Hi 9aija man, You certainly kept this forum alive with your personal experience and I did like your honesty. I will advise that should you become tired which you will be with time, simply let us know.

Am trying to figure out how OBJ got to be tricked.
[i

]He was sleeping. suddenly his phone rings. 
Unknown number? Who can this be he asked? 
Reluctantly he takes the call and loo it is his old partner in crime, Bode. 
Am out of prison he(Bode) says and since I know You are not a busy man could you pop in and have a drink with me and my family after all we are still friends.
OBJ rushes into his car, got to the venue and found other PDP faithfulls. 
He inquired in secret from another criminal whether he got the same phone call like he did. 
The answer was obvious yes. Then he settled down and enjoyed the day including opportunity to plot further mischief with his buddy. 
Few days later the press had read another angle to the event.
OBJ has to save his skin. I was tricked to attend the party he says.[/i

] End of the story.
Nigerians are fooled again.
Shall we now focus on the election that will be rigged by PDP.

[i][/i](culled from Vanguard Nigeria 28th Feb 2011)



Nigeria's economy fared better than those of most advanced economies of the world last year, with her gross domestic product (GDP) growing by 7.85 percent, compared to a global average of 3.9 percent, according to the World Economic Outlook. Minister of Finance, Segun Aganga said in his presentation at the Institute of Directors (IOD) in Lagos at the weekend that Nigeria's GDP growth rate is among the highest in the world, behind those of China and India.



While average GDP growth rate for Sub-Saharan Africa is put at 4.7 percent, the minister said the GDP of South Africa, the biggest economy on the continent, grew by a mere 2.7 percent.

"Nigeria's GDP growth rate was higher than those of the high income nations. The GDP growth rate for the Organisation of Economic Cooperation and Development (OECD) nations averaged 2.7 percent; the Euro Area grew their GDP by 1.7 percent; that of the United States grew 2.8 percent, while the average for non-OECD nations 6.7 percent. The BRIC nations, made up of Brazil, Russia, India and China had GDP growth rates of 7.6 percent, 3.8 percent, 9.5 percent, and 10.0 percent respectively," he said.

don't even try to use one

yea

Government should pay the doctors so as to stem the brain drain in that field. Nigeria is among the leading countries in the world that export doctors

Sad story though but real.
There is no reason for a man to lift his hand, lest shoot his wife.
My advice if you harbor this thought is to, just drop it. I tell you, it is not worth it and the society will judge you terribly if you commit the act.
I agree that a women should submit but the realities in modern time is that both parties must be committed to make it work.
It is time that men begin to shed some of their ego. If your wife out-ran you economically then adopt diplomacy. Period!