will u do, turn him down?

clueless!

HAHAHAHA.

abi2008:

I ask because mine doesnt acknowldge birthdays, christmas, new year, valentines day ,  not that he needs to per se but what i mean is on days such like when nice gestures can be performed they pass by like a non event ALL THE TIME.  My experience is once married all nice gestures go ,  or is that just me?  and no im not a materialistic person at all i always believe the thought counts , 

so, in general are they romantic ,  ?   

HAHAHAHA! Not our fault we dey hustle. U don ever hear of austerity, na im be the Prime Minister 4 Nigeria. Face it if ur hubby buys a new ride una no dey go flex, promotion nko? All these occassions when u mention so u no no if ground no level? abeg free the guy the only thing u can do is try rekindling the old flame. Its still there somewhere if not e 4 no marry u!

ebonyz:

I am sorry to ask but was your marriage an arranged marriage? i asked this because didnt u know he was like that before marrying him?

Oh i see, are u saying he used to acknowledge those dates b4 u got married?

Thats why he asked those questions. Since u married 4 love, u bam , nothing do u. If ur hubby is not making the right moves make them for him and u will c e go follow, e nor b guy? even my popsi self e dey understand code.

Hi, I may b condemned here but I believe I have a point. @poster pls do not forget certain facts, you are 20 y.o. does not mean u are a baby anymore dont be deceived life no longer begins at 40 it now begins at 18! so lets do the maths, u guessed it, u are already 2 years in.In some countries you would have been a mother by now.  So lets look into the future. Do want to get married? OK, I guess that's yes. Having a boyfriend is only the beginning. You have to understand a guy and this takes time. If you are  lucky it may take years 4 u guys to be accustomed 2 each other. Believe me girl I have seen ladies get married at the age of 20. Its wise because I doubt if u will like a situation where ur kid will be just 20 and you 50. Its wise to get married early and remember u are a lady, remind me when menopause starts. Dont get facts wrong girl, I encourage u to have a boyfriend BUT YOU BOTH SHOULD EXERCISE DISCIPLINE AND RESTRAINT!.
Thats the key fact.

U want it straight? Ok, I'll give it 2 u straight. HELL NO! . Reason: She will do it again, Probably worse

Beats me too

Everything!!!

WOW! Did I miss somtin? Whats the basis 4 comparison? Beauty or acting prowess? Beauty! I am a black man, not that I am Black but I believe black is beauty, so 1 up for Jackie. More so as an "ass lover" I totally dig Jackie's ass no offence Nadia but Jackie takes it all there. Nadia has all the looks but who needs the looks when Jackie's got quality. So Jackie's my pick.

MINAY2K:

@MIDASKID, re u from a poor home cos u sound like a golddiger, 4 God sake am doing just 2 well 4 myself, nd i said i dont need dis billionairs money. wont u just leave me alone.
oh so u prefer a biger fish if u wan run your own show, so dis implies dat u can also dat a maried woman. so tell me who no bad 4 dis life we dey now

Poor Home , Rich Home, thats the difference btw me n u! I am from a home . And I am not ashamed 2 say it. Right now you are just saying (also proving) that you are not from a home. Besides I just said that since u wanna date married men, y date dem big and I suggested that they give u so much comfort, why not try the older ones, when get ur mate 4 house. I do not intend to date married women, hell no! I am just trying to keep u from making mistakes and also show u what its like 2 have ur papa or ur hubby having an affair outside marriage. And as 4 the golddigger thing, humans just conclude without proper facts. I dont dig gold, I dig diamonds! get that fact right.  

MINAY2K:

@MIDASKID, re u from a poor home cos u sound like a golddiger, 4 God sake am doing just 2 well 4 myself, nd i said i dont need dis billionairs money. wont u just leave me alone.
oh so u prefer a biger fish if u wan run your own show, so dis implies dat u can also dat a maried woman. so tell me who no bad 4 dis life we dey now

Poor Home , Rich Home, thats the difference btw me n u! I am from a home . And I am not ashamed 2 say it. Right now you are just saying (also proving) that you are not from a home. Besides I just said that since u wanna date married men, y date dem big and I suggested that they give u so much comfort, why not try the older ones, when get ur mate 4 house. I do not intend to date married women, hell no! I am just trying to keep u from making mistakes and also show u what its like 2 have ur papa or ur hubby having an affair outside marriage. And as 4 the golddigger thing, humans just conclude without proper facts. I dont dig gold, I dig diamonds! get that fact right.

MINAY2K:

@midaskid, swthrt u geting d whole tin wrong, i did'nt dat dis guy because of his money, i dated him cos i find comfort wenever am wit him, nd bside sm1 stole my dad 4 my mum SO WATZ D BIG DEAL. another tin i want u 2 no is dat i already ve it @ d back of my mind dat wen i get maried my husbant canot nd wil not b hundred % faithful. OR can u swear dat u wil b 100% faithful 2 your wife.

Let me get dis straight, u dated him because of comfort! Cos u needed fatherly luv! Well, isn't thats just scandalous? So because u had issues when growin up so u opt for a family man. Face it gal, u are so damn wrong. We are africans and our culture frowns at such. Or do u tink ur mom will be glad 2 hear that u were dating a married man? Letting another innocent woman go tru thesame heartache she went tru, gal its wrong because u are deprieving another woman of the love thats rightfully hers. Whatever goes around comes around, pls expect thesame from ur hubby cos its the way of the world. So if u need my advise: since you have started it u better keep it up. continue dating married men at least if u wan chop frog u go chop big one. Try the richer old ones, they are more comforting.

As for me if I wanna cheat I prefer "okpo" wen go chop money chop am well well but no go carry am 4 mind say I love am! so if she get belle 2moro, she no go even need tell me.

@MINAY2K , Ok one question : What pleases the heart that one is not proud of? And if were so great 2 date a married fellow, how come the chap never took u to his matrimonial home? I bet he never. Did this fellow ever meet ur folks or did u meet his? How would u feel if u found out that ur liaison with Mr X was causing Mrs X sleepless nights? Or 2 know that he no longer tucked the kids in, rather he was tucking u in? What about all the times he told Mrs X he had no money 4 food and fees for the kids, only 2 end up taking u 2 chicken rep.? Be sincere 2 us all and tell me, are u still pleased at heart?

@platinumnk a little bit of weed is good 4 d mind gal. It kips me focus'd

@MINAY2K you are proud to have dated a married man "not for his money". How would u feel if someone else dated ur hubby "not for his money". Anyway if I where a lady I will b very very grateful to have another woman date my husband for his money, not 4 love cos thats mine 2 keep!

Think about it while I roll another chronic

Mama GEE ! 3 days in Nland n I already know ya! keep it up cos I hear there is gonna b an election soon on Nland and I bet ur noisy arse is gonna b a force 2 reckon with

lalaboi:

Tse u go write lrics for them?

Dem fit pay?

Point of correction: Styl-plus not broke, they just ran out of lyrics. Lets face it they are tru with "Olufunmi", dealt with all d "Iyaba Saras'" we have finished "calling their names"after "4 yrs don waka" them no still "Runaway" rather dem say make we "Stay Alive" so probably d ink is just dry.

simple answer, NO.

@poster 2much of everything is bad. So u got ur answer

Poster I strongly advise you look b4 u type. might get messy u know

Y r u all looking @ the little girl? How about the older one @ the edge of the pic. I bet she loves it.