Those of you who support me trying to show him my love: any hints as to what I should do? I have a conference in two weeks in his town. I have thought of showing up and giving him a letter letting him know my feelings and how much I care for him. Bad idea or good move?

Thanks to all of you for your insight.

It is a probably a good idea that I clarify. Thank you for asking. But no, I wasn't involved with anything of the sort. I was fiercely faithful. He was struggling with depression and felt that he couldn't give me what I needed. I always argued that He was all that I ever wanted, no matter what, in whatever state he was in.

Hi All!

Having read so many of these forums, I though you all could help me or at least offer some advice.

My boyfriend of two years broke up with me in December. We had dated for two years, he had asked my dad's permission to marry me, and had a ring.  It was a beautiful two years until he got to medical school and started having to deal with increadible amounts of stress. This ultimately took a toll on our relationship. Yet through it all we would always come back to the fact that we absolutely adored one another.  We began to fight A LOT and before I knew it things had snow balled out of control. He told me he never loved me and that I had ruined his life, etc. Things settled out through the holidays and he spoke often about how hard things had been and how he couldn't wait to propose and how he loved me so much and wanted nothing else than to be with me. Then the day after Christmas he called and told me it was over. I was shocked and devastated. I spent 2 weeks trying to talk things out with him and he would fly off the handle. Its been four months now since we broke up and I emailed him the other day to see if he was interested in catching up. He apologized for what happened and said he wasn't ready to see me and wished me luck for the next year.

I am still devastated and I really want to tell him that I love him. I just don't know what to do. Any advice?