If you cannot trust your nanny enough that you have to resort to a nanny cam, then she

she shouldn't be your nanny in the first place. Plus in many places it's illegal to videotape

someone without their knowledge.

If you want to know how the nanny is doing, look to your baby. Does he get excited to see

the nanny? Does he smile at the smile? Does the baby have any marks on his body? Is the

baby clean? Dry diaper when you come home? All of these are signs of whether or not the baby

is being taken care of correctly. It is completely fine, and should be encouraged by the nanny,

that you do "drop ins" aka surprise visits. Don't tell the nanny that you are going to come home

for lunch or what not and just stop by. Or stop by the activity your nanny says she will at with

your baby. Or have someone else you trust do it.


I would use one if I had serious suspicions, but I would have suspect abuse of my baby and not petty theft.

Maybe he went to the strip club from work and masturbated on his way home?

Just let it slide and watch him.

You can talk until you're blue in the face. At this point he fells he isn't an alcoholic.

How can he make something out of himself when he chooses to reject everything over drinking?

He intentionally refuses to live his life like he's supposed to . . .he wont work,ever,

be sure of that . . .he's such a loser. But he's lucky your sister keeps him there . . .he

doesn't deserve anything . . .

Sounds to me like he needs to grow up. He is verbally and emotionally abusing you.

You need to somehow communicate with him how he's making you feel and stop allowing

him to treat you with such disrespect. If he doesn't want to change his behavior

then maybe it's time to re-think your marriage. Do you want to continue for the

rest of your life feeling the way you do? You deserve to be happy and to have a hus-

band who knows how to show you how important you are to him. He is the equivalent of

a school bully and sounds like he doesn't feel good about himself so he finds pleasure

in making you feel beneath him so he may feel better about himself. The decision is yours-

continue to accept this painful self-defeating behavior or stand up for yourself.

Incorrect social behaviour towards men . . . .

A lot of random strangers think it's their right to strike up a conversation with any girl they see.

Girls get tired of this pretty quickly. Your "hello" is probably innocent-but lots of guys aren't. . .

and any pretty girl knows- in some situations- if you so much as make eye contact with a random stranger

guy- you're likely to be followed- or worse.


So don't take it personally.

Very useful and up one.There is much truth to the facts parents can fuel sibling rivalry

by being partial to one child over another . . . each child is unique and their temperaments vary

However, each one still needs to be loved and encouraged! It is the responsibility of the

parents to help each child feel secure . . .

The people bent out of shape

have nothing better to do th-

an look down from their ped-

estals of emptiness and criti-

size everyone. Love thy neig-

hbor is the rule. Maybe not

invite him to their house is

supposed to be o.k but bigo-

try is VERY not o.k.




Shame on all those bigots you talk to. They are poor
christians.

Many spy software out there. Know not a free one that is not virus free.

Marriage is work, no doubt about it. l think if you think it'll be peaches and creams,
you're living in dreamland with pink unicorns. You get the good,the bad and the ugly but
ultimately if you can both get to bed, make love then you're doing alright.
My partner and l have gone through the loss of our baby at term, financial loss and at times,
when we wanted to throw in the towel, and at one point we were walking out the door. We
realized that we were fighting because we were stressed, and it wasn't worth it. Nothing is
worth it.
Marriage is what you make it.The harder each person works to make the marriage successful,the
more likely it will be successful. None of this happens by accident or by good fortune.

Hey as long as you've decided to live with him, have some fun with it.

Burn his dinner(his share) once in a while. Get a new haircut,work out,

look really hot, and cultivate some new male friends. Go out with the girls

and have them over.

Develop a life independent of him- it may come in handy sometime.

If he's stu.pid enough to leave reciepts around, don't confront him, just

leave the top part with the hotel name somewhere where he'll have to search

to find it(but make sure he finds it and wonders if you saw it). If he cares

about you,he'll notice and fix up,otherwise, he could care less.


Start to put some money aside. Divorce lawyer or a new wardrobe-it's up to you not him.

How about choosing to forgive someone else for what they did after 29 years?

Maybe writing a letter to your rap.ist is not what you should be doing right now.

You may want to choose something else. Good luck in your recovery.

You may want to use mineral foundation in matte. To actually lessen the oily skin, you can try the Monistat Chaffing Powder-Gel and

use it as a foundation primer. First,you can use any moisturizer. Second,apply the Monistat Chaffing Powder-Gel . . let it dry for like a

minute or two. Then, when it's dry,apply a mineral foundation. I've tried and tested it already . . .it really worked for me. Besides,it's an

inexpensive alternative to highend foundation primers.


Physician's formular is supposed to work really well too and it has salicylic acid in it just in case you have acne.

Wanna borrow my wig? I got two.

We were sitting on our porch the other day and saw that new neighbors moved in that day across the street.

My partner remarked that I should go say "HI". So I did. I went downstairs and across the street and introduced

myself and told them to come over if they needed anything. When I came back, he had this amazed look on his face.

He was beaming. He said he couldn't imagine doing that and that he's just so proud and impressed that I can.

It wasn't so much the words . . . it was the look on his face.


I get compliments from him daily(hes just an odd duck) but this one took the cake.

Well . . . good luck with that.

At 20 your brother-in-law needs to man up! WTF? He should have a job and his own place.

But I really think he shouldn't be your husbands problem. Where are their parents? I would

give your husband a deadline to get his brother out. You can threaten to leave yourself or place

illegal drugs in his bedroom and call the cops.


You are breaking the number one rule of marriage .  . .NEVER let brother/sister live with married
couple. Fire waiting to happen.

Oh my goodness! You don't know? Babies are very in-tuned with the works of the paranormal.

When she stares off like that she's probably looking at the ghost of the teletubby who killed itself.

Most Guys get married because they don't want to be sitting around looking like you . . .probably in  a nice house,

expensive car, maybe a corporate job or business owner-but lonely as hell. What happily single guy responds to

every answer posted on his page? Do you really think all that sex cares about you? Men live for sex but an orgasm

lasts maybe 15seconds. Who wants to be walking the streets like you with fat wallet and sports car, maybe a luxury car

secretly wishing you had a wife, secretly wishing somebody besides your parents gave a f^%$ about them. So your goal,

your platform is to show the world why men should never get married-because clearly you are living a good life. Marriage is

not for people like you. When you have to disect and question something sacred it is a clear indication that it's not meant for you.

The worst part is someone is going to see this and get a real one. This woman

need to get  life stop trying to be something she's not.

Well do you have a plan for something else if you drop out? If not, i would

stay in it and keep working hard. It can be extremely stressful now,but it

will help you in the long run. Have trust in yourself that you can do it.

One of the problem might be you re not interested in the things you are

studying for. What are you majoring in? What are you studying and why?

Ask yourself those questions. Also, if you don't like the thing you are majoring

in have the courage to switch to a different major and find  something else that

you are passionate about. Go to your college's website and find other majors that

might catch your interest and find information on it.

Even when you are passionate about a career/major, you will find yourself taking

classes you don't like(ie. the class you have to write long essays in). But think of those

as just a bump in the road. The hardest classes will make you feel accomplished when

you get through with them. And also, writing essays is a basic thing that everyone will

have to learn and will be helpful for you in the future. If you need help with them, find a

friend or  tutor who rocks at writing essays to help you get through with it. If anything is

difficult don't hesitate to ask someone for help, and when you ask for it do it politely.


Oh, and a person is not defined by a degree, I think they are partially defined by the amount
of passion they have for something.

Consideration is a lot different than being submissive. Letting me take advantage

is different than picking up dry cleaning across town on his way home from work

so I wouldn't have to go out later. I would never ask my partner to do ridiculous

things so it doesn't matter to me.

However,submissive in bed is a different thing. Hahahaha

Shouldn't this be common sense?

I wouldn't trust him . . .

There is no problem with being what you are. Although many false judgements can be made
at any time. We live in a society where labels which edify the abundance of ones heart should he
or she decide to accept it. Always changing. Flavor of the month. This quarter being sensitive
(which is usually popular) could somehow be used as a way of profiling  a deranged killer and
all of a sudden there is a dark shadow following the definition. Next month perhaps a famous
veteran actor may be interviewed on Larry King a question or answer could come up with a
hint of the person being an introvert. Now the label could take a new face of abilities and
successful talent. It all depends on how close a person follows group consciousness in society.
Buzz words etc.

You are already doing what is best.

I remember asking just that . . . . . I was on many dating sites over 9 months. One day

in the shower I prayed to God to bring a man into my life so I would not be alone when

my mom dies. . . . two weeks later I met my now husband. And God has a strange sense

of humor, two months after we met my dad died unexpectedly . . . my mom who is on

borrowed time is still with us and adores my partner. May God help you find the right man

but it does mean you can't look on your own.


I would start with a top rated dating service like e-harmony. They do simple background checks and
long questionaires so lots of hurdles are already cleared for you. All you need to worry about
is the actual chemistry when you meet face to face(in a public place). Go for it.

That's a pretty inflammatory question! And a hilarious one.

Kobe has always exemplified an immature attitude. It will cost him dearly.

This is his 16th year in the NBA. Funny how the wives leave the "stars"

when their star begins to fade.


Really can't wait for the "new look" Lakers. And here they rid themselves of distractions by trading Lamar . . .

I just bought a new ipad2 for my wife and l love the specs. But l was concerned about it getting scratched
up before we were able to get a case. While she's still searching for "the perfect case" , l came across this
silicone skin and ordered it. It fit perfectly and does the job at a very reasonable price. Also, it arrived in
just a few days.