A man who claims to be a "Prophet Dr" by the name,Christopher U D Ukpala has given the governor of Lagos State,Babatunde Raji Fashola a two week ultimatum to re-open the Yaba Railway Market,failure to do so will lead to the sacrifice of the two children of the governor.This much was contained on posters placed at Yaba today signed by the man who also goes by the title:Spiritual Doctor.
I was at Yaba earlier today when I saw the posters.I was so curious I had to remove one of the posters from where it was pasted to share on this platform

Since I was Born, and Now I am getting OLD.. i have never seen a BOY with one Girlfriend...
Sisters Have You seen?

It is life-changing and can be destructive if it is embarked on with the wrong person. You have to be absolutely sure that the woman in your life is someone you’ll be happy spending time with every day of your life, forever. Here are 10 signs that the woman in your life will make a good wife.

1. She’s Nurturing
A woman who will make a good wife has to be caring and nurturing. She’s going to be majorly responsible for the well-being of you and your children. She should be kind and compassionate, willing to take care of others without grumbling.

2. She’s Dependable
A great wife should be someone you can trust and rely on. She should be someone who will support her man no matter what, someone you know you can count on, come rain, come shine.

3. She’s Respectful
Disrespect is one of the major causes of marital dysfunction. The woman you decide to marry should respect you no matter what. She should respect your family and your friends, even if she doesn’t like them. She should be a respectful person all round.

4. She’s Humble
A proud woman will encourage grudges and nothing destroys relationships faster than malice. The ideal wife should be able to apologize even when she isn’t in the wrong.

5. She’s emotionally stable
The woman you decide to marry should be stable emotionally and otherwise. An emotionally unstable woman can’t handle the pressures of marriage. She should be mature and know how to handle situations without constantly losing her cool. You don’t want to marry a woman who will break down in tears over every little challenge.

6. She loves children
The ideal wife should love children. She should like to have them around her and willing to play with them always. This is a sign that she’ll be capable of taking care of the family you build together.

7. She can cook
She doesn’t have to be a chef but a great wife should be able to feed her family.

8. You have a lot in common
It can be the same kind of music or the same hobbies or even just a love of books. If there are things you both like to do, that’s a good sign you are entering a marriage of happiness and longevity.

9. You have great communication
There is nothing more important in a relationship than communication, and if you are considering making it official by marrying her, you have to feel comfortable talking with her about any and everything. The more you communicate with your woman, the less likely the two of you will get into arguments because you both will be able to talk about your problems instead of holding them in.

10. You can laugh together
Mutual laughter is an essential component of a strong and healthy marriage. Romance is much better if you can see humour in the little things and can have a laugh together.

Above all, you must remember that there’s no such thing as a perfect person so there can’t be a perfect wife. Love is about accepting that person you’ve chosen even with all their flaws and deciding to love them no matter what.

What other qualities do you consider necessary for an ideal wife? Share your opinions

Countdown to final results.

Uhunmwode: ACN - 4680 PDP - 1394
Owan west: ACN - 6862 PDP - 3180
Ovia South west: ACN- 3727 PDP - 831
Ovia North east: ACN - 12466 PDP - 2264
Orhionhwon: ACN- 5520 PDP - 1951
Estako west: ACN - 17310 PDP - 2564
Estako East: ACN - 12207 PDP - 2468
Estako Central: ACN - 5612 PDP - 1562
Owan East: ACN - 11277 PDP - 5622
Esan Central: ACN - 3709 PDP - 2552
Esan North-east: ACN - 2673 PDP - 2251
Esan South-west: ACN - 2137 PDP
Akoko Edo LGA: ACN - 4899 PDP - 1907
IGUBEN: ACN - 4835 PDP - 2374
Ikpoba Okha: ACN - 6690 PDP - 690
Oredo: ACN - 9040 PDP - 1274
Akoko Edo LGA: ACN - 4899 PDP
Egor LGA: ACN- 12232 PDP - 898

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R.I.P - Beautiful Faces of The Dana Air Crash
CHRONICLED BY AFRONUTS MONDAY, JUNE 4, 2012

I was at home yesterday, babysitting the kids when I got the call from Ben, a friend.
A plane had crashed into my parent's neighborhood three bus stops away from our family home.
So saddening.
I give glory to God though because my baby brother was planning to come home from Abuja by Dana Air. He's changed his mind now and decided to go by road.

Since all over the net the news is no longer news, I don't need to talk about what happened. But I went round trying to find out who and who was on that ill fated plane. These pictures I came across drew tears to my eyes...such promising faces...lives cut short by the tragedy...generations wiped out in an instant...

May we never see such again. Here they are...

I greet you in the name of Jesus Christ. My name is Nonkoliso Ngeleka. I'm from Nzimakwe and I was a graded in the space for 12 years. I was born in 1988, I'm 22. I worked in space since childhood and I climbed the ladder all the time. There are different ranks in space, there are devil worshipers in churches who do not know they represent the devil, and there are devil worshipers who can leave their physical bodies to go around in the spiritual world; I was in this second category.



I started having dreams in my sleep where I was fighting like in the movies and triumphed in the battles in an urban area. The third day that this dream was repeated, I heard a voice asking me if I wanted to follow that voice. I said yes and he said let's go. When we went, I separated from my body and a demon stayed with my body and then I went to work in space. When I got there, they gave me a code and gave me blood, because you have to live off the blood of people to lose all human feeling and behave like an animal. There are numbers that represent each grade, the number three represents the devil worshipers, the number six represents Satanists, a Satanist is someone who is dead being a devil worshiper who now lives in the spiritual realm alone, the number nine represents satan, the king of demons, Lucifer was cast out of heaven because of pride.



I worked in space. Initially we were sent to cause accidents on the roads, so that the demons in space have blood to drink. There are chiefs who govern in each location, for example in Nzimakwe; they have their chief who is a satanist (I've already explained above who is classified as a Satanist). When he needed blood, we caused an accident in this area. When we caused this accident, we came in the spirit and nobody could see us. And then we would throw a ring before the driver who would lose concentration and the car would do the barrels, people would die and the chief would get the blood. But as new recruits, we do not live off that blood. We were given this blood occasionally. Leaders spend most time in the rivers; they go into space only when there are revival meetings and other events of the Church.



Satan lives in the sea. We, young recruits lived off the blood that we sucked on ordinary people living on earth. We would stand next to a person, for example at a bus stop or elsewhere, and we would begin to suck his blood, especially if you have one of our products. The victim then feels tired and somewhat depressed and they may think they have a tough day, but it is mainly because a devil worshiper is sucking their blood in the world of darkness, but the victim does not die. But if it were a Christian, saved and living a holy life, we could not suck his blood, if we tried to do it, the spirit of the Christian would intercede for that person and especially with a hymn and I would burn. Similarly if we cause an accident with a Christian among the passengers, we would not be able to drink the blood of the people who died there, because the blood of the Christian would damage the blood in that blood bank, and if we had to drink this blood, we would be weak and unable to do our work. Satan and the leaders could not drink it either.



If a person is holy, that person does not use our products, the strings are our products, it was my duty to utter incantations and curses on those objects, earrings, necklaces, nail varnish, hair extensions in fiber, no matter what kind, whether bonding or braiding, all objects in gold are satanic products. So if you use these things, although you may be saved, if we want to attack you, we use our code and if you were wearing an earring or if you put it in your drawer, we would come and see the house protected by a wall of fire of God and we would scan with our code as it is done at the checkout in stores. This is because the earring or hair extension fiber that you own have a code. And I would come in and do everything I wanted to do. Sometimes someone might be holy even if he’s using our products, but the danger is that you cannot be protected.



When we come into your house and find you protected, we can go up to God, because satan can accuse the brethren before God, and we ask to get our product, whether an earring, hair extensions in fiber, nail polish or any other of our products in the house. When we came into your house in the spirit, we would then do everything we wanted to do. We take advantage of the fact that God is bound by His faithfulness and cannot steal. We would ask Him how He would close our product in the house and protect it with the wall of fire. This is where lies the danger of using satanic products. When we arrive, we also take away bit by bit your holiness. I went and uttered curses and incantations on products, we used to say that anyone who uses these products would be lascivious, and if you use these products, the curse befalls you.



For example if it was a jewel, we would say that the users become prostitutes or fornicators and that they become disobedient, (Prostitution in the spirit is not limited to the act of selling your body for money, it can also denote the behavior and the way a person dresses), I worked a lot with these things. And there came a time where I got a promotion because I had worked a lot with these things and I had great success and they added another digit to my code, because I had passed the class of prayer and pronouncing curses on fiber hair extensions, jewelry, and similar things.



I was promoted to take care of the church; when I was at that grade, I visited many well-known Pastors. When I went to every religious event, especially revival meetings, I wore three rings on my arm and two rings on my fingers. I would throw the three rings of my arm in the middle the church and the two rings of my fingers before the Pastor, one on the right side and another on the left side. If the Pastor was prayerful, the first ring would roll towards the church, but the second would come back to me and as I explained, I was praying on the rings when they were still being manufactured, I uttered curses on them, prompting lust. Pastor would then see a beautiful girl and if he ever had impure thoughts towards that girl he would lose his holiness, because we all know that the Holy Spirit does not dwell in an unclean place, it is in this way that we reversed the Pastors.



It also happened that a Pastor would be strong and resisted us, we and our rings, in this case we used his wife. If his wife uses any of our products, the fiber would act on them at night as it is on any other user. The Pastor's wife would then change her doctrine, if the jewel in the church was not allowed, she would then change it and say that there is nothing wrong with the jewelry and the Pastor would also agree with that because they are married and are one in the spirit. I did a lot of spells on pastors and have reversed many of them. When I manage to win the Pastor, he changes. A Pastor who once preached that Christians should forsake sin, now says that a girl can have a boyfriend and he will say that a young man can get a girlfriend. He will change and say that ancestor worship is permitted.



Let me explain something, the dead are not demons, but they cannot do anything in this world as they await their day of judgment. We would go to their graves and put our spirits to make you believe that it is your parent that is acting, but it is actually us that are acting. We would do it especially when we saw that you have a gift that would be to our detriment. We would then make you see your parents tell you that you must be a marabout, a psychic or a sangoma. When you start with that, you are then introduced to snakes, a snake represents a satanist and satan himself. Five stars represent the devil worshipers. When you think that your ancestors communicate with you, this is not true, it's actually us that communicate with you. We went into the houses where we were attracted by the incense and we drank the blood they sacrificed us. We slept in their beds and we had fun.



When someone was about to die, I was sent to examine whether the person was holy. If he was not holy, I wrote his name in our book so that on the Day of Judgment he goes to burn in hell with us. We knew that we would burn in Hell, we were told this. Sometimes they demanded that we fast 40 days or 60 days, if a pastor was to preach somewhere. Because there was nothing we could see on earth. In the event that you make less than forty days, you were punished for it because we had to get at that place powerful.



So I would arrive first at that place to make incantations so that those who come there do not listen and do not repent, and that the chief of this place is not burned by the prayers. I would also go into space to protect him so that the prayers do not burn him. Because if he was burned, you would see a drunkard saved and proclaim that Jesus is Lord, a prostitute saved and proclaim that Jesus is Lord. So if you see such things happening, know that the Pastor who is preaching has prayed and that the chief was hit by fire, and the demon has moved a little, because the role of this demon, who is also a chief, is to sit on the residents of that place and surround them with evil spirits so they are not saved and that those who drink, drink until they die; that those who go to prison die there, those who worship idols and do the worship of ancestors continue to do so until they die, those who are prostitutes continue their prostitution until they die.



I was not working in the South Coast, because I come from there. I worked in places such as Durban and elsewhere. When I was in space, they did not call me by my name, they called me by my code. They called me by my code to tell me for example that I must hurry and go to Swaziland or Durban. As the company there had finished making earrings, I had to go and make incantations over them before they are sent in the shops. It was my duty to make incantations on them.



Another year, I was sent to Ntuzuma. There was a pastor there; I will not mention his name. I was sent to remove his holiness. This pastor was a true man of God, saved and his testimony was impressive. When I removed his holiness, I got a promotion. I became a graded, and therefore, I was responsible for setting traps in the Church. There is not one thing that I didn’t do at that time.



In space we use the Bible, we were not working with things that are not written in the Bible. As the Bible says that a woman should cover her head in the church, we changed that and influenced women not to cover their heads. And when women do not cover their heads, we would accuse them before God and ask Him how He could regard them as His children when they do not cover their heads in church. We changed what was written in the Bible for example the fact that a woman should not wear a man's cloth. That's why we uttered curses on pants/trousers that women wear. We made incantations on them and influenced women to wear them more often so that they do not see the Lord because of their disobedience.



I worked a lot when I was graded. I wasn’t dealing with the affairs of the Church anymore, I went there just to make worshipers of Satan and continue my journey. These worshipers of Satan did not know they were worshipers of Satan because we would not separate them from their bodies as I used to separate from my body. But we would use them if they had any of our products I listed. Then they began to gossip, to slander, to always complain and say that pastors are running after money or something like that. People even stopped going to church because of these worshipers of Satan. Then I would let them do their job and would go to other churches to get the reports and come back later to see the damage they have caused in the church. This person we turned into a satan worshiper begins to change his doctrine by saying that there is no problem when women wear pants/trousers, that faith is in the heart and not in the pants/trousers. At this stage, they worked for us unconsciously because they represented us. For the truth is clear, the woman should not wear pants/trousers.



So when they start saying that it is permissible for a woman to wear pants/trousers, and that people with earrings may come and worship in a holy place, and can even do things in the church, and that they gradually learn to part with these things, when a Pastor says that people who have boyfriends and girlfriends can come and lead worship or pray for people, then that pastor is ours, he is working for us. Let me tell you that when they say that they will stop sinning, we will come and exert an influence on them to never give up sin, and that they continue to sin. We tried to minimise the magnitude of sin. If for example a sister has a boyfriend, I would then push her boyfriend to tell her that he wants to marry her. Not because he’s about to do it, but only because we wanted to make sure that the sister continues to sin and minimises the magnitude of this sin until the return of the Lord Jesus Christ.



When I was in space, we had a big TV screen; we could see all that was happening on earth. We were counting down and knew that Jesus could return at any time. And all we were sent to do; we did it such as HIV. The doctors cannot cure this disease because they are human, but I am now a witness to the fact that HIV was created in space so that the youth die young and do not reach the salvation of the Lord Jesus. Satan wants to have the maximum of people who will burn in hell with him; he continues his conquest of souls, which cost him his expulsion from Paradise. So we created HIV and we then spread it on the earth. But we cannot remedy this situation, let it be cancer or TB, doctors will never find a cure because Jesus is the only one who can overcome and heal something that has been woven in the world of darkness. A human cannot cure. Jesus Christ of Nazareth can cure this disease. We can pray for someone, and if he believes he can be cured. The disease bows because in the name of Jesus, everything bows, we ourselves bowed when someone mentioned the name of Jesus, so the disease itself bows.



When I graduated, I was also sent to cause plane crashes, planes that were going towards Australia, Europe or elsewhere. When there's a plane crash, it's not the fault of the pilot, we were the origin of all the airplane crashes that I know; we were on a mission and we could not do anything against that. We were slaves, we worked even when we did not want and we were told that we would rest only after Jesus has come. So in the meantime, we have to kill so that satan and the chiefs get the blood and new recruits who had not yet started working. We also worked with government leaders, Presidents; I will not mention the name of the president that we caught. He is not a worshiper of Satan, but we worked on him every day. He set up our laws, legalised prostitution, abortion, and he even said that children should not be punished. It was our plan that he accepted unconsciously because we could see that Jesus is about to return. We used to make incantations over them every day so that the nation be damned.



We worked a lot in South Africa, as evidenced by abortions and other abominations, so that people are more interested in democracy but do not know that Jesus is at the door ready to return. Jesus must win more souls to Himself; time is almost at its end. An aborted child was raised by us in space except for children who already had no chance to live, and those derived from miscarriages. We raise them and use them to destroy marriages, couples will fight for things of nothing, and divorces, separations and others will follow. These aborted children deal with these cases. Victims will sometimes see a snake in their yard or their house, it is actually this baby. They will also cause fights in the family, they can create rivalries among the brothers to the point where death follows.



In the last plane crash that I caused that was heading to Europe, there was a child of God who lived a life of holiness. Therefore, the blood that flowed was damaged because the blood of a Christian damages the blood we need, and if we drink this blood, we will become weak and unable to operate. It was the last time I caused a plane crash. I caused several crashes in the past and I have done all these things for satan there. And after, I was collecting the reports, and performed difficult missions, in my own grade. I was also responsible for making the toughest Pastors fall.



Let me get back on products, Lacoste is not one of our products, but when you wear one, you are representing a Satanist, because the crocodile is one of the animals we work with. When I wanted to do something, I transformed myself into a lizard.



Five stars represent us as worshipers of Satan. Like the youth of the church is recognised as the stars of heaven and the light of the world, we also, were represented by stars. So if you wear something with a star, Satan will go to heaven to report this and say that this person is walking around on earth and represents me, and that the person loves him more than he loves God. All the stars, Lacoste and anything that has two feet, whether a T-shirt or trousers, are things that dishonor Jesus who is coming back soon. So if you have it on you, you are saying that Jesus is weak. I no longer need to explain that a dragon represents Satan. If you wear something with a dragon on it, you represent Satan and Satan will go before God, before him laugh and say he is more powerful than him because people walk all over the earth representing him.



Regarding the case of codes, barcodes represent satanists. As you can see, everything you buy has a barcode. We uttered curses on foods, this is why Christians must get used to fasting. All barcodes have 3, 6 and 9 which represent the world of darkness. If they do not have 3, they will have 6, if they do not have 6, they will have 9. All these figures are satanic figures. Before foods are placed on the shelves of stores, we uttered incantations over them.



If you're Christian and you are using traditional medicine, potions and things prepared by the sorcerers, then you are not holy. We would accuse you before God and say that you worship creatures instead of worshiping the Creator. God said that we have the power over plants and trees. These things should not be our hope, Jesus must be our only hope, and if you put your trust in this potion and not in Jesus, you are sinning. These potions have evil spirits which are conferred either by us or by sorcerers. We immediately write your name in our book, because you belong to us.



Beloved, if you're not born again and saved, you will burn in hell, I guarantee you. When I was a new recruit, I did not know we were going to burn in hell, but later I found out. We are living the last days and those days are even bonuses because of the grace of God. We worked hard. The only thing that was left was the introduction of the number 666 which will happen in the coming days. Because there were many satan worshipers in the churches and because many of our secrets were revealed, we changed our strategy. There will be rather more numbers to be treated as secret numbers that the government will implement. If you have this number on the back of the hand or on your forehead, you will not go to heaven, you will be as a worshiper of satan and your blood will be full of satanic codes. This recording was in progress when I left. It can happen at any time, just as the Church can be removed at any time even as we speak. But we all do not know when; the Lord kept this as a secret to everyone.



When we made the awaken pastors to fall, we transformed them into our agents without them realising it. They became worshipers of Satan, but they did not separate from their bodies. We put our spirits in them.



When people came to give their offerings, in spirit, we would make incantations over the offerings. The curse was not acting on believers but on the church. There is an offering called tithing, it is really important for the Christian. This is the tenth of your income. We used to stop people from giving their tithes. We reminded them of things they still have to buy or pay. Then we would accuse them before God, saying to God that this person has stolen his money, we said to God that the needs of this believer are more important than Him. Satan called him a thief because he had stolen God's money and had not paid in full.



I advise you that no matter what you owe to God, you must pay, it is only a tenth of your income. Tithes protect you against accidents and help you stay holy. It is really important that you pay your tithes first before meeting your needs. You cannot skip a month and say that you will pay double next month. The month that you skipped represents a curse and will never change into a blessing even if you pay double next month. If you recall, God sacrificed his only Son, that was not easy, but He did it so that we escape hell. You also have to give to His work.



When someone was about to die, we would visit him. There are people who think they will confess their sins and repent when they are sick and about to die. We entered in him and made him dumb so that he is not able to confess his sins. You cannot confess your sins in your heart; you need your mouth to do it, just as you would to become a child of God. You must confess the Lordship of Jesus with your mouth. When a person dies with unconfessed sins, we wrote his name in our book, and he will burn with us. It’s the people who died with their sins that we used to appear to their relatives. We used their bones in their graves to disguise ourselves and appear as if the dead relative told them to do all sorts of things, and the victim would do these things thinking that he is honoring the dead relative, but it is in fact us that he honors. We even put money in the garden and would appear to you as your dead parent and would tell you that there is money in the garden, so that people believe that the dead parent is helping them. This is the way we made people believe in the worship of ancestors.



If you were a believer we would also visit you; there are believers who fall in their last minute on earth; we made them fall. At the last minute they wanted an animal to be sacrificed in honor of their ancestors. We would write immediately the name of that person in our book because he died defiled by the worship of ancestors. We watched each person before he died and others fell. If you die in holiness, we could not use your bones to trick your parents who are alive. Those are the ones who will be resurrected when Christ returns.



As time passed, there was an anointed Pastor named Chiliza of Mandawe. I started to follow him before I was even graded. When I was graded I was assigned to look after him because he was a tenacious adversary. He prays for people with HIV and they receive healing, and he could also pray for a person in a wheelchair and this person would walk again. We started telling people that he is a satanist and uses witchcraft to do these miracles and people believed us. I was going to get a Nissan Navarra if I managed to bring down this man of God. If he fell, he would not stop preaching, we would never discourage a fallen pastor to preach, but he would be used by our spirits to promote compromise and so on. All new Christians in this church would be in a trap, because he would begin to preach half-truths and everything we inspire him to preach.



When I came in every church, I sat at the back and watched what was happening. I studied his life, because when I wanted to bring down a Pastor, I studied his life first. I looked for his weaknesses at work or at home. Once he held a revival meeting in Sea View, I was still studying him. He had gone around evangelising and I followed. In 2008, he had a revival meeting at Fuscadale. This is where I studied him well and there was a wall of fire around him. If you are a child of God born again and fast regularly, you are always protected by a wall of fire around you. I went behind him and went home.



Pastor Chiliza had organised a revival meeting at Khushwini and I was forced to put on my false body, because the meeting was near my house. My code was in my blood. I went with my friend Slindile. She is not a devil worshiper and she didn’t know I was a devil worshiper. She was infested with the spirits of witchcraft and we were good friends. I was a hairdresser and we had long hair extensions. I used to braid my hair and she had the same hairstyle. Take my warning seriously when I tell you that the hair extension fiber is dangerous.



When we arrived, we came before the man of God. We drove with other brothers who did not know I was a devil worshiper, my friend did not know either. She was too insolent and disobedient at home, it was because she was my friend and I had a bad influence on her. We sat at the back and the man of God came in with his wife. When he entered, he said that there is an evil spirit in the room, he is also a prophet. My friend jumped and fell and wanted to run away.



I loved my friend and we were arrogant, people who were in the car in which we came; could testify how we were insolent. I took my friend to the altar to be prayed for because I did not want anyone to touch her because we were too proud. I was convinced of one thing that I was a graded and could never be caught because I had a very high grade and could even protect the chief who is a satanist; of fire that came from prayers and my code was in me.



On this particular day, Pastor Chiliza asked who accompanied the lady who fell; this was before he began to preach. I answered and told him it was me. He continued to preach and he repeated his question and I could not open my mouth, the Holy Spirit in him had mastered me. I could not even lift my foot. He asked again and I could not answer. He then turned and said to the church "look at that." He yelled FIRE, Jesus is a consuming fire, when he said this in the spirit I could see the fire coming out of his eyes, his mouth and hands. I fell and the demons took me out of my body and I immediately went into space and the demon that took care of my body stayed there.



When a demon is tormented because of fire, it responds to any question. Most pastors do not realise that if you do not burn the code of someone's body, he remains a devil worshiper even after deliverance. Fortunately he knew and asked the code to the demon and he burned it with the fire of God. As soon as the code was burned, the demons in space had no choice but to let me go. The demon that was in me returned to space. If they did not burn the code in my hand, the demons would be able to call me back because I was not called by my name; I was called by my code. The last figure that I received with my promotion came out with blood. After they prayed for me, I regained my senses, I decided to be saved and I will testify in the whole world. I trust in God because I have seen His power. I know that He is more powerful than satan.



Before I forget, after the rapture, it will not be the end of the world. There will be a church where everyone will be forced to go. I will not say the name of this church and it is already active at the moment that we’re speaking. People who won’t be taken to heaven with Jesus will be forced to go to this church to worship the Anti-Christ, this church exists today. When someone wants to go to heaven then, he will be horribly murdered to get to heaven and his family will be raped in front of him and the police will be merciless. What I can tell everyone is that he should save himself while there is still time. There will come a time when people will have to be killed to get to heaven. So I advise people to save themselves now before this dreadful time comes. Accept Jesus as His grace is still available.



I am a child of God born again, forgiven of all my sins. I will continue to testify and anyone who wants me to testify in his church is welcome. Some will not believe that I am delivered and others are still afraid of me, thinking that I will suck their blood. My Jesus is faithful though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I fear nothing. God bless you all and know that Jesus is coming very soon to take His church. God is faithful, do not give up. Beware of false prophets. Abide in the love of Jesus. I love you very much. I would like to thank those who interceded for me and those who never doubted me, but welcomed me and helped me and prayed with me. I would also like to thank the man of God, Pastor Chiliza. God bless you.



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picked and talked with the caller Apparently it was the owner of the bag coz he named absolutely every content of the bag.

We met afterwards and I handed him the bag. He offered me $2,000 dollars. but I turned it down, he collected my
number and I left. Yesterday he called me and offered me a job at Chevron.
worth 750,000 Naira per month, a 3 bedroom flat fully furnished, and a 2012 BMW X6.As I was smiling and testing the car my mum just slapped me and said
"Oya Oya Oya Wake up! Eba done ready"

NIGERIA IN HISTORY:
The Coup Speech of Major Orkar
On this day, April 22, 1990.

"Fellow Nigerian Citizens,

On behalf of the patriotic and well-meaning peoples of the Middle Belt and the southern parts of this country, I , Major Gideon Orkar, wish to happily inform you of the successful ousting of the dictatorial, corrupt, drug baronish, evil man, deceitful, homo-sexually-centered, prodigalistic, un-patriotic administration of General Ibrahim Badamasi Babangida. We have equally commenced their trials for unabated corruption, mismanagement of national economy, the murders of Dele Giwa, Major-General Mamman Vatsa, with other officers as there was no attempted coup but mere intentions that were yet to materialise and other human rights violations.

The National Guard already in its formative stage is disbanded with immediate effect. Decrees Number 2 and 46 are hereby abrogated. We wish to emphasise that this is not just another coup but a well conceived, planned and executed revolution for the marginalised, oppressed and enslaved peoples of the Middle Belt and the south with a view to freeing ourselves and children yet unborn from eternal slavery and colonisation by a clique of this country.

Our history is replete with numerous and uncontrollable instances of callous and insensitive dominatory repressive intrigues by those who think it is their birthright to dominate till eternity the political and economic privileges of this great country to the exclusion of the people of the Middle Belt and the south.

They have almost succeeded in subjugating the Middle Belt and making them voiceless and now extending same to the south.

It is our unflinching belief that this quest for domination, oppression and marginalisation is against the wish of God and therefore, must be resisted with the vehemence.

Anything that has a beginning must have an end. It will also suffice here to state that all Nigerians without skeleton in their cupboards need not to be afraid of this change. However, those with skeleton in their cupboards have all reasons to fear, because the time of reckoning has come.

For the avoidance of doubt, we wish to state the three primary reasons why we have decided to oust the satanic Babangida administration. The reasons are as follows:

(a) To stop Babangida's desire to cunningly, install himself as Nigeria's life president at all costs and by so doing, retard the progress of this country for life. In order to be able to achieve this undesirable goals of his, he has evidently started destroying those groups and sections he perceived as being able to question his desires.

Examples of groups already neutralised, pitched against one another or completely destroyed are:

(1) The Sokoto caliphate by installing an unwanted Sultan to cause division within the hitherto strong Sokoto caliphate.

(2) The destruction of the peoples of Plateau State, especially the Lantang people, as a balancing force in the body politics of this country.

(3) The buying of the press by generous monetary favours and the usage of State Security Service, SSS, as a tool of terror.

(4) The intent to cow the students by the promulgation of the draconian decree Number 47.

(5) The cowing of the university teaching and non-teaching staff by an intended massive purge, using the 150 million dollar loan as the necessitating factor.

(6) Deliberately withholding funds to the armed forces to make them ineffective and also crowning his diabolical scheme through the intended retrenchment of more than half of the members of the armed forces.

Other pointers that give credence to his desire to become a life president against the wishes of the people are:
(1) His appointment of himself as a minister of defence, his putting under his direct control the SSS, his deliberate manipulation of the transition programme, his introduction of inconceivable, unrealistic and impossible political options, his recent fraternisation with other African leaders that have installed themselves as life presidents and his dogged determination to create a secret force called the national guard, independent of the armed forces and the police which will be answerable to himself alone, both operationally and administratively.

It is our strong view that this kind of dictatorial desire of Babangida is unacceptable to Nigerians of the 1990's, and, therefore, must be resisted by all.

(b) Another major reason for the change is the need to stop intrigues, domination and internal colonisation of the Nigerian state by the so-called chosen few. This, in our view, has been and is still responsible for 90 percent of the problems of Nigerians. This indeed has been the major clog in our wheel of progress.

This clique has an unabated penchant for domination and unrivalled fostering of mediocrity and outright detest for accountability, all put together have been our undoing as a nation.

This will ever remain our threat if not checked immediately. It is strongly believed that without the intrigues perpetrated by this clique and misrule, Nigeria will have in all ways achieved developmental virtues comparable to those in Korea, Taiwan, Brazil, India, and even Japan.

Evidence, therefore, this cancerous dominance has as a factor constituted by a major and unpardonable clog in the wheel of progress of the Nigerian state. (Sic) It is suffice to mention a few distasteful intrigues engineered by this group of Nigerians in recent past. These are:

(1) The shabby and dishonourable treatment meted on the longest serving Nigerian general in the person of General Domkat Bali, who in actual fact had given credibility to the Babangida administration.

(2) The wholesale hijacking of Babangida's administration by the all powerful clique.

(3) The disgraceful and inexplicable removal of Commodore Ebitu Ukiwe, Professor Tam David-West, Mr. Aret Adams and so on from office.

(4) The now-pervasive and on-going retrenchment of Middle Belt and southerners from public offices and their instant replacement by the favoured class and their stooges.

(5) The deliberate disruption of the educational culture and retarding its place to suit the favoured class to the detriment of other educational minded parts of this country.

(6) The deliberate impoverishment of the peoples from the Middle Belt and the south, making them working ghosts and feeding on the formulae of 0-1-1- or 0-0-0 while the aristocratic class and their stooges are living in absolute affluence on a daily basis without working for it.

(7) Other countless examples of the exploitative, oppressive, dirty games of intrigues of its class, where people and stooges that can best be described by the fact that even though they contribute very little economically to the well being of Nigeria, they have over the years served and presided over the supposedly national wealth derived in the main from the Middle Belt and the southern part of this country, while the people from these parts of the country have been completely deprived from benefiting from the resources given to them by God.

(c) The third reason for the change is the need to lay a strong egalitarian foundation for the real democratic take off of the Nigerian state or states as the circumstances may dictate.

In the light of all the above and in recognition of the negativeness of the aforementioned aristocratic factor, the overall progress of the Nigerian state a temporary decision to excise the following states namely, Sokoto, Borno, Katsina, Kano and Bauchi states from the Federal Republic of Nigeria comes into effect immediately until the following conditions are met.

The conditions to be met to necessitate the re-absorption of the aforementioned states are as following:

(i) To install the rightful heir to the Sultanate, Alhaji Maccido, who is the people's choice.

(ii) To send a delegation led by the real and recognised Sultan Alhaji Maccido to the federal government to vouch that the feudalistic and aristocratic quest for domination and operation will be a thing of the past and will never be practised in any part of the Nigeria state.

By the same token, all citizens of the five states already mentioned are temporarily suspended from all public and private offices in Middle Belt and southern parts of this country until the mentioned conditions above are met.

They are also required to move back to their various states within one week from today. They will, however, be allowed to return and joint the Federal Republic of Nigeria when the stipulated conditions are met.

In the same vein, all citizens of the Middle Belt and the south are required to come back to their various states pending when the so-called all-in-all Nigerians meet the conditions that will ensure a united Nigeria. A word is enough for the wise.

This exercise will not be complete without purging corrupt public officials and recovering their ill-gotten wealth, since the days of the oil boom till date. Even in these hard times, when Nigerians are dying from hunger, trekking many miles to work for lack of transportation, a few other Nigerians with complete impunity are living in unbelievable affluence both inside and outside the country.

We are extremely determined to recover all ill-gotten wealth back to the public treasury for the use of the masses of our people. You are all advised to remain calm as there is no cause for alarm. We are fully in control of the situation as directed by God. All airports, seaports and borders are closed forthwith.

The former Armed Forces Ruling Council is now disbanded and replaced with National Ruling Council to be chaired by the head of state with other members being a civilian vice-head of state, service chiefs, inspector general of police, one representative each from NLC, NUJ, NBA, and NANS.

A curfew is hereby imposed from 8 p.m. to 6 a.m. until further notice. All members of the armed forces and the police forces are hereby confined to their respective barracks.

All unlawful and criminal acts by those attempting to cause chaos will be ruthlessly crushed. Be warned as we are prepared at all costs to defend the new order.
All radio stations are hereby advised to hook on permanently to the national network programme until further notice.
Long live all true patriots of this great country of ours. May God and Allah through his bountiful mercies bless us all."

Major Gideon Orkar

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'Dr. Ngozie Okonjo-Iweala, tells BBC World News that it was the State Governors that demanded the removal of fuel subsidy, to increase their incomes. And this demand predates her appointment, (meaning this scam was in plan before she was appointed to office as Minister of Finance) she asserts.

Dear Nairaland, I need Your advice from the below, message i receive from my friend,

Dear sir, i should'nt let this out,but if i don't,i don't have hope of geting help.It's about a girl i came across with in Anambra state who desperatily showed me love for days i spent there.I love her too,but did'nt let the cat out of the bag.Why? She schools in Baptist college,awka,while am in Taraba state university.Thats not the junk.The problem is,we will only get to see ourself once in blue moon.I dont know how to go about it.It my first time felling in love and she,too.Please tell me what i must do.Thank you.

My Dearest , ,

Up until a few months ago, I still believe that true love only happens to others. I, on the other hand, was contented leading a solitary existence given my own eccentricities. But fate obviously has different plans in store for me when our paths crossed.

When we first met, feelings that I didn't know existed stirred in my heart. An unexplained desire to know you better and a burning hope that I made a good impression. It is not often that we come across a person in our lives that we want him/her to take notice of us and ignite the spark that is embedded in our hearts.

You are that person to me and my instinct has not been wrong. With each successive date, I come home with a stronger and stronger longing to make this last. A firmer belief that you are the one that I could share my life with. And a deepening love that reached a depth that I have never ever experienced.

For some, love doesn't occur in an instant. Even I used to think that love takes some time to grow, especially the kind of deep love that envelops us now. But love can also be strange. If the person feels right in every way, love can take on a level of intensity that we never knew we are capable of feeling.

And this is what I'm experiencing right now. Being with you is comfort, love, security, contentment, passion and happiness, all rolled into one. A myriad of feelings but each works with one another to build a profound emotion in my heart that only you are capable of arousing. This relationship may be fairly new right now but I can earnestly say that I love you with all my heart.

Loving you always ,

To My Dearest , ,

You know that I'm a person of few words. I don't often say what is on my mind and even if I do, it usually doesn't come out quite right. But what I do not express verbally doesn't mean I don't feel it in my heart.

I may not say I love you everyday as some do. I may not have bought you beautiful gifts on occasions that matter. I may not have empathized when you were crying out for understanding. And I may not have done the right things to make you feel loved.

If you are going to judge me on these things alone, I know I have failed miserably. But if only you could look through my heart to see who it is beating for, you would know the depth of my love for you.

Darling, my emotions may not show but a love that is mostly hidden like mine is always deep and eternal. My heart can accommodate no other apart from you and I know this is how it is going to be for the rest of my life.

Expressionless I may be. Cold I may seem. But true love doesn't need to be shown. It resides in the heart just as how it resides deep in mine. And no matter the seasons that will come and go, it will be there withstanding the test of time.

As I write this today, the words are hard to flow. It is not my nature to be expressive. But no matter what, I want you to know that you are loved and cherished. And I want you to know that I do care. My words will never be able to describe exactly how I feel so, let me end this letter with 3 simple words, straight from my heart:

I love you.

Forever yours

A Brazilian woman has given birth to a two-headed baby boy and doctors say the newborn appears to be in good health. Maria de Nazare has decided to name the pair, who share a heart, lungs, liver and pelvis, Emanoel and Jesus.
"When doctors scanned her they realized that the baby had two heads and that a normal birth would be a great risk both for mother and baby," hospital director Claudionor Assis de Vasconcelos told Brazil's O Povo newspaper. "The caesarean took an hour because the baby was sitting down."
"Despite all the problems we have as a small interior hospital we managed to save both mother and baby, which was our aim," he said. "And for us it was a great surprise to find out that the child was in really good health."
De Nazare was expecting twins and only found out about the two-headed child minutes before doctors advised her to have a caesarean birth in order to save both her life and that of her baby. Along with two heads, the 9.9 pound newborns have separate spines.
In some two-headed births where one brain is less developed, one head is removed in order to save the child's life. But rarer cases like this one, where there are two functioning brains, complicates the decision making process for doctors.
"If both their brains are functioning, how are we going to choose which head to remove?" said Neila Dahas, director of the Santa Casa hospital. "We are not considering the possibility of surgery. What we've got to think about at this moment is to maintain the children in good condition and see how they will develop."
Conjoined twins sharing a body, but with separate heads, are extremely rare but not without precedent. This is the second such birth in Brazil this year. However, the other child died after a few hours because of a lack of oxygen to one of the child's heads.
There have been at least 14 dicephalic conjoined twins born over the past 200 years

http://news.yahoo.com/blogs/sideshow/healthy-two-headed-baby-born-brazil-192245708.html

Nagging is one of the most irritating cliches of relationship. If you have a nagging girlfriend you need to get it under control before she drives you out the door. Be honest, sometimes her nagging is justified but now that it has become a barrier in your relationship you need to do something. Follow these steps to get your girlfriend to stop nagging you.

1. Listen when she talks. For many relationships, nagging occurs because your girlfriend feels you ignore her. Start by listening when she talks. Be aware that if she is nagging in the middle of the ball game, you cannot stop her. Instead when the game is over it is time to sit down together and talk out your issues. Once she sees you are willing to do so, she should stop interrupting future games.

2. Ask what she wants. Your girlfriend might be nagging about the dishes in the sink when she is really upset about something else. She might want you to take her out to dinner and the dishes are just how that complaint is manifesting itself. Ask her and then listen to her answer.

3. Share the chores. If your girlfriend is nagging about housework, she probably has a point. Does she do all the cooking, cleaning and laundry? What do you offer to the relationship? Your girlfriend wants to be your partner, not your maid. She works too so complaining that you worked all day is not sufficient and devalues the fact that she did the same. Get up and do your part.

4. Stop over-promising. You might think that agreeing when she nags is the best thing to get her off your back. The problem is that when you agree and then don’t do what you agreed to, you have just upset her more. Instead, listen to what she is asking you to do then either say no or find a compromise. If you agree, if you promise to do something, then do it. Then she will stop nagging you about it.

5. Keep her updated. Your girl might just be suffering from the space between you. If you don’t talk to her or tell you what’s going on, she has to ask which you might take as nagging. If you promised to clean the garage, then tell her when you will do it. If something happens to change that, tell her and arrange for another time. Keep your girlfriend updated and she will see that you value the promises you make to her.

6. Provide constructive responses. Avoid telling her to stop nagging. Most women hate nagging you as much as you hate them doing it. Instead when you are talking together, setting goals and making promises, provide her with some constructive criticism. Say to her, “When you ask me to do something, I will do it but in my own time and when you repeat yourself I feel that you don’t trust me to do what I agreed to do.” Make the statement about you and your feelings not about what she is doing wrong.

7.Spend time with her. If the nagging in your relationship is motivated by your girlfriend feeling ignored then the only way to fix it is to spend time with her. Take her out or watch TV together in the evening. Find what she enjoys and try to do it together. Time may be all you need.

Stop your girlfriend nagging with these simple steps. If you put in the time, you will reap the rewards of a more peaceful and loving relationship.

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Thank You Flashaldrin, I am so surprise by all the replies, What a Shame!!!

Sometimes I wonder what is wrong with all these people in Nairaland, please check all my post and see if you have seen any fake news, I am in europe, and not base in nigeria, the post is a Real Life experience, please contribute base on your ideal, or stop the Nonsense on Post! Go to other european and USA forum, answer are direct to any Post, But here In Nairaland, You people take a serious matter, Unserious and almost Joke with everything, is that How You leave Your life?

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Knowing how to apologize to a woman can make a world of difference.

Telling a woman you're sorry will do wonders for restoring her faith, trust, and goodwill, whereas a lousy apology (or none at all) will just deepen the resentment and make the situation worse. If you've done something to hurt your sweetie, it's essential to tell her you're sorry as soon as possible, and to make it up to her if possible.
One man I used to know said, "I never use the words I'm sorry. I might say I was wrong, or I shouldn't have done that, or I promise I'll never do that again, but saying I'm sorry is too demeaning." Demeaning? How demeaning could it be to apologize to a woman you love?

My ex-wife used to apologize by saying, "I'm sorry you feel that way." In other words, she wasn't really sorry for what she'd done. sHe just wished that I hadn't reacted the way I did because now my anger was an inconvenience. Her apology was phony and added insult to injury.

A friend's ex-husband forgot to do something very important for his wife. His apology went something like this: "I'm sorry, but I had a lot on my mind." In other words, he wasn't really apologizing, just defending himself, giving an excuse of why it wasn't his fault, etc.

So….what does a real, honest-to-goodness, from the heart, sincere apology look like? Well, after you've taken your foot out of your mouth and gotten past any ego issues like Real Men don't have to say they're sorry or Only wimps apologize, keep the following points in mind when apologizing to a woman.


Acknowledge your goof, whatever it was. "I know I hurt you when I was an hour late in picking you up for the concert you bought tickets for three months ago."


•Explain why you did what you did, if you have a valid reason, not as an excuse, just as an explanation. If you have no valid explanation, or were just a temporary bonehead, admit it.
"I had to work later than I thought but I should have made sure I would be able to get here on time." Or "I lost track of the time. I was careless and just didn't pay attention."

•Tell her how you feel about letting her down. Now is the time to show your regret.
"I feel really bad for being so late. I can't believe I did that to you. I'm so sorry."

•Offer to make amends or repair the damage if it fits the situation.


"I'll work on being more conscious of the time when we have something special planned. The band is playing in X City next weekend. Let's take a road trip and see them there."
It's important to do this in person (I don't have to tell you that, do I?) and to look her in the eye when you say it. It would do wonders too if you give her a big bear hug. But make sure you are really sorry before you do any of this. Because if part of you feels like she's making too big a deal out of it, or you really don't get why she's so hot and bothered, she will know that you are bullshitting her and don't really mean it, and you will just piss her off even more.


Please remember, guys, that when you are man enough to admit you screwed up and do a decent job of apologizing to a woman, women love you for it and see it as a sign of strength in you, not weakness. So don't fall into the trap of being too embarrassed or having too much pride to apologize.That kind of male pride will get you nowhere in relationships with women. Just remember that knowing how to properly apologize to your woman is the absolute quickest way back to harmony. Avoid saying the wrong thing.

What do modern women want when it comes to dating, sex and relationships with men these days? While some particulars may vary from woman to woman, most things women want from men are virtually universal and here is where you’ll find the answers to this age-old question.

A Man With a Great Personality

Above all else, a great personality is what women are searching for in a man. Yes, they like looking at the pretty boys – it’s human nature to do so. But when it comes down to dating someone or having a relationship, personality beats looks every time.

If you’re the guy who can make her laugh by cracking jokes, being a little cheeky, and teasing her, you’ll literally charm the pants/skirt off of her.

A Man Who Exhibits Confidence

Women also like a man who exudes confidence. A woman pays special attention to see if you carry yourself with self-assurance, whether you are at ease when you talk to her and if you are a man who is comfortable with yourself. If you can offer this to a woman, it is very appealing and she will find it almost impossible to reject any offers you make to date her.

A Man Who is Comfortable to Treat Women as Equals

When a woman says that she wants to be treated like your equal, she doesn’t mean that she wants you to treat her like one of the guys. She just wants you to respect her, appreciate her intelligence and value her opinions. She still wants you to be the man – don’t ever forget that.

A Man Who is Supportive

She also wants someone who has her back, is there to support her and, when necessary, can protect her. That doesn’t mean that she always wants you always to run to her rescue, but she does want to know that if she needs your help you’ll be there. You don’t have to tell her this – she will pick up on it by observing your overall character as a man.

A Man Who Allows Her to be a Woman

Men are natural problem solvers and when a woman airs a problem to a man, many men often feel that it’s their job to solve the woman’s dilemma. However, that’s not necessarily what she wants. Most of the time (80%), she’s just looking for you to lend an ear but sometimes (20%), yes, she does want your input.

So how do you know the difference? Well, when a woman comes to you with a problem, just sit there and listen. Usually that’s all that she wants.

Too often you might have the natural male impulse to jump in with a solution and say, “Here’s how you should handle this,” or “Do you want to know what I think you should do?” Politely, she’ll say, “Yes, okay” and you’ll give her your advice. Then she’ll likely do what she thinks is best and not necessarily use the advice you offered and that might upset you.

The main reason why you shouldn’t take offense in these situations is that she didn’t actually ask for your help. You offered it first and, being a woman (who naturally submits to the masculine), she listened.

On the other hand, if she’s sharing a problem with you and you are actively listening, when she’s finished you can ask, “So how are you going to handle it?” At that point, she will either tell you what her plans are or she’ll ask you what you think she should do.

If she does ask, then she is looking to you for a possible solution. Once you give her your opinion, she very well may go with your suggestions but even if she doesn’t, you can be sure that she will weigh them carefully – most women do have a brain. Most importantly, the way you handled the situation will make her happy with you as a man. She’ll realize that you believe she is capable of using her judgment and she won’t feel as if you’re forcing your opinions on her.

A Man Who Treats His Woman as Special

Women like to feel special and cherished. This doesn’t mean she wants you to put her on a pedestal – a common mistake of the nice guy. When you first approach a woman or are just getting to know her, she wants you to treat her like you would any other woman; not any better or any worse. She wants you to be yourself – your best self – in her presence.

Of course, once you’re in a relationship, yes, she does want you to remember things that are special to the two of you (or to her) like birthdays, anniversaries, Valentine’s Day, where you went on your first date, special holidays and so forth.

Women are usually very sentimental. If you can show that you understand a woman’s sentimentality by remembering things that are important to her, you will be greatly rewarded for your efforts.

A Man Who is Comfortable Showing Affection and Attention

Most women love occasional, impulsive gift giving. And, no, a first date is not the time to bring candy or flowers – it’s a surefire case of ‘trying too hard’ and will turn 99% of modern women off you in an instant.

Once you’re in a relationship – the game changes. Every now and then, do something really special for her or buy her something that you know she’ll like when it’s not a gift-giving occasion. Most women respond to this by becoming more loving and affectionate to the man…as long as he has not being doing too many special things for her – that’s when she takes it for granted and begins feels bored.

Speaking of affection, most women adore sudden public displays. We’re not talking about mauling her in a supermarket, but giving her a warm, affectionate kiss on the cheek or lips, telling her you love her (once you’ve reached that stage of your relationship) once in a while, or holding her hand as you walk down the street. These are all loving acts that when done in public will usually be reciprocated ten-fold in private by her.

A Man with Ambition

While most women aren’t necessarily looking to marry a millionaire, she does want to know that you have a good work ethic and that you have at least some ambition to improve yourself. Whether it’s taking a class to advance your career or reading books that will improve your mind, women love men who aren’t content to just always sit in front of the tube or hang with their friends. They want a man who actually shows a desire to improve his life and possibly their life together.

You see, it’s not the grand gestures that most women want. It’s the little things that tell her that she’s chosen a great guy. Don’t believe what you see in TV sitcoms and magazine advertisements, telling you that you need to be tall, dark and handsome to be what a woman wants. It’s just not true. Women want you to be a man for them – that is what they fall in love with.

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A Driver's Account Of How A Delta State Gubernatorial Aspirant, Ogbe Onokpite, Extra-Judicially Murdered By The Nigerian Police

I had driven my boss to Warri some days before; my boss has a place in Warri so we were staying at his place in the city. I have never been to Warri before, this was my first time. I have met Chief Ogbe Onokpite on several occasions before because my boss had made me drive him to and fro in the city. On that faithful day, I brought my boss to the hotel, he had told me that we were picking up the Chief as they were supposed to be going to a meeting. My boss called the Chief on his phone and the Chief stuck his head out his hotel room window and beckoned by boss to come upstairs to meet him. He got out of the car and went into the hotel.

There were only two other cars in the hotel that day, one Toyota Camry and a Mercedes 230, I parked the car next to them and went into the hotel lobby and sat down to wait, there were about five men in the lobby. Minutes later, Chief Onokpite came down to the hotel lobby about to leave the hotel, he called me to drive him somewhere, he was talking to a  man in the lobby and asked to him to join him, as he was doing this he was still walking out to the car, this man refused the offer and the Chief tried to persuade him but he still refused and he was just giving the Chief excuses, that he had been drinking and he was tired, the Chief insisted saying “ I am not going far, look I just have flip-flops on, I am just going around the corner to pick up something” The man refused still, making more excuses all this time did not even come out the lobby.

We got into the car and as I turned the ignition and put the car in reverse, just then, a man whom I had seen earlier standing by the gate raised up the barrier at the gate and a jeep drove in very fast and stopped a man in plain clothes jumped out screaming “there is a robbery in progress every body get down, lie down every body, robbery taking place in room 305”

At first I was confused and I thought perhaps the man was a robber, we jump out of the car and lay down as instructed, when I looked around, I saw that the man whom I thought was the gateman was brandishing a gun and so also was two others I had seen earlier inside the hotel lobby. About ten men all dressed in civilian clothes appeared from no where with guns shooting in the air and a lot of police officers rushed into the compound. It became clear to me that they have been waiting around the hotel for the Chief.

The man from the jeep went into the hotel and ordered some men upstairs to the Chief’s room saying “go to room 305 finish anybody there hurry” when the men went upstairs, the man from the jeep got on the phone and he was pacing up and down and said several times on the phone “Yes your Excellency” “Yes your Excellency” He walked back the lobby, at this time some uniformed police were with him at the lobby, he gave them three photographs and one of them walked up to us, at this time the Chief was trying to send a text to someone, they took his phone and held the photographs to his face and said this is him. The man one the phone then said to who ever he was speaking to “We have him your Excellency”

They put handcuffs on us and put us in one Toyota Hilux, it was here that I saw that they had used about five vehicles to block the entrance to the hotel and a lot more were parked around, with police officers everywhere. At this point we heard more gunshots coming from upstairs in the hotel, remembering my boss was upstairs, I was scared for his life. All this time the man from the Jeep was still on the phone and he came up to where we were being held, still on the phone, you cold see that he was taking instructions from whoever he was on the phone with, he ordered the police officers to take the Chief out of the van “Drop him, drop him” they took him out and an officer tore his T-shirt he was wearing so it was hanging in shreds of him, the man on the phone then barked out “Shoot him legs” a light skinned officer in plain clothes stepped forward and shot the Chief both legs. He was then put back in the van. All this time the Chief is asking them, “What is going on? I have rights; you can’t treat me like this”

They put a black cloth over our heads and drove us away, the cloth was not thick so I could still see through it, on the way, the police were shooting into the air. We were taken to a police station. They took off the covers from our heads and started beating us. A man who was also taken from the hotel with us probably in another vehicle was put next to us, he was the one with the Toyota Camry at the hotel, they were beating us and he said that the car belonged to his wife and that she is a lawyer, he said he was there booking a room, they let him go immediately. Then they tied us up the Chief and myself and dragged us on the ground to the back.

There were more than fifty police officers present, they were kicking, punching us on the ground. Most of the beating was directed at the Chief and all this time as they were beating him, they were laughing and saying horrible things to the Chief “silly man, you dey challenge people wey pass you” (You are challenging people who are above you)

The Chief was a really brave man, as they were beating him he never once begged but instead he kept saying to them “Don’t be treating me like this, I am a hero in Delta State. Ayeri and Governor Uduaghan want me to work with them and I refused, it has nothing to do with you people, they are using you like slaves”

They kept beating the Chief and mocking him, one of them came and stabbed him in his right arm with a knife. From what I saw, all the police officers knew the Chief, they all knew who he was and it seemed like he knew most of them to, he kept calling some of them by their names, one Alhaji came and the Chief called to him saying “ Alhaji tell them to stop this” The Alhaji replied “Ogbe, I don dey warn you, you no listen, now see wetin don happen” (Ogbe, I have been warning you but you  wouldn’t listen, now you see what has happened)

The Chief saw another officer, he was in a black uniform but not the regular police uniform with a logo on it, the Chief must have known him well because he called him, I can’t remember the name any more but it was an English name, “…. You too, you are here and they are treating me like this and you let it happen? The officer replied “Yes, I dey here, you fool, you don finish” (Yes I am here, you fool, you are finished) this officer came to him and kicked in the chest.

They stripped the Chief Unclad and kept on beating and mocking him, all this time, I could still see the jeep from the hotel and the man was still on the phone, at one point the Chief said to the officers, “I see now that I am going to die today, so please let me talk to my wife, she is in Canada, we have a daughter and she is supposed to come first week of December so I can see my child and it is my wife’s birthday on the 4th of December, let me just say goodbye” The officers replied “too late for that ” They continued beating him, if you look at him, you will see boot marks from them kicking him. The chief called to of the officers and said “Look, I am a hero in this State, I cannot take this treatment, just shoot me instead” The police officer replied “I am sorry but I cannot shoot you”

Some other officers came and said that people have come to A-division to look for the Chief. The man on the phone moved closer to us still talking on the phone and he said into the phone “Yes your Excellency, it will be done” He turned to the officers and said “make this thing no reach five minutes, Oya finish am off” (Don’t let this take too long, finish him off)

At this time I was by the feet of the Chief, an officer came up to the Chief and was about to cover his head with the black cloth, the Chief pulled away screaming
“No, No, No cover, No cover. Don’t cover my face, let me die like a man”

“Shut up” the officer retorted and covered his head anyway, then they also put the T-shirt that they had torn off him over his head and they shot him about four times in his chest. They were hailing the officer that shot him, they were calling him “Boko Haram” I believe that this is his nick name.

They put a cloth over my head and were dragging me further to the back and I was really scared and I started saying “I no know anything o, I be Yoruba. Na driver I be”(I don’t know anything,  am Yoruba. I am just a driver) one officer ran up to them and asked them “who is this man”? They replied, “he was with the Chief when we arrested him”
This officer asked me “who are you” and I replied “I am a Yoruba boy from Lagos, I am just a driver, I don’t know anything or anywhere in Warri, I am just a driver” he spoke to them and said, make una leave am for now, take am inside make we see wetin we go do” (Let him be for now, take him inside until we figure out what to do). They then called a photographer to take pictures of Chief Ogbe Onokpite’s corpse.

They took me into an office and left me there, I saw a man sitting there and thinking he was an officer, I asked him for water but he told me that he too was arrested at the hotel and brought here. I remember he said his name was Benjamin. They left us there until later that night and at about 9pm, they brought in a young man and put him with us. They asked him if he knew me and he said no and they asked me and I said that I have never seen him before in my life. They wrote his statement for him and told him to sign, which he did. They wanted to write for me and I told them that I can write for myself and I did.  The young man was subsequently identified as Malik. When the officers left us alone, he started talking to me, asking what was going on but I was too scared and in shock to speak. He looked very worried and confused and did not seem to know what was going on. I decided to keep my mouth shut and not say anything.

Later the officers started talking about taking us to the prison cells and they said that there was one particular Oga (boss) who was supposed to sign the papers to put us in the prison cells, they said that he had come by before and left but that he will certainly come back.

At about 12 midnight, the officer arrived, he was an Igara man, he came to the office and saw us and turned to the officers saying “Shey una no take the Malik statement in front of these people?” (Hope you did not take Maliks’ statement in front of these people?) The officers just looked at each other guiltily and he said to them “silly idiots, come on take him from here and do it again” They took Malik away for two hours and later brought him back to us and then they took us all and put us in the prison cell.




Very early the next morning, they came and took Malik away, they were saying “CP don come from Asaba” (Commissioner of Police has come from Asaba) He was away for a very long time and when they brought him back, he said to us “E be like say this thing big o, I no know wetin dey happen but dem carry many people from press come, some dey take my picture, others dey video me. E be like say na serious matter o” (It seems like this thing is big, I don’t even know what is happening, but they  brought a lot of people from the press and some are taking pictures of me others filming me. I think it’s a very serious matter)
A lawyer came for me on Sunday, who was sent by my boss. I found out later that the name of our IPO is Meduga, our IPO came back and took Malik away again andafter a long time the people in the cells started saying that Malik has definitely been taken to Asaba, to our surprise, they brought him back later that night.
On Monday morning, our IPO came and took Malik away and that is the last time I saw him, I did not hear from my lawyer on Monday and on Tuesday in the evening I was released to a bailiff.

I have been getting calls from the IPO (Meduga) and he said to me that the car papers are nowhere to be found and I should check if I have them on me or that if they are in the car, I should come and show it to them. I have not returned to the police since then because I believe God has personally intervened to save me. I am afraid for my life and I want to stay out of this.


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My name is Jomo Alawuru, I have written this based on telephone conversations of the testimony given by the driver who was also a victim and is now on the run. He gave me his account of what transpired on that day 26th November 2011.

Chief Ogbe Onokpite was my Brother-in law. When I heard of his death and the flimsy story provided by the police/ government, I knew immediately that something was not right, so I decided to look into it.

I write this not without a measure of fear because I have family in Warri but I know in my heart that I owe it to Chief Ogbe Onokpite to let the truth come to light.

I started asking questions to know who was with him during his last hours and I was able to get in touch with the owner of the vehicle that the police claimed was intercepted containing two guns. This vehicle was at the hotel when the police arrived as stated from the driver’s testimony. The owner of this vehicle was upstairs in the room with the Chief, also gave me his testimony of events that took place on that day and I will be releasing it soon to the police here in the UK together with the drivers account.

The police claimed that a vehicle was stopped and searched and they found guns, this vehicle they claimed was being driven by a Malik Okorokporo , Malik Okorokporo was also paraded as the killer of Michael Asore about two years ago, when it was widely believed that the killing then was carried out by military men. As things go in Nigeria, he was released subsequently without any charges once the heat had died down and now they are parading him again as the gun-toting ally of Chief Onokpite, perhaps they think we have forgotten.

The vehicle that the police claimed was being driven by Malik was in fact parked at the hotel and was there the whole time until the police came on the 28th of November 2011to tow it away because the chief’s brother had already instructed people there to deflate the tires.

It has been made clear from other sources that the man in the jeep who was on the phone is called Captain Jide, a dismissed officer from the Nigerian Army. It is quite clear that there is only one person in Delta State referred to as “Your Excellency” Captain Jide is the Key, he only can confirm who he was talking to and he should be put in custody before they erase him to cover their tracks.

The pictures taken of his corpse in an attempt to humiliate him is now haunting them, they say that he died on the way to the hospital; Unclad and beaten up? I did not know that one can lose his clothes and be covered in sand and bruises just from riding in a Nigerian police van.

I grew up in Warri and we used to pride ourselves of our accommodating nature that so long as you were born in Warri, you are a “Wafarian” The lingua franca was pidgin and there was never any talk of tribes. I remember talking to a lawyer from Warri some time ago who said jokingly “I lived in Warri all my life in peace, it wasn’t until the crisis I realized I was Itsekiri”

This was how we lived until these bad elements started planting the seeds of hate in the hearts of the people and cause serious problems whilst they enrich themselves in the process. I had friends close to the Olu palce inWarri and I remember that I would stay with them well into the night before leaving for home without fear; nowadays an Urhobo boy wouldn’t dare risk it.

Uduaghan and his twelve disciples (as they are called) have committed this crime on their own, I have spoken to many Itsekiris and they are just as bitter as the Urhobos. Uduaghan and his twelve disciples are committing these crimes in the name of Itsekiris but this crime was committed by them and them alone. They are trying to cause chaos to keep us distracted as they fill their pockets, plunging the city back into the dark days of the crisis.

For example, Ayeri Emami, went to a bar in Uvwie local govt area on Monday 28th of November, two days after the assassination of Chief Ogbe Onokpite dancing and saying that nobody can touch him, that he does not any security with him. Of all places to go out and dance, he chose Uvwie, Chief Ogbe Onokpite’s stronghold, what motive lies behind this move other than a slight to the Urhobos?

Just yesterday, The Governor Emmanuel Ewetan Uduaghan apologised to the Urhobos saying “Please, whatever wrong I did, I plead for forgiveness” To forgive you for what? This is just another slight to the Urhobos. If he believes that he is guilty of something, then he should confess instead of beating around the bush. Then he went on to insult us saying that it’s our fault that we are where we are today. Thank you very much for opening our eyes.

With this, we do not have to be told that we need to do. My fellow Deltans, let us unite as one to re-claim our State back from these Oligarchs, this does not mean that we do not want justice for this crime.

I am calling on the Inspector General of Police, Mr. Hafiz Ringim, to give us this justice especially when it is this clear that your men were instrumental in carrying out this assassination.

I am also calling on the president, Goodluck Ebele Azikiwe Jonathan to give the people of Delta State justice so as not to escalate the situation further.

http://saharareporters.com/report/drivers-account-how-delta-state-gubernatorial-aspirant-ogbe-onokpite-extra-judicially-murdere

TRLS!--[True Life Stories].
Hi
A frnd of mine jst got married 6months ago and not happy wit d guy,d guy beats and insults her and wen she reports to d guys parents,dey av notting to say abt it, she said she is so afraid and wants out of d marriage dnt knw wat to tell her and I tld her am goin to send it to yu jummy. Wat shld she do, ?

QUESTION:- PLS WHAT WOULD YOU ADVICE A WOMAN WHO AFTER 6MONTHS OF MARRIAGE, HER HUSBAND STARTS BEATING & INSULTING HER, SHE REPORTS TO HER IN-LAWS, THEY DO NOTHING ABOUT IT, ---NOW, SHE SAYS SHE HAS MADE A TERRIBLE MISTAKE, SHE NO LONGER WANTS TO BE MARRIED!!! ?

Anyone with useful advice please !!!

I have a childhood friend who was killed by her husband because of jealousy [who is now facing 38yrs in prison] , She had two kids for that man, Now, I don't know how to pacify both families over those kids because my late friend's family doesn't want their in-laws to ever see those kids again, Infact, I heard My late friend's elderly sister is planning to take those children abroad.

I have been a childhood friend to both families but I don't know what to do!! My late friends husband's families want to see and have those kids always come visit them, While the other sides says NO!, I am in between the two sides! and I am also thinking of whats best for those kids, I know my late friend would have loved peace to go on, but what can I do?

Now If this late friend of mine happens to be your sister,
Would you allow your in-law see their grandchildren, for a while, for holidays, during weekends?
Or would you let them pay for life?
Or do you think Its better you let those kids grow up and decide by themselves?

1.) For all we talk about how hot guys are. We mostly care about there personality. Though a hot body is a plus

2) We are just as shy as you are about relationships

3) Many of us don't let you see us cry, unless we want you to comfort us

4) We like dropping small flirts, to see if you are interested. But we will later deny it or make it into a joke

5) Most of us prefer to be call beautiful than hot or sexy. But not all of us




6) We only wear mini skirts, tank tops and skimpy cloths for you (unless it's REALLY REALLY hot outside). So if you don't like what we wear say something likely look really nice today, but you know, I think I like you in jeans better'

7) We travel in groups for one of two reasons 1) because we want to share some form of gossip with each other or get advice on something 2) B/c we don't want to get caught by ourselves with you because we won't know what to say and are afraid we'll make a fool of ourselves

MOST girls spend about 15% of the time thinking about specific guys, 20% thinking of guys in general, 25% thinking of how to get guys to notice us and what to say when we do, 30% of the time TALKING about guys (even if someone else isn't listening), and 10% of the time doing something else

9) Girls automatically assume that all guys are ***** and only want to get into our pants until you prove otherwise (and even then some small part of us still thinks that)

10) Most girls are under the impression that guys only want skinny 'hot' girls

11) Most girls enjoy being paraded around once in awhile in front of your friends. We enjoy having you show us off to your friends, kind of like, 'Hey, look at my hot ass girlfriend! Aren't you jealous?" But we don't enjoy being nothing but a trophy girl

12) Nicknames like "Babe, or darling" are safe to call just about any girl. But beware of "Princess or Angel". Some girls will take offense to this thinking you are calling them to innocent or incapable of taking care of themselves.

13) Speaking of nicknames, almost every girl has ONE nickname that they just love to be called

14) Most girls will drop lots of hints to tell you that they like you, but won't come right out and say" I like you" or "I love you". If you think they like you, there is a good chance they do.

15) Scenario time! -You like a girl named Ashley, Ashley has a friend named Brenda. Brenda comes up you in the hall and asks "Do you like Ashley?"

More often than not in this scenario Ashley asked Brenda to ask you because she is to shy to ask you herself. And even if she didn't the first thing Brenda is going to do with your answer is tell Ashley. Now you are thinking "WHAT!? NO!! DON"T TELL HER THAT!!!" but in reality, this is a good thing. Because there is a good chance she already likes you. And if she doesn't, she will now be looking at you in a different way, and let me tell you. It's a lot easier to fall for a guy if you already know they like you. So its safe. So go ahead and tell Brenda that you like Ashley. Take a chance.

16) Girls hate it when guys say perverted things.

17) Girls love to feel special, even though they might not show it

18) Girls talk about everything with their girl friends. So unless you tell us not to tell them about something, they WILL know about it within 3 days. And if you are the girl's boyfriend, that means, you're possibly 90% of their conversation. And believe me, trash talking takes up most of it, unless you're a Greek god, which you're not,

19) Girls hate guys with bad hygiene.

20) Girls love it when a guy pulls them close by the waist

21) Most girls like a guy that will willing dance with them, even if he doesn't know how

22) Usually, when a girl is sarcastically mean to you, it means they're attracted to you, but are afraid that they'll be showing too much

23) A kiss on the hand with the right timing can be a REAL TURN-ON

24) Some girls can think about their crushes for 18+ hours straight. No exaggeration

25) When a guy says something really sentimental, girls will remember it forever

26) Girls get embarrassed easily, even if guys don't know what the hell just happened.

27) Girls daydream about their crushes ALL the time. They just don't show it.

28) When a girl is upset and wants you to listen, she wants you to listen. She doesn't need you to fix it or tell her how to. She just wants you to listen.

29) When a girl is crying, she feels a lot safer if you pull her close and tell her that everything is going to be all right. And more likely than not, it will endear them to you more than anything else.

30) Girls love it when guys say their name

31) Girls love confidence

32) When a girl cooks for you, you know you mean a lot to her

33) Girls hate it when other girls flirt. Yet they flirt themselves too. Ah, the beauty of irony

34) We don't enjoy talking dirty to you as much as you enjoy listening.

35) Saying something sweet might get you off the hook; doing something sweet will always get you off the hook.

36) Size does matter, but only to hoes; not girls that want relationships.

37) No matter what you say, your ex-girlfriend is a hoe to us. Not because we don't like your taste in women, because believe me WE do! its just that, we don't want to have to wonder if she is better than us. And if she is a hoe, we are better. So it makes things simple for us.

38) We are self-conscious by nature; we can't help it. But we CAN try and hide it.
39) Even if you think it is cool to burp, fart, or emit other strange gases from your body, it is not. Though we sometimes will tell you it is.

40) As far as you are concerned, we are beautiful at all times, and don't tell us different, unless you make it sound like a compliment (even if it isn't) Like, "You were really pretty yesterday when you wore -insert clothing/accessory here-, I think you should wear that more often"

41) Whatever you do, don't just show up at our house unexpected or at least without ringing the door bell, we run around in our underwear just like you do. And no matter how much you would like to see that, we will likely never talk to you again

42) DON'T CHEAT ON US. It may seem foolproof, but girls tell each other everything about everything. Trust me, they WILL find out and you will be dirt.

43) We want you to beware of every male relative and all guy friends. All of them would kick your ass at the drop of a hat, and a lot of them wouldn't even wait for the damn hat. We just don't want you to be too obvious.

44) We enjoy being kissed by you in front of your friends. It makes us feel like you care a lot about us.

45) You don't have PMS; so don't act like you know what it's like. Don't try to understand, believe me you never will.

46) Violent statements like "If that guy keeps looking at you, I'm going to tear his head off" are appealing

47) We don't want you to say you love us if you don't mean it

48) We love it when you make eye contact with us while we talk.

49) Most girls are afraid of losing our independence to guys (for some unknown reason)

50) If you ask a girl out directly, more likely than not, she will say yes to you. Even if she only has lukewarm feelings for you, because it will give her the chance to get to know you better and get to like you even more.

51) Most girls love it when guys ask them for advice.

52) Girls like it when you tell us what you are thinking, even if you don't understand it yourself

53) After you've been dating for a while, realize that we really have started to trust you. When you have a girlfriend who truly trusts you, you have a lot more responsibility, privilege and control than you would think. Be careful with it, most guys would kill for that kind of power, and it can be lost in a nanosecond

54) There is nothing wrong with being attentive and sensitive. However, this behavior can be carried too far. You don't have to hang on our every word or give in to our every whim. The thrill of the chase doesn't end after the first successful pick-up line. If you don't present us with some minor challenges, we're likely to get bored, or worse, feel that you're creepy and obsessive.

55) Variety is the spice of life. There are patterns underlying what your woman says she likes and doesn't like. It would benefit you far more to try and discern the nature of these than to repeat everything she admits to enjoying until she no longer does

56) Most men think the chase ends once they have us, but truly it has only just began.You must work even harder to keep us then you do you earn us. We not some trophy you can earn,put on a shelf and admire. You have to care for us like the living human beings we are.(see 54)

57)WHEN WE SAY NO ITS NO, SO STOP ASKING!!!

58)If someone flirts with you, its a complement. If you're not interested, accept it but dont flirt back.

59)The woman in your life needs to hear how you feel about her, and often. Tell her now

60)All women are complicated, and it is doubtful any man will ever fully be able to understand us.But we know that, so its going to be ok

What attracts a man to a woman differs individually. Likewise, what puts people off in a relationship off differs as well. we went to town to ask people what puts them off in a relationship. Below are their responses.

Leonard Junior
What turns me off in a relationship is when the lady is too forward. Secondly, if she doesn’t talk politely and lacks respect for people including me, I could get angry and call off the relationship.



Onwudiwe Gerald
When God created Man, He later realised that Man needs a companion that would kill his loneliness. Relationship in a nutshell is companionship. However, good relationship is hard to get these days. A situation where my girlfriend is putting unnecessary pressure on me gives me reason for doubt.
Women love money, that is why I have been praying to God to give me enough money that will sustain my relationship. Women are easily influenced these days. And I wouldn’t tolerate my woman flirting around. If I discover such, the relationship is over.

However, I do not believe it is easy to put off a long standing relationship, because to err is human and to forgive is divine. If God can forgive us our transpasses, who are I not to forgive her? But she has to show true repeatance to maintain my love.

Shina Asaruwa
The major thing that breaks up a relationship is money. It is bad when you discover that the woman you are dating is more interested in your money than loving you passionately. And when she gives flimsy excuses for her absence when you need her, it is obvious that another man is in her life. Moreso, when she denies you sex after providing everything for her, you don’t need a seer to tell you that she does not love you sincerely. If I discover this in a relationship, I will quit immediately.

Joy Chidiobi
Bad habit can break up a relationship. For instance, if a guy has one bad attitude that does not go well with me and he doesn’t want to stop it, there is every tendency that I would break up with him. Another thing that would make me quit a relationship is if my friend does not have an enduring heart towards me especially, when I am passing through a difficult time.

Mukaila Areganjoye
These days, women love money more than anything and they keep on demanding which shows that they love your money more than you the giver and any relationship that is built on money has nothing to show off.
Relationship breaks up if one of the partners is stealing from the other.

Shino Ola
A relationship breaks up when the man has no money to maintain his woman. I say this because, these days, no woman wants to suffer and it is only the money that can keep her away from dating other men. A relationship for me, should end when one partner begins to sleep around.

Rasaq Taiwo
Keeping a friend that one doesn’t really love can make the relationship last for a while. Money on its own, can terminate a relationship. In a situation where a man does not have money to maintain her girl, the girl would hardly be failthful.

Simiat Adeola
Having a partner who does not remove his eyes from other girls can shake the trust I have for him and if care is not taken, it can end the relationship.
Again, I can end a relationship if I discover that my guy does not love me.

Idris Aina
I am not the type that gets pissed off easily but I can easily turn my back at any lady that is full of deceit, lies and one that is unfaithful. There is nothing in this world that will make me accept her afterwards.

Nwauba Chigozie
Let’s look at it from the angle that I am not perfect but she has to be real, considerate and respectful. That way I can be the best of me.

Michael Nwadibe
So many things put me off in a relationship, dishonesty tops the list. Most couples take lie as a normal thing these days. When your wife is in Abuja, she will tell you that she is in Lagos.

Anne Chris
I wouldn’t know what puts people off in a relationship because I have not been in any and I don’t intend going into one either.

Awolusi Adedayo
I get pissed off when I discover that he is not giving me adequate attention and that he gives other ladies the attention I need.

Theodora Mene
When a guy is being unfaithful and tells lot of lies, I will feel uneasy with him. I prefer my guy to be truthful. Let his yes be yes and his no, no.

Thomas Ajayi
I can take lies from a guy. I believe they are super liars and it conforms to their nature but when a lady lies to me, I feel betrayed because, I see them as special species that don’t lie. So, when I am in a relationship and the lady is being unfaithful and lies so much, that definitely will put me off.

Owolabi Fatima
To me what can put me off in a relationship is insincerity of a guy,when he is telling lie,when you can’t trust your partner,we can’t call that a relationship, to me is very bad and it gives me headache and when I catch my lover lying here and there, and I can’t do anything good with that type of person, the fact is to let him go even if I truly love him to say goodbye

Anumba Vivian
What puts me off in a relationship is when my partner is promiscuity. Character really puts me off.

Emmanuel
What puts me off in a relationship is attitude. If my partner has attitude problem, I will just let go.

Nwachukwu Linus
What puts me off in a relationship is little or no sex, unfaithfulness, lies and disrespect. Once I notice all this and I can’t correct her, I will just withdraw from her.

Tunde Olagunju
If my girl nags and feels insecure with me, I can quit my relationship with her.

Wale Fasasi
Pretence really puts me off in a relationship.

Bunmi Akinmulero
Lies puts me off in a relationship because there is this belief that someone who lies has the tendency to steal. So, I will not like to associate myself with such a person.

Princess
If my man has ego and lies a lot, it can really put me off.

Collete Thomas

What puts me off in a relationship is poor communication, weak sex and lies. It is better I remain single than be in a relationship with such a man.

Ayo imole
When my woman lies and cheats on me, it puts me off because any time I see her around me, I will be irritated.

Tolu shotade
What puts me in a relationship is no Mouth Action from my woman

Ogechukwu osondu
What puts me off in a relationship is lies and unfaithfulness.

Bashpac lammy
What puts me off in a relationship is lack of policy.

Micheal kalu
What puts me off in a relationship is simply lies.

Emeka Aningo
What puts me off in a relationship is inconsistency.

Din Edoka
What puts me off in a relationship is when my partner doesn’t show concern or give me attention. Of course, it can be very painful.

Pruberry
I hate it when my partner is very secretive. It really puts me off in a relationship.

Atobatele Oni
What puts me off in a relationship is having a partner that doesn’t understand my type of person. I am a very social person and if my partner cannot understand that, then, I will leave him.

For Single Guys Only

Here are few tips to have a Merry Xmas and make it to 2012 financially healthy.
1. Flee from Persons with feminine appearances, except thy Mum.
2. Thou shall not make up with Ex-Babes, avoid their calls, pleas from their Best Friends, Pastors, Imams, Parents especially their Mums.
3. Thou shall not smile to Ladies you meet in the Banks, Shopping Malls and other Public Places where money changes hands.
4. Thou shall not keep a straight face when in a public transport; Thou shall not laugh at jokes especially if told by a Feminine Personality beside you.
5. Thou shall not plead, run after or solicit to have her back if she walks away from you angrily, just believe in the saying
"Agaracha must come back".
6. For those whose girl friends are so smart not to pick up quarrels with you; hmmm, try the 'first to complain method'. Complain about every single thing you can think of, Boko-Haram, GEJ, EFCC, Salty Food, Pressure from work, Economy, Subsidy Removal, Missing Remote Control (hide it if you can). Something must get her upset to start an early Xmas quarrel.

With these tips, you will not spend beyond your means, or get broke come 2012. Merry Xmas in Advance

why do nigerian men treat their wives with so much hatred and cruelty but treat the woman outside like a queen,i don't get it.

guys don't take it personal here but am being frank with my question coz alot of married woman are crying and smiling same time
coz they have no choice,you are married to a man that neglet and treat u like u don't exist why?they will not take care of their homes, they are never there for their wives prefer to spend time with women outside,provide more for them than their wives,pay more attension to gurls that are dating two or three men same time. A man that is blessed with a beautiful wife and kids,things are going well for you i believe u have been favoured by GOD,then your obligations are to love and cherish what GOD has given to you.The Bible does say in Galatians 6:7-8, “Be not deceived; God is not mocked: for whatsoever a man soweth, that shall he also reap. For he that soweth to his flesh shall of the flesh reap corruption; but he that soweth to the Spirit shall of the Spirit reap life everlasting.”

The Bible says in Song of Solomon 8:7, “Many waters cannot quench love, neither can the floods drown it: if a man would give all the substance of his house for love, it would utterly be contemned.” There are many good reasons to get married: for companionship and friendship, to have children, and to satisfy your physical and emotional needs of love. These are all good reasons that God created for marriage. so why suffer and neglet the woman you ones told "i love you",she hardly sees her husband,he talks to his girlfriends in her presence not even a little respect for her,calls the shorts the way he likes like she does not exist,women can not commit adultery like the way men do it with free mind,why don't they value and treat their women with respect alot use culture to subdue them with the fact that they are men and is meant to be so,

WHAT IS THE BIG REASON SINCERE ANSWERS PLEASE!!!