Please do not fall into the tricks of this old man! Like many have said previously, this is not a new story, he is not getting a divorce and not leaving his wife. He just wants your young juices,

@Michelina89, thank you

not every man can do everything, he may be a great at sex and bad as a boyfriend

great as a provider and husband and friend but the sex is not great everyday. You have to take what is most important and put everything else in perspective.

or he is a genius in the bed but, that is his only good quality.

From one American sister to another,curtsy and kneel anytime you greet any family member or well respected adult . No if and or buts about it.

Secondly, if you usually dont always offer your help to do anything. They will most likely decline because you are a visitor but offer it. help with the kids, food anything.

Third, have fun, I had a blast and 2 halves. I love my in-laws they are the sweetest most loving people I have met.

I am not sure what the previous post is about but:

I dont think all AA lack culture or values! You should not generalize people based on your opinion. What if I were to say all Nigerians are thieves and crooks!

Please understand the way your parents warn you about marrying an AA, we get a fierce warning about marrying someone from Naija, it is your decision to make.

Getting a good nigerian man who knows how to seduce a women is like playing the slots in Vegas, some times you hit but mostly you miss!

When he is good I call him DADDY!
When he pisses me off I use all his names!

He calls me mama or madam

No married person not male or female should be recieving calls from anyone at midnight unless it is an emergency, God Forbid! So with that have someone start calling you at midnight and she if she doesn't go mad, the madness has got to stop!

@NINETOFIVE

abeg, go to my hubby and tell him his prince no dey his baby, he will finish you with his bear hands. PERIOD!

My son came with the marriage, his mother, aunts brothers and sister will kill anyone who harms this child, you are a crazy man!

I know for a fact, once he see me in labour that will be the last child to come from this womb, he hates to see me with cramps, it destroys his spirit!

I prefer the women to do the breaking up, when a man does it and the woman is still in love , wahala come!

@ McCrackles

Is she going to turn to stone if she looks at it? LMAO!!!!!!!

Here we go,akata do this and that! What they hell did you do? Did you cheat, are you a selfish, unchanging man? Did you treat her like a maid and not a girlfriend?

Akata my ass, some naija men are the major of the problem!

A little "break" wont hurt anyone, it make you appreciate what you have!

I'm sick of hearing Nigerian women trying to talk the yankee independent woman talk. If your husband askes you to quit your job and you don't, don't bother about proceedings, custody hearings or alimony, your ass would be out the door faster than you can say career.

I respect women who have built reasonable careers such as Politicians, Bankers, e.t.c. but when a man speaks, his word is LAW.  


This is exactly why alot of "yankee women" think twice about marrying Naija men.your thinking. Rubbish talk! I am an American woman, who loves and respects my Naija Hubby and he never ask to do something that will belittle my exsistence as his wife.

@whatever90 :

I agree with you 100% , either let me get a paycheck or give one! Either way one is coming to me with my name on it.

My husband's ass would be out, but not without injury!

My mum, well she will see her own suffering at the hands of God!

I think it is a great idea.let him have his fun as long as no one gets hurt( emotioonally and physically). Who doesn't want to be celebrated?

It does not take long to decide if you want to marry someone! that would bother me. My hubby never really asked me it was more like we are getting married in January ok. and i said sure! that was it,

we have been married for 2 years now.

When I married my hubby, I kept my fathers name. Our son also carries the hyphenated name.

We know clearly where we belong and it is with him and to him! [/color[/b]]