Vikto17: My dear Nairalanders ,, a girl l want to marry next year is consistently been stalk by her ex...
The guy called her last three months and l warn her sternly about her having anything to do with her ex... she should either choose the guy or me... in which she called the guy in my present and warn him to stay off ... she block his number too... Just yesterday, she told me that the guy called her again with a different number.....
l told her that the last thing l will take is cheating and she should know how to handle this guy since she claim to choose me....
Honestly,, l am thinking of ending the relationship,, don't want to drag this issue into my marriage..... please anyone with experience ..how do u handle this...
Good you found out before you married her. I was unfortunate to find out my wife was in contact with her claimed bf. I am planning to give her the shock of her life. She hid it from me until I searched her phone
Feintline: They should continue the madness they are doing , When the Nigeria version of kenya hits, Akpabio and his fellows will pull off their agbadas, fling their caps off, throw away their mace and fly for their lives. The nation is getting there.
Nigerian version no go come. It is never going to happen
The drivers in the north are among the worst in the country…sorry to say. The speed is always excessive. In those days, traveling from Zuba for example to Minna, the drivers would keep the speed @180. The same on the way to Kaduna, Kano, Maiduguri.
I wish them speedy recovery and may they be comforted.
NOwazobia: Truth is that Obi borehole was a complete shame, as though the borehole was done for only one household,...
you still can't compare the two.
Eliot own was supposed to be a constituency project for the people who voted him.
While that of obi was non responsibility political promotion.
The burden of the bore hole was never on him.
But seriously, that bore hole no be am at all, 🤦🏽♂️
You get sense at all? In a community where they have lawmakers both at state and federal legislatures, a local government chairman or state governor, they didn’t provide water in a place where people have never seen clean water or travel miles to get water and somebody stepped in where government at all levels failed and you criticized him for that. Make hatred for Obi no kill u
I was there for 10 days as well, hope not the same company we worked for...
They booked hotel for us and after 2 nights we discovered we have been spending 25k per night in that average room as far back 2007 when the same room here is about 2k or 3k. The taxi is standard, sometimes Benz and good cars. 7 krones is about N7k then and common hand gloves is about 11 krones.
I actually ate rice but most of there menu is bullshit and tasteless flowers and salad. The only food I ate well is rice and chicken. Norway is so cold and could go upto - 23 deg. They are nice people and the subway works fine. Look at Erling Halland well, that's how most of them look like. They are yellowish albinos.
There are no bandits or kidnappers, you could walk all night if you are cold proof. They don't know what is stock fish, I ask and asked, they don't know but it could have another name.
They don't use Euros in their country because, according to them, the Euro is heavily manipulated therefore, you have to change your euro at the air port.
So many good experiences sha but no big nyashhh or good meals.. Nigeria sweet pass am if not for the idiots at the top.
Stock fish is called cod fish in English or torsk in Norwegian and it is usually fresh. That’s what I bought
The women are beautiful, but I obviously can’t take a picture of a stranger. And even if I do, I’m sure you won’t find them attracting as they’re not half naked.They’re mostly fully dressed down … you can’t see any figure or bosom… I assume they’re reserved.. They drive Tesla and other nice cars, used nice perfumes but I didn’t see above any lady’s knee or below their neck.
Come during summer, the case would be different. I go see nipples, booby u go tire
Bongadu: I impregnated my ex girlfriend when I was young and relocated because at time I was young and stupid, I gave her money for abortion but she disagreed on removing it , so I had no choice but to flee as I was irresponsible and poor My ex girlfriend put to bed months after I left and raised the child living with her parents I relocated back last year December , I'm trying to get back with my daughter but my ex won't let me be near me even I want to take responsibility and care for my daughter She's getting me frustrated, I'm thinking of suing her for not letting me be a presence in my daughter's life
If she had agreed to abort the baby you would not have had a daughter that you want to be close to.
PHIPEX: We told them since Buhari era that it's wastage but they called us names.
How do you intend to share money to people who don't have bank accounts and expect it to go well. Those supporting this program are either daft or criminals
ipobcannibals: God bless you for this. If the Igbo want to be president, they will have to earn it like others by forming alliance and respecting the opinions of others. That their nzogbu-nzogbu politics can never work outside of the SE.
Gwin007: Good day nairalanders.. please I need advice on what to do.. am married with three kids, 5, 3 , and a year old.. I own a bussines.. but for now my bussines is down, the has been very good and lucrative.. but due to lack of capital to invest more on it. It was now shaking.. but the thing now is that.. I have the capital to invest on the bussines.. but now am saying should relocate abroad with the money and leave my 3kids and wife back home or invest on the bussines.. cus am traveling with a tourist visa and it’s a Europe country and I don’t how long it will take to get my papers over there please Nairaland I really need ur opinion not make future mistakes
Thanks
You can never get a job with tourist visa unless “black jobs” which I would never advise you do
paulosan: Hi Nairalanders, I had to use this new moniker for the purpose of this post.
I have been going out with my lady for 7 months now, and the relationship has been beautiful with everything falling in the right places, she has most of the qualities i have always desired in a woman.
I traveled out of town for two weeks, i got back yesterday, she opted to make me something before i got back so she went to my house earlier yesterday to prepare food.
I noticed that since I got back she has been texting on her smaller phone and has been carrying the phone everywhere while leaving the big one on the bed or anywhere. She work up this morning and continued texting on that phone, i have been acting like i am not seeing all the moves so that i can actually find out what it is.
I am trying so hard to be calm in other not to make her realize and wipe anything that might be as a pointer to evidence.
I have been having different thoughts as to have to handle it: 1. I was thinking of checking the phone, depending on what i see, i will ask her who she has been texting, i will after a few days like i did not see anything. 2. The second thought was i ask her who she has been texting and request that she opens the text and we see together.
I don't want to jump into conclusion until i see what it is. I really don't know what to do, i am confused and i don't want to make mistakes with my marital life as i plan settling down.
Please advice me, criticism is welcomed as i know some people will come at me.
Bro I was in that situation and trust me this ladies are very smart but you have to be calm, restrain yourself and act as if you know nothing so that you can catch them cos in things like this you need overwhelming evidences
internationalman: Bros it's like you are just narrating exactly what happened to me last year. Just like your case, I was very sure of my withdrawal skill and it has never failed me once. But my girl insisted the pregnancy was mine.
It was my suspicion that led me to hacking her WhatsApp and saw where she had sex with another guy and even collected abortion money from that same guy.
Bobby2020: Good morning dearest reader of life, how your night na? I bet you slept good, Omo yesterday, I trekked and stressed this body so much I won’t lie you, the struggle to bake our daily bread no be for here my bro, but we’ll emerge victorious ajeh!
A customer from Ekiti just sent a PlayStation 4 Pro and a PlayStation 4 base model, to us so we can do our magic on them, at least one of them.
We’re gonna be hacking and installing games on the Pro, while on the PS4 fat, we’re gonna put offline packages/bundles on it, due to the fact that it isn’t hackable.
You know as e dey go na, once we’re done with all, we’ll surely post here for your viewing pleasure!
Don’t forget that we forever remain your number 1 gaming plug, for all video game consoles, From PS1-PS5, to Xbox one-Xbox series x, to Nintendo switch!
Unbiased1: What of the fake NYSC case? Looking at the tribunal judgement, it is clear that the people advising Labour Party candidates are doing a very bad job. How can you be taking matters to court without any valid evidence? These guys just used "hearsay" as an evidence that the election was rigged. I'm so disappointed in this party.
Are you not aware that NYSC came out to debunk the NYSC certificate? Are you not aware that Nigerian judiciary system is part of the wider corrupt Nigerian society where the judges fail to recognize evidences not matter how many they are.
CandidAdmin: Nigerian based abroad, please share your experience with racist or when you are being discriminated because of your color.
Note: This is not an Anti Japa thread.
I don’t care about racism or discrimination as long as I make my money. After all in my home country I experienced tribalism which is worse than racism
Jamieb: Thought he has appointed all his aides and SA and SSAs. The cost of governance in Nigeria is damn 5oo high. See the plateau governor too. Selecting at least 5 people from each local government as an aide is preposterous.
Are they aiding him to loot the state? All just to reward people and help them eat from the national cake.
Nigeria annoys you daily, no matter where you reason am go.
Make I continue with my hustle . Guys abeg , like and subscribe to my channel. 🙏 na beg .
Blaze14k: I would like to use this opportunity to seek guidance based on the issue I have on ground. I believe it's igbos especially elderly person who is in a better position to give me a reasonable explanation. I told my mum my girlfriend is from ohafia, abia state and she instantly told me I can't get married to her. Her reason is because people from ohafia, arochukwu, izombe, and few other places in abia state are regarded as OSU. I complained to other members of my family but they also rejected her.
I have made some research personally and found out people from other part of igboland marry from those places. Now my question is why are they strongly rejecting her cos it doesn't make sense to call everybody from different local government in abia state OSU.
I've made more research on the girls family and found out they are king makers and her father belongs to eze's cabinet.
Her father and mine are no longer alive. They both have a traditional title and belong to eze's cabinet too. Please I need your advice cos I really want marry this girl. I also know that people encounter alot of difficulties when they want to get married. So I need a clarification from someone who has extensive knowledge on igbo tradition. Thank you