@ michelin
hahaha

@topic

the main issue is that she normally feels guilty afterwards. therefore she trys not to indulge.

@ frank 3:16
shoo which one be look?, abeg no be look matter.

but if you have done everything, and you think its the born again thing, then make her denounce christ

Na the born again thing jare but i no fit let am denounce christ O!.

@ Airforce 1

i just need a permision and also get to see the girl in question to carry out my operation.

you wan see the girl, which one you dey
if na like that i know complian again. .

fetch her a lesbian
@ Airforce 1


hahahaha

@Xerxes
hahaha
thats funny but this is not about sexual satisfaction, and talking about doing the right thing
i will tell you that we (my girl and I) are the envy among our peers as in talking about how
a relationship is supposed to be and directly and also indirectly people are voicing out the issue
of our getting married, which is not far fetched, but i think its her religious believe( born again) and the way
she was raised that is causing the wahala.
you have to cajole her and really work heard for her to even think about it, but once she is tunned up
she is ok. but thats a lot of stress all the time.

OK i really need help here

I have been dating my girl for more than three years now, and i love her so much.
But the problem is am very very sexually active, but she doesn't like sex.and in the
three years of d relationship i don't think we've had it up to 15 times Grin. sure
and right now am loosing control more like am getting pissed off. and to worsen the matter
am tall and very handsome, am not bragging but some girls are bold enough to even woo me
for themselves(am a musician and also easy going),even when they know that i have a girl.
The worst part is even when i choose to cheat i will be very very uncomfortable doing it,
and most time i feel a lot of regret.i have tried talking to her about the issue but at the end of the day
nothing changes, she likes to be cuddled and treated like a queen. i don't have a problem with that
and i must say that am confident that she is not cheating. she is really a good girl but she lacks sexual expression.
what do i do? i need help fast, cos am loosing it. Oops.

Esss i dey enjoy ur tory abeg finish up

Pikin wey dey dance SULUGEDE

suppose know say

SULUGEDE na spirit dance. ask ur papa wetin e mean.

@ post

yeah i feel you, any way look at it this way, its obvious he is not just looking for a girl friend but a wife, so he is taking
his time, just calm down and wait, if possible try and get more closer to him while still keeping your head above the water.
best of luck.

@ poster

sex is good, but have you proven yourself 2 her? no. man take out time and get her to trust you,
because she don't trust you(and she is right not to).the problem here is that the love is one sided( she loves you much more).
my advice is this, forget about sex for now and try to win her trust first. look at it this way you did'nt woo her in the first place.
. think about it.and you will understand her.
good luck.

For women,
ATTRACTION is triggered by male
qualities like: Dominance, Humor,
Unpredictability, Adventure, Strength, Sexual
Awareness, Indifference, etc.

@ Don1

i agree with you.

@ poster
your f***k up no be your line, but na say u no get back up plan.

for making her laugh thats 60% success, you 4 just follow up

but this time more seriously. don't ever back up 4rm such

sweet opportunity.

one love

Gbam

@ poster

its simple put ur card on the table, they will respect you more
if you tell them @lest they deserve the choice to choose to stay or leave.

IJ will stay but 4 sola,
You get work for there.

@ poster

I don't know why you allow things to get so bad.
Are you mature?, am sure you didn't start dating him to end up his door mat.
what with reporting to his aunt, is she the one u are dating?,
He says he loves you but by his comparisons, you are just his trash,
let me spell it out for you

he doesn't love you.

save your self all the pain and get out. and one more thing

Don't ever let ur relationship degenerate to this extent. i wish you all the best.

@ acridrop
hmmmmmmmmmmm


dont you prefer cool guys 2 nice guys?

Ebony chick with collect facility.

join am with beta smile

and wey sabi sing sweet song.

, see ur life wetin u wan hear again?

being cool will also be of tremendous help to you.just try the following

THE DEFINITION OF COOL

I personally think that being "cool" comes down
to:

1) Being independent

2) Being indifferent

3) Being funny

4) Being socially adjusted

@ ibkaye

what a song, butwhat language is that,English,Jamaican or _Swahili
, i dey feel you.

@ Prynx

thats not peculiar to you. many nice guys go through the same thing,
but the truth is girls will tell you i need a guy that is confident, an who can hold his own.
you have to be tough but not arrogant,mixed with a sense of humor. tease and bust on her.
any way its all about attitude ,your inner game. pronto
ONE LOVE

@ sadey

CASE 1
SCENE 1
A girl walks up 2 me in a bank and gave me a note and then disappeared
REACTION
i was so impressed that i called her immediately and fixed a date(she included her phone NO in d note)
SCENE 2
she started calling me all day and night (minimum of 6 times a day and then all night). and gets upset when i don't pick her call,
REACTION
don't i have a life b/4 she came along?( i stopped calling or picking her calls)

CASE 2
My friends sister makes it her duty to entertain and be friendly with me whenever i visits,
buys me gifts calls me on the phone,
REACTION
i fixed a date with her after sometime, i got to know her and she realized am not free, but
how she turned things around i couldn't say,and to tell you the truth she has ended up my
only true love for 3 years now and counting.

CONCLUSION
sometimes it takes a girl to draw attention to herself, after that anything can happens
it can might work out,and it might not.

one love

thanks y' all for the comments but i want to add that

1. focusing all your emotional energy on another area of your life that you are passionate about
music, work,sport,reading will help.
2. surround yourself with friends
3. move away from his/her sphere of friends
4. try and think about,& analyze what went wrong, and resolve not to repeat the same mistake next time
5. be yourself,listen to music and do whatever will uplift your spirit
6. and you must not hate him/her that will increase your negative emotion and keep you trapped.
i wish you success.
one love

@ easybaby and Ziggy_mama

wetin i do una shoooooo! na so una like me?

Here Are The Top Ten Reasons Why Men Fail With
Women And How To Make Sure YOU Avoid Every One Of
These Deadly Common Mistakes,

MISTAKE #1: Being Too Much of A "Nice" Guy

Have you ever noticed that the really attractive women never seem to be attracted to
"nice" guys? Of course you have. Just like me, I'm sure you've had attractive
female friends that always seemed to date "jerks", but for some reason they were never
romantically interested in YOU. What's going on here?
you, how in the world do you expect to change that FEELING by
being "reasonable" with her? But we all do it. When a woman just isn't interested, we beg,
plead, chase, and do our best to change her mind. Bad idea. One that will never work.

MISTAKE #3: Looking To Her For Approval Or
Permission

In our desire to please women (which we mistakenly think will make them like us), us guys
are always doing things to get a woman's "approval" or "permission".
Another HORRIBLE idea. Women are NEVER attracted to the types of men
who kiss up to them, EVER. Don't get me wrong here.
You don't have to treat women BADLY for them to like you.
But if you think that treating a woman well means "always getting her approval and permission
for things", think again. You will never succeed by looking for approval.
Women actually get ANNOYED at men who seek their approval.

Doubt me? Just ask any attractive woman if Wussy guys who chase her around and want her approval annoy her,

MISTAKE #4: Trying To "Buy" Her Affection With
Food And Gifts

How many times have you taken a woman out to a nice dinner, bought her gifts and flowers, and had
her REJECT you for someone who didn't treat her even HALF as well as you did?
Well guess what? It's only NATURAL when this happens, That's right, I said NATURAL.
When you do these things, you send a clear message:

"I don't think you'll like me for who I am, so
I'm going to try to buy your attention and
affection".

Your good intentions usually come across to women as over-compensation for insecurity, and
weak attempts at manipulation. That's right, I said that women see this as MANIPULATION.

MISTAKE #5: Sharing "How You Feel" Too Early In
The Relationship With Her

Another huge and unfortunate mistake that most men make with women is sharing how they "feel" too
early on. Attractive women are rare. And they get a LOT of attention from men.
Most men don't realize this, but attractive women are being approached in one way or another
ALL THE TIME by men. An attractive woman is often approached several times a DAY by men who are interested. This
translate into dozens of times per week, and often HUNDREDS of times per month.

And guess what? Attractive women have usually dated a LOT of men.

That's right. They have EXPERIENCE.

They know what to expect. And one thing that turns an attractive women
off and sends her running away faster than just about anything is a guy who starts saying "You
know, I really, REALLY like you" after one or two dates.

This signals to the woman that you're just like all the other guys who fall for her too fast,
and can't control themselves. Don't do it. Lean back. Relax. There's a much better way,

MISTAKE #6: Not "Getting" How Attraction Works For
Women

Women are VERY different from men when it comes
to ATTRACTION. You need to accept this fact, and deal with it.
When a man sees a beautiful woman he INSTANTLY feels a sexual attraction.
But does the same apply for women? Do women feel sexual attraction to men based
mostly on looks? Or is something else going on? Well, women usually
have their "attraction mechanisms" triggered by things OTHER than looks.

Have you ever noticed that you see a lot more average and unattractive men with beautiful women
than the other way around? Think about it.

Women are more attracted to certain qualities
in men, and they're more attracted to the way a man
makes them FEEL than they are to looks alone.

If you know how to use your body language and communication correctly, you can make women feel
the same kind of powerful sexual attraction to you That YOU feel when you see a beautiful young
woman. But it's not an accident. You have to LEARN how
to do this. And ANY guy can learn how,

MISTAKE #7: Thinking That It Takes Money And Looks

One of the most common mistakes that guys make is giving up before they've even gotten started,
because they think that attractive women are only interested in men who have looks and money, or
guys who are a certain height, or guys who are a certain age.

And sure, there are some women who are only interested in these things.
But MOST women are far more interested in a man's personality than his wallet or his looks.
There are personality traits that attract women
like a magnet, And if you learn what they are and how to use them, YOU can be one of these guys.

YOU DO NOT have to "settle" for a woman just
because you aren't rich, tall, or handsome.

MISTAKE #8: Giving Away All Of Your Power To Women

Earlier I mentioned that it's a mistake to look to a woman for approval or permission.
Well, another similar tactic that a lot of guys use is GIVING AWAY THEIR POWER to women.
Said differently, guys try to get women to like them by doing whatever the woman wants.
Another bad idea, Women are NEVER attracted to men that they can
walk all over, Women aren't attracted to
Wussies!

MISTAKE #9: Not Knowing EXACTLY What To Do In Each
Type Of Situation With Women

Now I'm going to blow your mind, A woman ALWAYS knows what you're thinking.
Women are approximately TEN TIMES better than men at reading body language. That's ten TIMES.
I know, it might be hard to believe. But for example, if you're out on a date with a woman, and
you want to kiss her, she knows it. And if you don't know exactly what to do and
exactly HOW to kiss her, and you just sit there looking at her and getting nervous, she won't help!

And this goes for ALL aspects of women and dating, Approaching a woman, getting her number, asking
her out, kissing her, getting physical, everything. If you don't know what to do in each situation,
you will probably screw it up, and LOSE EVERYTHING.

And you KNOW it.

It is VITALLY important that you know EXACTLY how to go from one step to the next with a
woman, from the first meeting, all the way to the bedroom.

MISTAKE #10: Not Getting HELP

This is the biggest mistake of all.

This is the mistake that keeps most men from EVER having the kind of success with women that
they truly want. I know, guys don't like to make themselves look
weak or helpless. We don't like to ask for help.

http://www.DatingTechniques.com

lol . . .babe don show him peper Tongue Tongue Tongue

@Easy baby
take am easy , babe matter na turn by turn Nigeria limited.

one love

@poster
oh really! tot you're? cause your post a kind of portray u to be.
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@ geolalisa
ha ha ha ha, thats nice to hear though,
please don't say it ''LOUD'' before my people
lye me down and give me serious frogging.

[color=#770077]@poster

can see you're the Mr nice guy? just keep being YOU, things might workout for u one day ok? Wink[/color]

hello geolalisa
sorry to disappoint you am not

datemax you 100% right, but what is stopping Guys 4rm realizing that?.
a girl doesn't need a boy, what she needs is a Man.
so guys get your acts together.
one love.