Hi nairaland, i think i want to go to school first,may be y am in sch i will get married. cos for now, i dont think i can handle marriage.thanks 4 ur advice.

Hi nairaland, there is sumthing i will u all to advice me on. Is it proper 4 me to get married at the age of 18?cos sum1 is seekin for my hand in marriage.pls advice me cos am thinkin i shud go to school first or shud i get married now and go to school at d same time?

hi monica,am in dat same shoes too,just dat my guy is not goin after other girls but he has a child n he still goes to c d mother of his baby although am not against it but i think his love for me has fade away.i love him very much,he's my first love my all but i belive with time i will get over it.my dear try as much as u can to get over this guy who claims he loves u or else u will live to regret it just as am regreting mine.we just broke up yesterday.i mean he did(broke my heart)

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I love him so much but am not sure of him because of the lies he has been telling me.My boyfriend and i have been 2gether 4 the past 3years,he already has a child and wit that i still love him. Am not angry that he goes to see the mother of his baby,but the way he took it looks as if he is playing me,he promise 2 have me as his wife,but whenever he goes to see her,he deletes my number from his phone and change her name to my heart,then he will divert his calls,when i confront him,he will tell me that it was the girl who did such,he still sends her love text although he said he will not marry her cos she is 8-9 years older than him. Am not against his going to see her but why for heaven sake should he hide things from me?is it that he does not want me again or what? Each time i confront him on this issue, he would tell me not to do anything stupid that he knows what he is doing. for now i dont know what to do cos the way he does things to her seems he still loves her.and besides he is my first love and i have never cheat on him ever since i became his lover and he is the only one i have ever had sex with. I still love him but dont trust his words anymore. My dear nairaland pls what do u think i should do?should i let him go or continue with the sad relationship?pls i need ur advise