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Romance / Re: Nigerian Woman Wants To Marry After 3 Wks Due To Visa Issues. by Mulatto: 11:44pm On Jun 02, 2008 |
Thanks for all of your comments, I really appreciate your kindness. We talked about it and I stressed my strong feelings about a one-time marriage and she was not sure if she could do forever, so I basically told her that she needs to find someone who is willing to be paid in exchange for the legal hassles and emotional stress involved in it. And that's that, to 'his grace', in america I am considered black (however I am a white and black mix - aka a mulatto) and you better believe that I handle my business in the boardroom as well as in the bedroom. Thank you very much. 1 Like |
Romance / Nigerian Woman Wants To Marry After 3 Wks Due To Visa Issues. by Mulatto: 6:35am On Jun 02, 2008 |
Hi, I have a big, big decision and I need your help. I met this beautiful Nigerian women a few weeks ago. I am an American male. We went out on a date a couple weeks ago and things seemed ok but I had no true indication of whether or not we were making a connection. I personally thought that she was gorgeous and very sweet and lovable. She actually made us dinner that night before the date. Having talked a few times in b/w on the phone everything was going slow, suddenly today she asks me to meet her because she has something very important to ask me. It turns out she filed twice for a visa, cancelled the first, and went through with the second. Unfortunately immigration is looking at the first as a violation and they are threatening deportation. The only reason she came to the USA was to go to FAA school, which she is currently attending and she showed me paperwork to prove it as well as lawyer's documentation being used to fight immigration. Long-story short she asked me if I would help her by marrying her. I told her that I view the institution of marriage as a sacred one and I only planned to have one marriage. She agreed and was sympathetic with my reasoning. My solution was to do a speed-dating session, where we go out everyday and talk as much as possible until she had no alternative but to get married, that's a week or two for us to make a solid decision. Am I crazy? Am I doing the right thing? do you think she will drop me as soon as possible? I personally think she is a sweet, honest, caring person and absolutely gorgeous in my eyes. I have always believed in the Indian tradition of quick marriages and learn/enjoy on the go, so that is not a problem. I just want to make sure that I am not setting myself up for heartbreak. Any wisdom/help is very much appreciated. |
Travel / Re: Getting Married For The Green Card (Citizenship) by Mulatto: 6:28am On Jun 02, 2008 |
Hi, I have a big, big decision and I need your help. I met this beautiful Nigerian women. We went out on a date a couple weeks ago and things seemed ok but I had no true indication of whether or not we were making a connection. I personally thought that she was gorgeous and very sweet and lovable. She actually made us dinner that night before the date. Having talked a few times in b/w on the phone everything was going slow, suddenly today she asks me to meet her because she has something very important to ask me. It turns out she filed twice for a visa, cancelled the first, and went through with the second. Unfortunately immigration is looking at the first as a violation and they are threatening deportation. The only reason she came to the USA was to go to FAA school, which she is currently attending and she showed me paperwork to prove it as well as lawyer's documentation being used to fight immigration. Long-story short she asked me if I would help her by marrying her. I told her that I view the institution of marriage as a sacred one and I only planned to have one marriage. She agreed and was sympathetic with my reasoning. My solution was to do a speed-dating session, where we go out everyday until she had no alternative but to get married, that's a week or two of dating/decision-making. Am I crazy? Am I doing the right thing? do you think she will drop me as soon as possible? I personally think she is a sweet, honest, caring person and absolutely gorgeous in my eyes. I have always believed in the Indian tradition of quick marriages and learn/enjoy on the go, so that is not a problem. I just want to make sure that I am not setting myself up for heartbreak. I am an American. |
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