Lastborn0074:
Please I need honest suggestions. My wife has had several male platonic friends ever since we met. She became friends with others through me. I trusted her because she's a very sociable person, so I wasn't bothered because I know a lot of ladies that have male friends too. She's been open to me about them.

Recently, something happened. A close female friend of hers (also married) started keeping her at arm's length. My wife didn't know what the problem was until information got to her that this friend of hers was going about telling people that she could no longer be friends with her because she's sleeping around with men indiscriminately.

My wife confronted her with this information, for which she denied. But the informant, who was also invited, insisted that she actually said it. Before this time, my wife would always complain that each time she visits her friend, she would knock on the door but nobody would respond. This happened repeatedly until her tenant told my wife in confidence that his landlady was always around each time she visits.

Recently, I discovered that my wife was actually having amorous relationship with her male friends. I have access to her messeinger and I have seen those amorous chats. She would delete the ones that could implicate her. A male friend of hers even sent her adult videos and she told him to send more, that she was enjoying it. This man went further to send her his masturbation video.

I confronted my wife with these and what people told me, but she denied. After putting much pressure on her, she said she was about to do it, not that she actually did it. I asked her the reason and she said that it was because of the hardship we were facing. Since her business collapsed, it's been very difficult to survive with our four children. I'm the only one fending for the family. Even after confronting her, I discovered that she's still into the act.

Given the above scenario, what should I do? Please I want only healthy comments that will help me make my decision. Thanks.

She is an adulterous woman and if you find it hard to forgive her, you have the right to divorce her.

mighty2:
If the worthless fool like make em visit devil, he wil never become president of this country

How can someone just open his mouth and say another person will never be president of Nigeria. Are you the owner of Nigeria?

Maxymilliano:


https://thenationonlineng.net/Obi-dont-harm-our-son-omatseyes-family-pleads/?utm_medium=Social&utm_source=Facebook#Echobox=1659699291

People are very selfish. So, Mr Peter Obi that he used OBITUARY for is not a human being. Not even a word of caution to his brother. If that is the case, then anyone attacking or threatening his brother is also entitled to their opinion. Simple!

ryloy:


But Atiku will win neither Kano nor Lagos, however, all Northwest, South West, 4 States in North East, 4 States in North Central , 4 States in South South and 5% in SE will be won by Tinubu.

It's good to have a tall dream. Enjoy your dream land. But just know that SS, SE and NC is for Obi. Plus substantial votes in the SW, NE, and NW.

What has he done so far with his current mandate. Atiku performed far more than him. In 2023, if PDP fail to give peter obi their ticket, I will stay in my house and sleep.

jacoik:
coward, try do something meaningful with your lowlife. Since he is Peter Obi, which one is your father? Instead of you youths to mobilize and take back your destiny, you are there spewing trash

My brother, suffer no dey tire them. Suffering and smiling nah their birth right.

charlesdprof:
Obi cannot win PDP primaries talk more of winning the main election.

You sound like you're assistant God. How can you stay in your house and decide who gets the ticket and who will not? Calm down the primaries is near. Let's start with that.

IfnobeGod20:

It's always good to wish but to actualizing it is the huge Mountain to climb.
Peter Obi is a good candidate but he cannot be president of a plural nation like Nigeria. He's more of an ethnic, religious and regional leader than national. That alone will work against him. [b]Secondly, he's too hand fist and in Nigeria if you cannot spend, you cannot win the heart of the people. A miser cannot win Nigeria presidency. [/b]Thirdly, he exaggerate things too much and always thinking using other country ways of doing things can solve our problems. He doesn't know that the peculiarity of each system determines the procedure to adopt.

So Buhari that is the current president is a giver? Someone who claimed he had nothing....Look for another propaganda abeg.

Peter Obi is the next president! Starting learning how to accept that fact. Thanks

The funniest thing I've seen today is Ben Ayade's signature. Na broom be that abi na wetin?

kudinkarfe:
Truth be told Obi, Tinubu and Atiku are going nowhere. Farooq is a religious fanatic.

So, who is going somewhere?

77up:

I don't know when Obi (someone that cannot win his domain) declaration actually become a threat to anyone
You seen so funny actually

E go shock you

"None of the scanty number has the guts to carry out their imaginary threats as reported in sponsored stories. We dare them to leave the party”.

This kind of comment here by Akeredolu killed PDP in 2014, and it's about to kill APC. We dey watch...

Defection loading.....
All these power hungry men should go and rest abeg.

That's the first sign that she's not into you. She wan bill you so tee you go give up. Bros, find your level.

Permutation or not peter obi we know.

potent5:
They don't want any amendment especially because of the electronic transfer of results which they don't fancy. So, they will kill the idea by making the bill unassentable through the introduction of controversial clauses.

Those guys are crooks. They can do anything.

potent5:

Because the mischievous NASS added another grey area.

Seriously? I also thought as much. But what did they add/remove this time around? This NASS don't want our progress in this country ooo. Always making laws to satisfy their selfish interests.

Sincerely, that's the only legacy that buhari can leave.

I wonder why the president is still dragging feet concerning signing the reworked electoral bill since the gray areas have been expunged.

InvertedHammer:

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Na typical Nigerian financial illiterate who thinks that expense is a measure of wealth. Pardon his ignorance.

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You get am.
Zero financial intelligence

Olumaeme:
I'll tell you, sometimes you need violence to stop violence, and if you don't take that risk, it will be very difficult for you to stop it.

Most times, you can't talk bad people out of their bad behaviors, the best way to they learn is through a bitter experience and they'll never do that thing again

Next time she breaks anything, bring out some of her belongings and burn it. Then send her out to the house.

Let her beg at least 2 weeks before letting her return, if she Dosent turn a new leaf, send me a message I'll credit you 20k.

You also have to respect yourself and your union. I won't tell you not to cheat but please, try and be discreet and have some dignity.

Respect her, draw the line between your side babes and your family, caution yourself not to go above board.

Your side babe is a side babe and will remain a side babe, respect your wife!

The worst thing that can happen to a human being is not to know where they are not going.

You have to set principles and whoever breaks them should be adequately dealt with, which could be total withdrawal from the culprit.

Shalom!

You are misleading a married man to cheat without being caught. Put your self in the wife's shoes. What if it was the wife cheating?

You call cheating simple? He he... OK oh.

My advice is that if you take her abroad in this state, you will lose her and your child. Its as simple as that. Sane countries are not like insane Nigeria. But if you genuinely amend your ways and take her and your family seriously and stop looking else where, then you don't have problems.

One thing I've come to realise is that as far as you're with a good woman, she gives you peace if you respect yourself. And if you don't respect yourself, you'll sure get double wahala from her. That I'm sure about. No matter how good, born again and Holy Ghost filled she is.

The joy of every parent is to see their children better than they are. God bless her and her Dad.

That was a careless statement from the priest. The body of Christ is not divided. Though we are many, we are one body in Christ.

I don't think he thought those words and actions through before execution.

If you're a bench warmer, problem. If you decide to serve, wahala. Wetin man go do nah?

By the way, Excellent reaction from the Archbishop.

Yankiss:
Neither APC nor PDP will produce a credible president. All the new young-people controlled parties should fuse together to create a formidable opposition. We need new names. We are tired of the recycle and purge process.

So APC was not a new name in 2015? What came out of it? More corruption, insecurity, failed economy, nepotism etc.

How many of those new young people controlled parties have structures in all the wards, local governments and states of the Federation?

If you still think a new president will emerge from any new party or merger,you are dreaming and need to wake up.

updatechange:
Poverty mentality

Most of these people saying poverty mentality are actually the poor ones.

How is it poverty mentality to cut cost?
Even if you have all the money in the world, if you are not prudent in spending you'll blow everything.

Why is he living with his mum?
How old is he?
Is he a mummy's boy?(can he make decisions and stand by it or is he controlled by his mum?)

All these questions and more needs to be considered.

What the woman did is very wrong.

The guy should answer her call and record their conversation that's how he can get an evidence, except he snapped them.

When he has gotten an evidence, he should go ahead and tell the brother. The woman does not deserve him.