epi:

I don't  trust quiet men and I don't like loud men - they are vexation to the spirit

jeffman:

if we face reality, we will realize that girls prefer outgoing (not too loud) guys. girls want fun and adventure and usually think (could be erroneous) that it is the loud guys that can give them that.

Loud or quiet, i think the skill of diplomacy alone shuld tell us when to assert and talk and when to be quiet. i can't put myself in the loud categiory though i make people laugh, The thing is i am not going to change myself just because some girl prefers loud or quiet guys. the trick is to date those girls who like ur type. if girl date u not out of attraction then no be beter relationship.

Another thing is not to stereotype people too early and girls are so guilty of these. i sometimes use this to advantage cos girls like enigmatic guys even if they won't accept it. quiet guys are able to pull enigmatic stuff.

Uche2nna:


Show me a quiet Naija guy and i will show U a Naija guy that is deaf!!!!

How can U be quiet in Naija? 

  I agree with this. There are times when U need to speak up and there are times when u need to shut the f u c k up and listen.


My sister, stop mixing up a dumb , inconfident guy with a quiet, reserved  one. U can string the dumb ones as friends but not the quiet , reserved ones. Those ones will take u the cleaners before u even know what they are thinking 


I agree with you 100% my brother. I'll take me for an example, during my high school days I was one of the guys that every teen age girl wanted to be seen with, you know , loud, outgoing, wanna be evrywhere, show boat, thinks he has it all. As a teen ager back then that was the definition of a smoothe operator. As I grew older and wiser, I realized I needed a personnality change, this same girls became more mature and the things that used to drive them crazy about me made them sick. They now prefer the cool, calm collected and confident guy. Ladies, all you want in a man is his confidence, most of those ur loud guys use it as a defence for their insecurity. Just look for a guy with a great sense of humor, wonderful personality, great dress sense, knows how to start and keep going an intelligent coversation, wonderful lovemaker; I mean a gentleman in the streets but a thub between the sheets. I mean with all this qualities doing the talking, what else do you have to yap yack about.