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Mr Nice Guy, Why Do Girls Rarely Date You by MVuchy(m): 12:02pm On May 16, 2008 |
I was stunned when i was hit by the realization that Mr nice guys end up being just friends with beautiful girls, when there intention was to have them as dates, lovers, mean while the same girls will end up dating arrogant, irresponsible, guys, and return to complain to Mr nice guy, waiting for consolation and in the next minute you see her running back to her not so good bobo. WHY? |
Re: Mr Nice Guy, Why Do Girls Rarely Date You by Nobody: 12:05pm On May 16, 2008 |
R u Mr. nice guy? |
Re: Mr Nice Guy, Why Do Girls Rarely Date You by MVuchy(m): 12:24pm On May 16, 2008 |
hello Ziggy, am graduating 4rm being Mr nice guy 1 Like |
Re: Mr Nice Guy, Why Do Girls Rarely Date You by datemax: 12:52pm On May 16, 2008 |
Women don't base their choices of men on how "nice" a guy is. They choose the men they do because they feel a powerful GUT LEVEL ATTRACTION for them. And guess what? Being nice doesn't make a woman FEEL that powerful ATTRACTION. And being NICE doesn't make a woman CHOOSE a guy. There's a term that single, attractive women use to describe men who use weak, approval-seeking posture, gestures,comments, and mannerisms, The term is "NICE". "He's nice, but, there's no chemistry." attraction is not created by being nice, it is created by trying the following idea: For instance: 1) A challenge is generally attractive to women. 2) Teasing and being evasive is generally attractive to women. 3) Making fun of a woman's appearance in a flirty way, as counter-intuitive as it might sound, can lead to ATTRACTION. for more: visit: www.date4guys..com |
Re: Mr Nice Guy, Why Do Girls Rarely Date You by MVuchy(m): 1:01pm On May 16, 2008 |
datemax you 100% right, but what is stopping Guys 4rm realizing that?. a girl doesn't need a boy, what she needs is a Man. so guys get your acts together. one love. |
Re: Mr Nice Guy, Why Do Girls Rarely Date You by Nobody: 1:04pm On May 16, 2008 |
It doesn't really matter u kno,whether you're Mr. nice Guy,bad guy or in-between, who ever wil lov u for you wil still do,don't look 4 love in d wrong person by changin who u really r for them . . Just be who you're n true love wil most def find u,Nice guy or not 3 Likes |
Re: Mr Nice Guy, Why Do Girls Rarely Date You by Geolalisa(f): 1:14pm On May 16, 2008 |
@poster can see you're the Mr nice guy? just keep being YOU, things might workout for u one day ok? |
Re: Mr Nice Guy, Why Do Girls Rarely Date You by MVuchy(m): 1:45pm On May 16, 2008 |
[color=#770077]@poster can see you're the Mr nice guy? just keep being YOU, things might workout for u one day ok? Wink[/color] hello geolalisa sorry to disappoint you am not |
Re: Mr Nice Guy, Why Do Girls Rarely Date You by Nobody: 1:45pm On May 16, 2008 |
Because they're boring |
Re: Mr Nice Guy, Why Do Girls Rarely Date You by Geolalisa(f): 1:48pm On May 16, 2008 |
@poster oh really! tot u r? cause ur post a kind of portray u to be. |
Re: Mr Nice Guy, Why Do Girls Rarely Date You by MVuchy(m): 1:54pm On May 16, 2008 |
@poster oh really! tot you're? cause your post a kind of portray u to be. [/color] @ geolalisa ha ha ha ha, thats nice to hear though, please don't say it ''LOUD'' before my people lye me down and give me serious frogging. |
Re: Mr Nice Guy, Why Do Girls Rarely Date You by Geolalisa(f): 2:01pm On May 16, 2008 |
Re: Mr Nice Guy, Why Do Girls Rarely Date You by Emperoh(m): 2:09pm On May 16, 2008 |
Those are Rules for those who play games For those who want to Love pls be urself. Its as simple as that!!! |
Re: Mr Nice Guy, Why Do Girls Rarely Date You by vislabraye(m): 2:10pm On May 16, 2008 |
Thats a food for thought. It happens all the time. Some time ago in this forum and guy was complaining how his girl friend wants to wreck him. She'd been asking for money all the time and in he had nothing in return |
Re: Mr Nice Guy, Why Do Girls Rarely Date You by Nobody: 2:13pm On May 16, 2008 |
Emperoh: I jus don't kno why people hav prob wit that? so simple |
Re: Mr Nice Guy, Why Do Girls Rarely Date You by Easybaby(f): 2:17pm On May 16, 2008 |
hello Ziggy, am graduating from being Mr nice guy lol . . .babe don show him peper mr right ko mr wrong ni |
Re: Mr Nice Guy, Why Do Girls Rarely Date You by datemax: 2:20pm On May 16, 2008 |
Attractive women dont feel atrraction for guys who get too-lovey-dovey and emotional too soon, guys who fall too fast for them. (nice guys) Most women dont feel attraction for men who act clingy, needy and insecure. (nice guys) Women dont feel attraction for men who act weak and tentative , men who will give up their status in exchange for her approval and attention. (nice guys) Women are not attracted to men who act boring, predictable and uninteresting. Attractive women are not attracted to men they can control. Most "nice guys Exhibit these trait. a guy can create attraction in a woman by: tease her, bust on her, and generally act like you don't care. Make a comment about her and walk away. Be Cocky & Funny when you're with her, and don't be boring. |
Re: Mr Nice Guy, Why Do Girls Rarely Date You by MVuchy(m): 2:22pm On May 16, 2008 |
lol . . .babe don show him peper Tongue Tongue Tongue @Easy baby take am easy , babe matter na turn by turn Nigeria limited. one love |
Re: Mr Nice Guy, Why Do Girls Rarely Date You by MVuchy(m): 2:35pm On May 16, 2008 |
Here Are The Top Ten Reasons Why Men Fail With Women And How To Make Sure YOU Avoid Every One Of These Deadly Common Mistakes, MISTAKE #1: Being Too Much of A "Nice" Guy Have you ever noticed that the really attractive women never seem to be attracted to "nice" guys? Of course you have. Just like me, I'm sure you've had attractive female friends that always seemed to date "jerks", but for some reason they were never romantically interested in YOU. What's going on here? you, how in the world do you expect to change that FEELING by being "reasonable" with her? But we all do it. When a woman just isn't interested, we beg, plead, chase, and do our best to change her mind. Bad idea. One that will never work. MISTAKE #3: Looking To Her For Approval Or Permission In our desire to please women (which we mistakenly think will make them like us), us guys are always doing things to get a woman's "approval" or "permission". Another HORRIBLE idea. Women are NEVER attracted to the types of men who kiss up to them, EVER. Don't get me wrong here. You don't have to treat women BADLY for them to like you. But if you think that treating a woman well means "always getting her approval and permission for things", think again. You will never succeed by looking for approval. Women actually get ANNOYED at men who seek their approval. Doubt me? Just ask any attractive woman if Wussy guys who chase her around and want her approval annoy her, MISTAKE #4: Trying To "Buy" Her Affection With Food And Gifts How many times have you taken a woman out to a nice dinner, bought her gifts and flowers, and had her REJECT you for someone who didn't treat her even HALF as well as you did? Well guess what? It's only NATURAL when this happens, That's right, I said NATURAL. When you do these things, you send a clear message: "I don't think you'll like me for who I am, so I'm going to try to buy your attention and affection". Your good intentions usually come across to women as over-compensation for insecurity, and weak attempts at manipulation. That's right, I said that women see this as MANIPULATION. MISTAKE #5: Sharing "How You Feel" Too Early In The Relationship With Her Another huge and unfortunate mistake that most men make with women is sharing how they "feel" too early on. Attractive women are rare. And they get a LOT of attention from men. Most men don't realize this, but attractive women are being approached in one way or another ALL THE TIME by men. An attractive woman is often approached several times a DAY by men who are interested. This translate into dozens of times per week, and often HUNDREDS of times per month. And guess what? Attractive women have usually dated a LOT of men. That's right. They have EXPERIENCE. They know what to expect. And one thing that turns an attractive women off and sends her running away faster than just about anything is a guy who starts saying "You know, I really, REALLY like you" after one or two dates. This signals to the woman that you're just like all the other guys who fall for her too fast, and can't control themselves. Don't do it. Lean back. Relax. There's a much better way, MISTAKE #6: Not "Getting" How Attraction Works For Women Women are VERY different from men when it comes to ATTRACTION. You need to accept this fact, and deal with it. When a man sees a beautiful woman he INSTANTLY feels a sexual attraction. But does the same apply for women? Do women feel sexual attraction to men based mostly on looks? Or is something else going on? Well, women usually have their "attraction mechanisms" triggered by things OTHER than looks. Have you ever noticed that you see a lot more average and unattractive men with beautiful women than the other way around? Think about it. Women are more attracted to certain qualities in men, and they're more attracted to the way a man makes them FEEL than they are to looks alone. If you know how to use your body language and communication correctly, you can make women feel the same kind of powerful sexual attraction to you That YOU feel when you see a beautiful young woman. But it's not an accident. You have to LEARN how to do this. And ANY guy can learn how, MISTAKE #7: Thinking That It Takes Money And Looks One of the most common mistakes that guys make is giving up before they've even gotten started, because they think that attractive women are only interested in men who have looks and money, or guys who are a certain height, or guys who are a certain age. And sure, there are some women who are only interested in these things. But MOST women are far more interested in a man's personality than his wallet or his looks. There are personality traits that attract women like a magnet, And if you learn what they are and how to use them, YOU can be one of these guys. YOU DO NOT have to "settle" for a woman just because you aren't rich, tall, or handsome. MISTAKE #8: Giving Away All Of Your Power To Women Earlier I mentioned that it's a mistake to look to a woman for approval or permission. Well, another similar tactic that a lot of guys use is GIVING AWAY THEIR POWER to women. Said differently, guys try to get women to like them by doing whatever the woman wants. Another bad idea, Women are NEVER attracted to men that they can walk all over, Women aren't attracted to Wussies! MISTAKE #9: Not Knowing EXACTLY What To Do In Each Type Of Situation With Women Now I'm going to blow your mind, A woman ALWAYS knows what you're thinking. Women are approximately TEN TIMES better than men at reading body language. That's ten TIMES. I know, it might be hard to believe. But for example, if you're out on a date with a woman, and you want to kiss her, she knows it. And if you don't know exactly what to do and exactly HOW to kiss her, and you just sit there looking at her and getting nervous, she won't help! And this goes for ALL aspects of women and dating, Approaching a woman, getting her number, asking her out, kissing her, getting physical, everything. If you don't know what to do in each situation, you will probably screw it up, and LOSE EVERYTHING. And you KNOW it. It is VITALLY important that you know EXACTLY how to go from one step to the next with a woman, from the first meeting, all the way to the bedroom. MISTAKE #10: Not Getting HELP This is the biggest mistake of all. This is the mistake that keeps most men from EVER having the kind of success with women that they truly want. I know, guys don't like to make themselves look weak or helpless. We don't like to ask for help. http://www.DatingTechniques.com 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Mr Nice Guy, Why Do Girls Rarely Date You by Easybaby(f): 2:55pm On May 16, 2008 |
lmfao so you have been undergoing intensive training programme just to be attracted to babes |
Re: Mr Nice Guy, Why Do Girls Rarely Date You by Nobody: 2:56pm On May 16, 2008 |
no b small thin o |
Re: Mr Nice Guy, Why Do Girls Rarely Date You by MVuchy(m): 2:58pm On May 16, 2008 |
@ easybaby and Ziggy_mama wetin i do una shoooooo! na so una like me? |
Re: Mr Nice Guy, Why Do Girls Rarely Date You by eudio(f): 3:00pm On May 16, 2008 |
LEAVE STORY FOR MARKET WOMAN NICE KO, NICE NI |
Re: Mr Nice Guy, Why Do Girls Rarely Date You by Dreloaded(f): 3:06pm On May 16, 2008 |
Most women don't feel attraction for men who act clingy, needy and insecure. While I totally agree with this (clingy and insecure guys make me puke), I wouldnt say all "nice guys" dfit that description. Some guys are just pathetic in general not "nice" |
Re: Mr Nice Guy, Why Do Girls Rarely Date You by lucabrasi(m): 3:50pm On May 16, 2008 |
dude,u need to shake shake it off before its too late, might sound peculiar and though i cant speak for girls i dont know, but from the gurls i v known they get bored after a while cause the guy s sooo predictable,hence no spark in the relationship.everyone wants some spice/life in their relationship,a gurl sometimes feels like having a row for no reason or gettn suprises, a mr nice guy will do the same thing over and over which might be nice at first but will start gettn on nerves after a while |
Re: Mr Nice Guy, Why Do Girls Rarely Date You by iice(f): 2:56am On May 17, 2008 |
Is arrogance equal to irresponsibility? Nice guys are for nice girls eh or maybe not |
Re: Mr Nice Guy, Why Do Girls Rarely Date You by chika98: 4:23am On May 17, 2008 |
Only immature chics want a bad guy |
Re: Mr Nice Guy, Why Do Girls Rarely Date You by Rebellious(f): 4:41am On May 17, 2008 |
Some of us love to date bad guys because of the challenge but when it comes to marriage, the good/nice guys are the ones to go for. |
Re: Mr Nice Guy, Why Do Girls Rarely Date You by ogrebuga(m): 7:52am On May 17, 2008 |
The topic alone got me reeling with laughter, LORD! From what i know, Mr. Nice guys are just like fire alarms, they're only needed for emergencies. . . |
Re: Mr Nice Guy, Why Do Girls Rarely Date You by PRYNXLEX(m): 2:18pm On May 19, 2008 |
this thread is just like a mirror of myself. i think i am just too nice and i have spent the last 2 yrs of my life dateless. i have friends who dont give a damn and yet they seem to get all the best. i think this mr. nice guy stunt will not pay much any longer. i think i need a change |
Re: Mr Nice Guy, Why Do Girls Rarely Date You by Nobody: 2:23pm On May 19, 2008 |
I don't want no fly guy I just want a shy guy Oh lord have mercy mercy mercy Di man dem in a di party party party Di ole a dem look sexy sexy sexy Watch dem just a Follow me follow me follow me Everyweh me go di man dem a rush me Yes a whole eep a pretty boy wah fi love me A me dem love yes a me dem love True them know me sweet and me sexy Everywhere me go me say me ever ready A me dem love yes a me dem love But I don't want somebody Who's loving everybody I need a shy guy He's the kinda guy who'll only be mine Chorus: Oh lord have mercy mercy mercy Di man dem in a di party party party Di ole a dem look sexy sexy sexy Watch dem just a Follow me follow me follow me Have mercy mercy mercy But none a dem no move me move me move me Shy guy a weh me wanty wanty wanty Only him can make me irie irie irie Roughneck man me no want none a dem Beat up me body lick off me head top Me no want none a dat Me no want none a dat Big things a gwaan fi all di shy man dem Wat to be my love and wat to be my friend Till the very end till the very end But I don't want somebody Who's loving everybody I need a shy guy he's the kinda guy Who'll only be mine (Repeat Chorus) Have mercy mercy mercy mercy mercy come on But I don't want somebody Who's loving everybody I need a shy guy He's the kinda guy who'll only be mine (Repeat Chorus) Shy guy Shy guy Shy guy |
Re: Mr Nice Guy, Why Do Girls Rarely Date You by welli(f): 2:28pm On May 19, 2008 |
iby wat in heaven's name is dissssssssssss |
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