Love has never been blind. Not even in the mind of William Shakespeare the promoter of this concept. He said and I paraphrase: 'if love were blind, then it has lost its essence' in Romeo and Juliet. But people chose to hold on to the first part of that conversation only. Besides, the concept of love's blindness connotes that the person(s) fallen in love must have seen clearly the way ahead and though rough, chose out of their own volition to stay in love. It further means that we are all imperfect.

Finally, people still fall 'blindly' in love.

My little experience out here and in many Nigerian online forums is that peple are more interested in selling one thing or another rather in sharing. For example the first guys that replied to this poser culd have been able to sell their manuals to the seeker if they had as much as taken time to explain a few things and then ask h/her to send for the manual for details.

What a lost opportunity!

Yes, keep talking. Besides I guess you are nursing a sense of insecurity. Probably she earns more than you do, and you are not comfortable with that. You think she might ride you on that ground. Never mind, be a man, let her wealth help you up. Soon, you will earn as much if not more. Even if you earn more than her today, tomorrow she may take the lead. Learn to live with the situation. Talking helps.

As a chief in my community, I come across this situation all the time. My counsel that has always worked is ,caution, talk it over. God help you.

I have access to a large quantity of used newspaper and magazines. Does anybody know how to locate buyers of these items.

Do I really have a business. Sometimes I get really get confused and even embarrassed to amswer this question. You see I don't really have a shop nor an office. But you can easily locate me. Fact is people like us don't see themselves as business people. Business men and women are after money. Everything has a price. It doesn't matter whether you like their things or not. If you have money, you are their friends, otherwise your guess is as good as mine.

BUT I make a living anyway, legitimately so! Guess what , by SOLVING PEOPLE'S PROBLEMS. Presently many people have been benefitting through my services in obtaining Lagos State owned lands. I have enough info and connections to push your files and ensure that your application is approved in a matter of weeks.

I can also be of help in printing and publishing, stock market isues and solving emotional problems.

Any way I also hold a day job with SHAREBUILDER LIMITED, @Daily Times Building, 3,5,7 Kakawa Street, Marina Lagos, behind Nigerian Stock Exchange, Lagos.

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You really do not need a help here. The help you need has ben provided by the woman. Talk this over with her, not really proposing to her. All she wants is to know your own view of things. By talking both of you will reveal your low and high points.

This way you will discover if she is the type you want to marry. Nothing wrong in she popping up marriage related issues. Every lady wants to marry. If she is your type, do the necessary due diligence. Plus do not shy away from such issues when they crop up. Be candid in your discussions with her, it doesn't matter if it will hurt her feelings. That will even afford you ample opportunity to know her more. Communication is a vital issue in marriage. Start it now so you will know your woman better. You might even discover that she will soon be the one to keepm away from you.

FINAL WORD: If you think she is the one, tell her your present predicaments, and both of you will agree on how best to plan the future. If she has enough trust, she can wait for you.

First, why does he want you to move in with him? Find a way to have a thorough session with him so you can discuss this issue in all its entirety including the implications. You did't provide enough info on the level of relationship you have, like the lenght of time, his financial position, your own sitution that warrants him to ask you in. More importantly, are both of you trully in love? Finally, seek your family members opinion. Your future is more t risk than his.

Good luck.

Here is my candid opinion. There is nothing wrong with a babe proposing. Babes feel more insecure in relationship than guys. So when she proposes, she is actually saying, 'hey, can I trust you?' Well, your question presupposes that the guy is trully unprepared or convinced she is not the right one. In that case, it is easy, tell her you are yet to make up your mind. Find some excuses like family members needing to have an input and gradually ease her off.

One thing guys have to know is that babes who are pushy or over bearing are made so by nature. It doesn't count for bad manners. The duty of a man is to dominate her babe, no matter what. That makes you a man. Babes born in November-LEO - are sure designed to do so. I've been in such relationships and I can reveal to you that even my present wife presents such traits. You need to be a man to handle women right.