In order to find YOUR perfect mate, It would best suit you to ask yourself a
series of questions, the answers you give will lead you to a more concrete
idea of what is best for you. Sometimes what we want and what me need
don’t match up.

What you believe will ultimately be your reality and life experience, once we
can identify our beliefs and how they shape our lives, we can understand
ourselves better.

[b]Q1 Do you believe you deserve the best?[/b]
Putting yourself down and having low self-esteem means you will only attract
a certain type of person, who will keep you down and needs to feed of your
insecurity to make themselves feel superior.

Q2 Do you love yourself, take care of your body think positively about
yourself?
People will treat you how allow them to.The more highly
you think of yourself the higher your expectations will be.

Q3 In finding a partner do you believe in fate, good luck, divine intervention
or a bigger plan?
List the 3 main relationships you have had in your life,
Think about how you met and where you met,
Think about the probabilities involved in you having met that person at that
time in your life who later became a boyfriend or girlfriend.
It happened before it can happen again.


to be countinued

@mrghost
the best way is seduction and telling a lot of lies

You are on your own

Q4 How do your beliefs affect your approach to finding a partner?
Do you trust in God, the universe, fate your angels or just yourself? Are you
relaxed about the situation or desperate? Trusting in something else other
than yourself will make the process more positive.

Q5 Are you enjoying the moment?
True happiness is a state of mind not determined by external circumstances.
The happier you are the more people will be attracted to you and want to
spend time with you.

Q6 Do you have an itch?
There is a term called “The seven year itch” every seven years on average we
go through major changes, which alter who our ideal partner would be.
Think about your past relationships, where would you be today if you had
stayed together. Would they be your ideal partner today.
You may be going through a transition regarding the type of person you
normally go for. If that is the case, being single at this moment will benefit
you, as you will be able to identify more clearly what you want.

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Lesson 3

Q7 What benefits are there of being single?
You always win the argument and as Woody Allen says “I get to have sex with
someone I love, myself”
Being single gives you the chance to find and redefine yourself, quantify your
values and determine what you do and don’t want from a relationship.

In order to receive something big we need to create space for it. Your next
partner should compliment the person that you are, and fill the void that is
there, without the void there is nothing for them to move into and fill, so live
in positive expectation.

No one is perfect and everyone is perfect, having a lasting fulfilling
relationship requires give and take, and a lot of love and a bit of lust.
The more you love someone for who they are not what they are and what
they have the more perfect they will be in your eyes.

Finding an ideal mate starts with us knowing what we want and being the
best that we can be ourselves. When we have in our minds those two areas
and are positive we will be in a place where we can attract our future partner
and more importantly realize the opportunities when they come along.
Before you think about finding your soul mate find yourself.

Finding yourself
means, getting to a place where you are happy and positive about life doing
the things you want to do, without thinking negatively about your lack of
romantic action.
This will make you more attractive in everyway
Have an idea about the sort of person you would like to be with, don't sell
yourself short or be unrealistic

[b]Ask yourself "What do I have to offer what are my qualities"?[/b]
It starts with you, don't have a mindset of finding a partner to complete your
life, a partner should enhance it, Don't put that added pressure onto a
prospective partner.
You are already complete
Don't get desperate, be yourself be natural. The energy of desperation is
unappealing to most people; it also portrays a lack of confidence, balance,
immaturity and low values.

Have you ever been in a shop and the shop assistant continually harassed
you about buying a product, did that forthright mentality endear you to stay
longer in the shop and purchase a product, or did it have the opposite effect?

Be open with the right people (same and opposite sex) about your situation,
don't be aloof and put up a barrier that says "I don't want you to know " let
people know that you are looking for a relationship with the right person.
Most people are not mind-readers.

Practice smiling more especially at the opposite sex, make it a natural part of
your day, enjoy the process of finding that ideal person.
And when you find that person;

Don't try to change them, if you want to change someone change yourself, if
they are meant to be with you will both naturally change to compliment each
other better. Trust nature in this

Allow them time and space to be themselves and make changes in their lives.
Being joined at the hip or keeping a diary of their hourly movements will
severely strain the relationship and drive them away long term.

Don't drop your friends, they will probably still be around when your
relationship ends.
I am not being pessimistic I am being realistic, if it wasn’t
so most people would only have ever had one partner in their life.
Love them without condition not with conditions

Conditional love will only
last a short time.

You can't cease to amaze me !!
keep it coming!!!!
ONE LOVE

7 year itch, i like that one
Makes me wonder how 7 year craw craw would feel like

I believe you are coming along and make sure you apply all those strategies. I bet you are on your way to find your RIGHT PARTNER.

Now,
THE SEARCH


while making your search,You must have this at the back of your mind

Men to attract women

1) Take an interest in her
Have something else to ask her once you worked out her vital stats and her
relationship status.

2) Have an opinion
Which extends past who will win the FA cup and the price of beer

3) Have interests
(which are varied and can be discussed among the opposite sex

4) A good sense of humour

5[b]) Take care of your body[/b]
(Look good feel good and you will be seen as prime husband material (don’t worry
husband is a figure of speech)

6) Compliment a women – in moderation
To much sugar will not benefit you and she will begin to think you are being
insincere

7) Take the lead
Don’t leave all the decisions to her

Be open about your life
Have a plan it shows ambition and responsibility an added advantage for women
who are looking to settle down

9) Have money
The more the better

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