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@Omo Eko

He didn't need advise, he just wanted someone to tell him that it was ok to keep doing what he was doing. And I wasn't being defensive but the dude needed a reality check. I'm not one to sugarcoat anything and if you don't want to hear the truth then don't bring your dirty laundry in a forum asking for opinions.

I think once you are aware that you are pregnant is when life begins. If you do not know, then you cannot make the decision to abort so regardless of when you conceived, you only start to think of options when you found out. think of it this way, the sex is all good till you get something you don't want right. Well everyting has a price and children are a joy whether you plan to have them or not. It is not the child's fault that you couldn't keep your legs closed nor is it the child's fault if you got raped, nor is it the child's fault if the condom broke. Don't hate me for what I say, it is what it is (my personal opinion). No one has to agree witht it but I can live with myslef at the end of the day knowing I made the right decision whether it is an inconvenience to my current lifestyle or not. If you know you run the risk of getting pregnant with sexual intercourse, then the solution is simple. DO NOT HAVE SEX!!!

I would not have an abortion, I don't care how broke I am, and before anyone gets a smart ass comment like yo have to be in the situation, I've been there. I had nothing but my moreals to keep me going. Luckily for me, I didn't have an uncaring bf but regardless, I would never opt to have an abortion. I am for everyone's right and all but just feel that it is unfair for that unborn baby not to have anyone speak up for it. Plus, why should it be a woman's sole decision to terminate the baby, she didint create it herself. But if the script was flipped and the guy didnt want the baby, then you would call him deadbeat. How so? I'm very passionate about this subject so let's just leave it here.

Diamond in the dirt my ass, more like you found the dirt itself. You and her are both whores and you need to get your shit together before trying to staighten hers. How the hell do you want her to be faithful if you can't be and if she sleeps with your best friend then you deserve that.

By the by, what the hell do you need advise for, you already said you won't leave her cheating ass so what do you need. Someone to tell you to keep fucking around like a dog or someone to justify that her insecurities are okay and you should keep hurting each other. Please, get a life dude!

i think you know deep down that this is not the woman for you. Marriage does not make a cheating person loyal, if she cared for you enough, she wouldn't have been doing what she was doing, with a married man no less. This especially shows that she does not value the sacrament of marriage. All she will probably do when she gets here is get her green card and find a new man. I think you should cut your losses and look to God for true direction.

You know, I'm new here but I'm sure a lot of people reading this will rip me a new one for what I'm about to say,

Honey, it's your life whether your parents like it or not. In the end, your happiness is what matters and not what your parents think, besides, that's the risk they take when they brought you tho the states. It drives me absolutely nuts when parents raise you the "American Way" (ex: speak proper english, not too much exposure to African life) and then when it comes to marriage time, they want to tell you to 'go with your own kind". Why? Nigerians are no different from the other people in the world and yes we have our culture but if you find someone who truly cares about you, they will want to learn and embrace what your culture is.

That's my two cents, Hope I didnt step on any toes.