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Romance / What To Do To Make Him Like You by Occupytill1come: 10:57pm On Aug 14, 2019
As a girl, you ultimately an attraction to guys because he his moved by what he sees. If you are in the category of girls, that your guy just see you as his "booty-call"! You are reading the right article or perhaps you are in the category of girls, that you like a guy but he doesn't reciprocate your feelings! Welcome Aboard. 

It's most likely that you aren't doing the right thing to get him to reciprocate your feelings, here below are some facts to consider to make your guy like you as you do.

1. Avoid Giving Him What He Wants

You can either try this out and make him like you or be scared and keep been his 'LovePeddler'. This will work out for you. It is hard to find a guy who really likes you for who you are and wants to have something more serious 'conjugal' with you.

95% of today guys are always inn for what you can offer them or satisfy their sex urge without having to consider your feelings. The secret to these set of guys if you probably like one, is to avoid giving him what he wants 'sex'. If you take the step, it gives you a clear reflection of his feeling and here is what happens to the guy;

I. Adore and respect you

II. Tag you as a decent girl

III. Falls in love

IV. Look towards a more serious relationship with you

V. Gives you what you want or need

VI. Boast of you 

2. Make Him Crave For You

Most girls are way too easy that she instantly present her body to her guy simply because 'he his cute', 'tall', 'handsome' or 'in love'. These at most times turn-off a guy who really like you at first, thereafter begin to see you so " cheap" because of your initial disposition or for guys who doesn't like you, sees you as a 'slot'. When you make a guy crave for you, you spike a sense of feeling that wasn't there, make the feeling grow and later change his approach and mentality into a positive one of you.

It's like a chemical reaction that change the initial urge 'sex' into a platonic feeling that later grows into love that gives a desire to really date you rather than being his "Booty-Call".

Guys are very 'getty' when they see a girl that his 'hard to get' knowing fully well that he his attractive, it gives him the sense of feeling that you are the 'responsible type'

3. Flirt With Other Guys

This point is optional should perhaps the two above point doesn't really work for you. If you really like him, flirt with other guys, what it does, it send an information to him that he isn't only the cute guy around plus you are more attractive than he thinks and beautiful than he can ever imagine. It also clears your head of his thoughts all the time and reduces the tension in you.



It also make him feel that you have more competitors and you can be taken at any time.

Don't get too emotional as a girl, rather prove to him that you actually worth more than he can ever imagine.

Read more: https://pubsity.com/what-to-do-to-make-him-like-you

Romance / 7 Things To Know When A Guy Doesn't Like You by Occupytill1come: 12:21am On Aug 02, 2019
Seriously! You need to be cognizance of these point as a girl to put you straight about his intentions and likewise get rid of him on time before you fall prey to his scam?. As a girl, not all guys that say "I love you" really meant his words, most likely do say the words to get to you, not actually that he meant his love declaration.

It is right about the time that girls stop falling prey for a guy who doesn't like you but pretends too, because he wants what his between your legs or perhaps what you carry on your chest?.

Hardly, you see a guy that says: "I love you" and he means his words.

As a girl, how do I know when a guy doesn't like me? Here are a few points to take note off.

His first approach

His first approach often can be determined by his 'maiden speech', most guys won't ignore you, if he notices you like him while he doesn't, rather than letting you know of his 'no feelings' for you, he prefers getting to you and dumping you as a harlot. You shouldn't fall for his scam! It's only a few guys that open up to you to tell you that "He his actually not interested in you".

A guy who doesn't like you, in his first approach will demonstrate a portentous attitude. For example saying words that he doesn't mean like:" Goosh! You damn beautiful, can I have your number" or "Here is my card, call me when you get home for I have something for you" or "I can't resist looking at you, your beauty captivate me...can I know you?".

If perhaps you guys talk well but it's all friendship, probably as some point you as a girl begin to develop feelings and he notice it, few guys who really don't like u, will keep the relationship mutual while most will take advantage of your feelings.

Un ending calls

Watch it Girls! Guys who rings your cellular every minute of the day, they usually have an interior motive pretending to care when they don't, by their call they look to achieve the aim of putting a feeling in your head of " you having to think he likes you". Here are few lie detector calls:

Genuine call: "Hi dear, how is your day going just call to know if you okay"

Fake call: "Hi babe, what's up? Can we have some together time, lets go get a drink?"

The genuine guys always sound caring, disturbed when he notice a change in you and most times throw himself at your disposal should incase you need him.

The other guys with a fake motive are always agitated, pestering, inviting and unruly because he his so anxious to get to you quickly before you detect his scam.

Invitation over

So many girls are a victim of this, a guy who doesn't like a girl always want to or insist for an alone time most especially in the dead night when he sure has no intentions of "asking her out". Beware of guys who invite you over to his house or at a club, they sure have a way of luring you to do what you don't want to do if you guys are alone. Some , if they can't resist you anymore, will force you out of your will. 

Come to think of it, you just met a guy and he his already inviting you over to his house, what does that mean to you? That's a red danger zone!

A guy who really likes you, will slow his pace, try to know you better, invite you over and then ask you out on a date.

Watch his words

You can tell of a guy by his words, if he likes or do not like you. Guys who pretends to like you use words like: " lets have some nice time together when you come over" or "whatever you want, I will do it for you just come over". They are always making mention of either sex, giving reference to your sensitive parts.
Read more using the link below:
https://pubsity.com/7-things-to-know-when-a-guy-doesnt-like-you
Romance / Not All That Glitters Are Gold by Occupytill1come: 11:11am On Jun 19, 2019
The matter of marriage is a very serious institution to be a part of, for its a covenant between you guys and God " a celestial being". This institution is a fine one that has been ordained by God but can be very costly in danger when you make a mistake of looking out for " a gold that glitters" only.

Respectively, not just marriage but any form of relationship. The wrong man or woman you accept to be part of your life in holy matrimony can jeopardize both your physical and spiritual being subjecting you to advert peril.

The term 'relationship' of any form has been widely practised by both the young and old most of which are void of its merit and demerit.

Most mistakes men and women look out for in a relationship are;

Beauty. For the men, this mistake made is looking out only for how beautiful or pretty she his, captivated by his lust for her beauty and disregarding other traits that are necessary to check before entering into a relationship with her.

The women, are attracted by the charming words of men, his disposition, charisma and also how handsome he his, forgetting to check the necessary traits that can jeopardize you, if those traits acquired by the guy are bad.

Appearance. It is not enough for a man to look out for a woman or lady with good body physics that make her gorgeous. It's cool you look out for that but dangerous to consider it a vital reason you went for her.

In the same view, women who only look out for how tall, huge, fair or muscular he his, not having to consider other traits fall prey to the victim of the terror he possesses. 

Read more using the link below;
Source:
https://pubsity.com/not-all-that-glitters-are-gold
Romance / Tips On How To Date The Eastern Girls In Nigeria Part A by Occupytill1come: 12:03am On Jun 19, 2019
Nigeria is a country with different tribes and different tongues but united in strength. The eastern part of Nigeria which is majorly populated with the Igbo's are known for their diligence in the business world and distinctively blessed with girls of beauty and unique gorgeousness.

Theoretically, it has been proven that of the recent, Men of different tribes and tongues even as far as different nationality "fall a victim" - Figuratively, of their beauty either for a marriage proposal or to date.

Explicitly, the girls are no easy to get either for marriage or to date, for their 'dear' to have because of their high taste or price.

So how do I have to date the eastern girls;

#1. Build a Finance Prospect

It is mostly true that to date an eastern girl without financially capable is quite impossible. Girls from that region of the country have a high financial prospect and taste, most likely will say 'No', when you propose a relationship, that's if you don't have a finance stream or not working towards having one.

As a guy who wants to date one of them or his proposal has been turned down frequently by quite a few of them or perhaps you love a particular one, but she isn't recognizing your "altar call", drop the chase, try not to get discouraged, you are not as ugly as you think you are...what is required of you is to concentrate on establishing your financial literacy to building " Wealth" for yourself, then you can now go for them or after the one you love and you get a positive response even from the prettiest of all.

"Nothing good comes easy"

#2. Responsibility 

Guys omit this part in dating an eastern girl, it is solemnly not all about your 'Money', for it is that, she likewise can date other wealthy guys or someone richer than you.

But what keeps her gloomed to you, is how much of attention you give to her. If you lack this, you end up losing your money and her. "There are prices to pay for each stage of a relationship". Make her feel cared and loved, you finally get her to be yours even forever.

#3. Build Your Sex Life

Every good relationship, most times is an attribute of a satisfying sexual intimacy of both parties. You can do this as a guy by either using sexual innuendos or other sex inducement method of satisfying your girl like a " sex-chat", "sex styles" or "long night conversation".

It is very important that to any girls not just the eastern Nigerian girls only, that you know how to satisfy your girl sexually or else you lose her to someone who will.

#4.  Flirt With Other Girls

An act of Flirting in few times plays a part in dating, either eastern girls or girls of a different nationality.

If as a guy, you have the three qualities explained above and she doesn't still want to date you, then you make her recognise how much of a guy you can be, make know to her of other prettier girls at your reach, also that you are the best shot she's got before it gets too late...these can be demonstrated when you flirt not making her realise that she means a lot to you and that it's her you really want.

Most of the girls will say 'No' to see the extent of your claimed love for her and to know if you have other girls trying to reach out to you. If she understands that you've got girls clamouring to be with you, she began jealous of you, look for a diplomatic way of reaching out to you to say 'Yes'

While few of the girls will instantly say 'Yes' without having to think twice of it, for she is already craving you, for you possess the three qualities as explained above.

Read more using the source link below;
Source:
https://pubsity.com/tips-on-how-to-date-the-eastern-girls-in-nigeria-part-a
Romance / 5 Reasons Why Your Man Don't Stick To You by Occupytill1come: 11:29pm On Jun 17, 2019
Why does my boyfriend looks out for other girls? Or why does my husband have an affair? Here are questions most women and ladies ask but don't get an answer. This might sound so harsh but dear, you are the cause of every reasons he goes out looking for an affair.

You are in the right place and reading the right article.

The fact of your man not sticking with you is an issue that can be resolved, if you consider these reasons to be worked on which are;

#1  Bad Behaviour

You are a woman or a lady who snub, nag or abuse to every single word your man alters, you give a million reasons why he is wrong and such reasons and replies comes with an abusive words. Some men will bear the shit you display to an extent and then when you reach your limit...he therefore leave you, go on a vacation and stay put with a girl who will make him peaceful. Not really that he doesn't love you but his woman or lady is going Crazy because he doesn't understand her.

Most men will not put up with the nonsense, so he files for a divorce with you or breaks up with you, if you dating or rather he brings other girls to have fun with him in the home just to forget the mysteries you put him through or either goes out drinking to stupo and flirting with girls.  In order to end this, you have to check behaviours of yours that piss him or makes him angry making him not to be comfortable being with you.

#2  Bad Sex

Your sex life with your man means a great deal to him. Your unsatisfied sexual pleasure to your man is the major reason why he isn't sticking with you. When your man isn't getting his sexual satisfaction for reasons he can't explain "Why" or his woman also won't explain "Why", it makes him go crazy therefore looking out for some lady who will satisfy him.

Most guys enjoy their woman being wild during sex using different sex patterns that will act as a stimulant for intense satisfactory orgasm. While a few guys are just for the simple sexual intimacy. The solution is understanding the sexual intimacy your man loves and giving it to him and not depriving him of his sexual desires.

Read more using the link below;
https://pubsity.com/5-reasons-why-your-man-dont-stick-to-you
Family / Why Divorce Isn't An Option by Occupytill1come: 10:56pm On Jun 17, 2019
Be true to yourself of the matter of love and understanding. It is necessary that there is courtship between both spouses before marriage. The real truth and reason for courting are to reveal your true personality to each other neglecting lies, secrets, mischievousness but openness to understand first, the extent at which you love each other and understanding with the "God-factor" foundation.

Here are the theoretical illustration of a genuine relationship before marriage;

Understanding = Trust = Love

Mathematically: Understanding + Trust = Love I.e Love + "the God-factor" = unending Joy of marriage meaning a marriage void of dispute that can be resolved amicably which wouldn't result in the idea of divorce.

You don't only get married because of love but also for understanding, trust and recognition of the "God-factor" in both spouses. A perfect marriage comes with a little of everything.

You don't marry because of Love... it's sound so not true but because of understanding and your knowledge about relationship. For example, the broken homes of a woman get divorced when asks: "Don't you love your husband?" 

She responds: Yes 

Then why divorce him? 

She responds: "Because he his crazy" 

The word "crazy" means there isn't understanding.

Lol! You are mad at him, is that why you want to get a divorce? I hate him or He cheats...are not the reason why you should go for a divorce rather talk to God and love him the more.

Divorce isn't the solution, here is why...

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https://pubsity.com/why-divorce-isnt-an-option
Romance / Simple Approach On How To Make A Girl Like You Over Text by Occupytill1come: 9:14pm On Jun 16, 2019
It's so fascinating as to how the internet has made most things easy even to make a girl smile over text. You don't need to have a face to face conversation but can make a girl like you over a text. Here are some simple approach and examples of what to text girls that are sure to get the girl to like you.

You can poke her. Common! Don't be afraid to poke fun at the girl you are texting in a sweet, playful and matured way. Teasing a girl not only make her laugh, but it also demonstrates that you're not just a jerk. When you tease her, sends a message of how much of confidence you gain with women, therefore, help build attraction with her. Example of a fun text to send to a girl: "you so love ice cream, don't you...except you are a sole-distributor".

Make fun of yourself. Oops! A girl smiles over your text when you make fun of yourself (in a tongue - in - cheek kind of way, not through depreciating yourself). If you make fun of yourself, you only not get her laughing but also show her that it's ok for her to feel safe. She will then feel more comfortable with you and get attracted to you. An example of this: when she makes a comment and you agree with her, you could reply her text by saying " okay dove pretty little dove ( yeah I'm your dove coming to take you...lol)".

Predict her answers. Here is another way to keep the fun going and to keep your text to girls interesting. This way you spice up your texts, separate yourself from other guys and finally get the girl interested in you. For example, your text to her could say: " what are you up to this weekend? Let me guess...taking a speed knitting class so you can make me a scarf! Gosh! You are so sweet)".

Using banter techniques. The banter techniques work in meeting and attracting women and also work great over a text. It also works for a husband and a wife about to get a divorce or a rock star and his groupie.

This technique creates a fun experience that will make the girl smile and get her feeling more connected to you. Example of this: As a guy, you pretend through text as if she's a stalker and you're her victim like "Did I just catch you spying on me as I was changing into my swimsuit my little stalker?".

Read more using the link below;
Source: https://www.pubsity.com/simple-approach-on-how-to-make-a-girl-like-you-over-text
Politics / Re: UK Accepts Nigerian Election And Congratulate PMB by Occupytill1come: 10:17pm On Feb 27, 2019
It wasn't a fair win.
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