Marriage doesn't change anyone. Look 98% of females do/did runs... just accept that fact. Now there're two in this category; those doing it temporarily and those permanently. What will make a woman stop runs is not how much you have as her husband but how much she loves and respects you. na why even big man self dey collect. when my doctor told me about this Paul Okoye true story, i feel for the guy. Same way as a woman your husband won't cheat or find it easy to cheat if he loves and respects you. I advice those about to marry to check their woman's phone... very important... nothing like my space or trust me blindly because na inner eyes you open choose that one as woman wey u wan marry. If you want space then don't bother about marriage.

nairalander2020:
Some married women dont know the difference between being single and being married.
And when the are caught, the will be giving lame excuses.

RUN AWAY AS FAST AS YOU CAN!!!

Good for you ooo... I've been trying to stop but everytime i relapse i will buy more than 20G in less than a day because i will be with more than two crack botches... It's not easy, even like this the urge is there

Psych412:
crack and ice, very difficult to stop....I had to cut off from my friends to put a stop to drugs and with prayers too...


I'm now getting fatter than before that my parent were shocked about my increased weight

Bro thank you for your story. I am a lord from FJ MT 1 and i know how much blood goes down in the time of mgbamgba. The day i buried my father was the last day i hanged my boot for NBM matter. What pained me most is when i read about Ifeoma's death, i almost cried. May her gentle soul rest in peace. I hope you find peace by sharing this and don't be held down by the sins of the past.

LOL... Big fool, them don chop your babe already since. Bro just keep the relationship open and Bleep her closest friend or end it if you're beginning to have feeling. You're with a ho and you know it but have fallen in love. It's better to cut it off early before it's too late cos like this you're already getting jealous and that's involved in what you both did not define well.

NO BE ONLY SECOND CHANCE...NA WHEN YOU'RE MINE

YOU'RE THE BIGGEST FOOL IN THE UNIVERSE... INSTEAD OF MAKE YOU FOCUS ON MAKING MONEY NA ANOTHER PERSON WIFE DEY HUNGRY YOU.. YOU DON FEED YOUR FAMILY WELL TODAY...OGA DEM GO Bleep YOUR WIFE SELF SURE BANKER

BRO, ONE ADVICE!!! CHECK HER PHONE WITHOUT HER KNOWLEDGE. YOU WILL LEARN MORE FROM CHECKING HER PHONE IN ONE HOUR THAN ANY ADVICE OR THOUGHTS IN YOUR HEAD. IT'S BETTER TO CONFIRM WHAT SHE DOES ON ALL THOSE SOCIAL MEDIA APPS. TRUST ME YOU WILL BE SURPRISED AND BE PREPARED MENTALLY TO SEE SHIT!!! LOL... YOU KNOW NOTHING

ThiagoKid:
Good evening all,

I met Eniola mid last year during the covik one nine brouhaha. Trust me, ever since then, Eniola have remain a good gal.
During the weekend, she comes around my place to cook, and to sort out my laundry. I'm 36, she's 27. A single mother.

Eniola makes it an habit of kneeling down when it's time to serve me my food, as it was done in the time past. What else can a man wish for in this so called 'woke' generation?
She's respectful to my immediate family, and even kneel down to great my eldest sisters.
Eniola is just so nice, which I'm appreciative of. Can you imagine? This gal gave me part of her August salary, and when i enquire what for: "Since the landlord has decided to increase the house rent, add this one to what you will be paying him next month." She said.

But now, my reservations are these:
Should I go ahead to get married to her, as per she's a single mother?

Won't i be accepting and embracing mediocrity, and substandard product as she's factly not a virgin?

Won't i be contributing immensely to the decline of a virtuous and traditional woman; who is meant to have her hymen sealed before marriage?

Why should i marry a single mother in a situation whereby the biological father of her child didn't wife her up? Ok, fine. Let's say he's 'irresponsible', but why then, did she open her legs widely for him, when it's obvious they ain't getting married soon? Ok, fine. That's 'irresponsible' on her part, so, why should i then marry a seemingly virtuous irresponsible woman?

This is the same gal that always quarrel with me anytime i ain't going to church, yet, she had a child out of wedlock, even after making sure she attends all her Church weekly programs.

In a nutshell, these are what I have issues with:

She's not a virgin
She's a single mother
She's active on all social media platforms, except from OnlyFans; at least, i ain't aware of that yet.
I don't want a situation where by when she has issues with me, she will do an Anita Okoye, Annie idibia on me.

Your contributions will go a long way,

E get one wey i dey eye presently but na the waka and sweat matter dey hold me back