I am glad you got help and I can't wait to see the replaced phone.

Both.. But male children carry on the name.

There is a video trending of a young girl dressed to lkill being harassed by a preacher and made to kneel down so he can save her soul.
I remember when younger... We would dress to kill. Anyone telling us about religion or mortals was old fashioned.
How I wish I understand how important cloths are!
That they are a message we speak to ourselves and to the world.
When children don't have proper dress orientation the join bad groups that they identify with.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xdyteUqlnu0

wink2015:
He is a Mulatto just like Ben Murray Bruce, Daddy Freeze etc

MULATTO plenty for Naija !

Some of our Naija Daddys that went to study in USA and UK just BANG white women and jump back to Naija.

The white mother carry pregnancy for 9 months waiting for the Nigerian daddy and finally give birth to the MULA !

Some of these Mulatto Children come to Naija to trace their root and find their Nigerian father who are already dating a Nigeria woman back home.

MULATTO CHILDREN go through different psychological trauma.

What kind of trauma exactly?
What a remark!

When both are committed to make it work.
If you both want it to work it will.
Your partner may sometimes be in a not committed phase... Then you can draw them back with love.
Respect each other and have fun.
Laugh allot together.
A woman that respects her husband authority.

Please hang on there.
Allot of people are facing the same challanges today.
With God all things are possible

Mecka:
The future is not female

Are you sure

She should make more effort.
Is it all about money?
Let her try more to be a loving and receptive wife and the man's attitude might change.
From the narrative there is no love or regard for the man.

So sorry about your loss please don't loose hope.
God is your strength.

I think you overstepped the boundary by prying into her privacy.
Please have decent conversations with her.
Teenagers need to be able to communicate and thrust someone without fear odf being judged.
And she needs her safe heaven.
.plea2do this in real life and stop the sneaking.

On Monday the pope said to to blessing gay unions but Germany has decided to disobey the pope.
By weekend priest were flying the rainbow flag outside their churches. In church the priesty are preaching that Homo unions should be blessed.
They lso want women to become priests and priests to be allowed to marry. Most importantly they want more powerand less control from Rome.
I don't recognize the catholic church again.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lOGhIk4gA0s

It's a sad trend.
Unfortunately not much in place to help these young girls to pick up the pieces.

Not true...
She will assume she can also buy a man.
These days some men are purchasable.

He should have done this 30 years ago.

May they rest in peace.

For those who still habe an asylum interview ahead of them... Listen to this video... It contains what no one will tell you.
Some people who listen to it confirmed that they got their asylum granted.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=u2KxTE_CbQI

I am actually an old member of Nairaland but hadly but stuck more to the family section.
The African church in Diaspora is actually very important but unfortunately allot of us have been spirituality traumatised in these churches.
Sometimes it takes years to heal.
Based on this experience I made this video.
My YouTube channel is new and focused on sharing useful information to Africans in diaspora.
Allot of what I addressed also applies to the African church.
I look forward to your comments and critics too!.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MOd_SFyi7MI

Please give it to her or at least a part of it and tell her it's over.

The love and respect of his wife.
A helper.

These white women are like that.
It goes very fast.
They don't care about the damage caused

gypsey:
Why would anyone going to a foreign country to seek greener pasture be claiming asylum? isn't that contradictory?

Africans were dumb, stupid, hopless and ignorant that was why they were able to be colonised. It was easy for white men to colonise Africa. Infact, Africans are still dumb, stupid, hopeless and ignorant hence the mass rush to the the same countries who enslaved and colonised them to beg to be enslaved even more. Only thesedays people like you call it seeking greener pastures or seeking asylum (mordern slavery).

You can't judge people who are trying to survive.
What's the difference if the slave masters are white or black!.
Is the life in Nigeria not slavery... So many are living in poverty.
Migratting has always been a part of humans the only difference is that people are trying to constrain it.

gypsey:
It isn't about knowing how to answer the questions, what you would find is if an asylum claim is genuine the claimant should be able to tell their stories without being trained or learned how to answer truthfully to any questions they are asked about their claims. The problem is most claims are false.

What is false about people searching for greener pastures.
Did they not come and colonies Africa's...
I don't recollect that they sought asylum in our country.

It's unfortunate that most people seeking asylum don't know how to prepare themselves for the interview.
I have freelance at a point in my life with these institutions and it was uosett9to see people miss out by not knowing how to answer the questions.

The woman is there to support the man.
Very inconsiderate of her.
That's not a for better for worse marriage.

My son didn't speak to m 5 plus and then started gradually. He has autism on the spectrum but now he speaks.

The amount of havoc these false preachers and prophets are causing is not even known to us.
Allot of things that are hidden from public glare... Allot of Christians being led astray...
Spiritual abuse is real.
I have made my experiences with the African churches in diaspora... When it gets to a stage that people are burying goat head near the church building...
Others threatening to invoke their village gods.
It was really scary.

I go to church regularly.
I even work for the church but what I think needs to addressed is the amount of spir8abuse that often goes on in churches.
It's really sad. Also there is not enough emphasis on repentance and salvation.

Since she is the mother of the children it should be not too complicated to adopt.
Please let your wife make the enquires.
Certainly after adoption they are entitled to German passports..
There AR elawyers in Nigeria that deal with international adootion.
Please consult one.
They would help you process everything.

It's normal to have financial setbacks during a separation but don't worry hell be able to stand on his fit again.
As long as he is willing to.
He should not make so much stress about the children since it is going this way.

Your parents might have a solution. But it's obvious you are a danger to children.
You need to seek help to get this under control.
You shouldn't be with children unobserved till this happens.
But seek God.. He will forgive you.
Many people cffencd ffence and feel it is so unpardonable and their life will never be the same.
They become hopeless and dispair and then go on to commit even greater and more offences..
This makes them unrepentant to the bitter end and they loose salvation...