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There is nothing like one pastor being called to preach prosperity and anoda to preach holiness. U can't find it anywhere in scriptures. Wat u av is Peter called to be an apostle to the news while I Paul called to be an apostle to the gentile. But the gospel is the same which is Jesus. They all preached Jesus which covers prosperity, holiness, power, persecution and so on. So if anyone tells u he's called by God to preach prosperity tel him to go and ask God well again. Dis is not to mean God can't instruct u at a particular time to teach ur pple about a particular subject especially if dey are lagging behind in dat area. So every pastor owe his or her congregation d obligation to present a complete message to dem least u end up aving rich xtians who are worse than unbelievers in character and values. 6 Likes |
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From anoda angle I would say it's not really her fault. Money don't buy love and feelings. Even as a guy, it will be very hard for u to marry a lady who has given u her all but u don't av feelings for. So before u crucify her, ask urself if u can marry someone u don't av feelings for |
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In the same state and he's not willing to meet after 5 months. Dis one is strong o. My dear, d guy has not taken u as a babe yet o. Jost keep Living ur life and hold him with ur hands and not ur heart so it won't break 1 Like |
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It's sex with animals that will soon be legalized nw |
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Many think d western world is d standard for correctness, but it's not true. Today we av gay right activists which has also spread to Africa. The next will be pedophile activists, beastiality activists and all forms of human insanity. But d results of their actions is glaring to all |
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@khia, the so called independent ones who don't take crap, where has it led them?. 5th marriage at 50. |
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@mrbrown, point of correction pls, there is nothing like upgraded international way. It's either their way or our way. Theirs is not higher (upgraded) than ours. After all they suffer more marriage failures than as we do here, so nothing higher there ![]() |
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I was watching a program on TV dis evening called 'metro woman'. And like in many of our social media platforms, the issue talked abt was violence against women. One tin many of these feminist activists keep talking abt is physical violence, emotional violence and so on and they keep referring to European and American societies as examples of how men and women should live either as married couples or bf and gf. As dis drum of feminism and gender equality is being sounded everyday and everywhere, I keep wondering what our societies will look like if the solution these people are providing is to be accepted which is- if he doesn't bend to what u want back off and look for anoda. While I'm against violence against anybody whether male or female, I think dis drum of gender equality and feminism is a time bomb that will soon put us in d same place d west is in terms of marriage. The question is: Do we want a society where one is married five times before he or she even clocks 50?. A society where one has five children with five different parent? Where u negotiate everything including whose name will b answered after marriage.? Where everyone in the home is a follower with nobody as the head. A society where u can't call a lazy and nagging woman to order because doing so will be seen as verbal oppression. The ills are too numerous to count. Instead of these so called feminists to inquire and look into the reason why some men behave the way they do to their spouse, they prefer living as a single mother and become landladies with sugar boys. So, considering all these clamoring and gender equality noise, I keep wondering if the family unit which is the pillar of the society will still be standing as it ought to be not too many days from now. |
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Cheating is a capital sin. I can forgive her but I can't accept d relationship. |
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Pls I applied for political science, last year there was nothing like field of interest, but in this year's own, I am seeing only public admission and 'not applicable' as the options in d field of interest. Pls what does the 'not applicable' signify there? Because am not interested in pub admin |
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Na wa for women o. I didn't intend to lose a friend in dis manner. |
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Hello nairalanders, pls I need ur opinion on dis issue. I am a university graduate in my late 20s. While I was in d university, I proposed nt to reason gf till my final year for personal reasons. But I kept lots of female friends. In fact, majority of my friends where females aldoe dey were d ones coming around me. So I proposed in my mind to select from among these my female friends wen am ready for a relationship. Wen I was finally ready, two were in my mind. dey were my course mate and we all flowed well. So I went to my first option and told her abt my feelings for her. Lo and behold she said she was nt interested in any relationship with me aldoe I felt she would give me a chance . Given d fact dat we av been friends for abt 4 years, I felt she has known me well enough to knw if I'm d kind of guy she can date or nt. So I apologized to her backed off. So I went to d other babe who is her friend and my friend. And dat one admitted dat she has been in love with me since den and gladly accepted. But when d former one heard dat we r nw dating she took offence. Wen I later approached her, she said, I f*** up. Dat even if she said she's nt interested, shouldn't I av pressed more?. Dat she said no nd I jost gave up nd went to d other babe. I didn't knw wat to say. She and dis my babe beef started immediately. Up till today dey no longer talk o. And wen dis my babe later heard dat I had asked d other babe out before her, she no Wan use ear hear say me and dat babe dey talk o. As a guy I still try to talk and flow with d other babe, but since my babe knew I had asked her out before, she doesn't want us to talk to each other again. So pls pple, was my approach wrong? Mature minds pls. |
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Love is a word dat is widespread today but it's real essence is very scarce in our society. U hear of some pple's story and u wonder if d person is a human. I believe if we understand wat love is, we will begin to see more healthy relationships and lives in general. I don't know how anyone will define love without talking abt sacrifice. To love is to seek another's interest even as u seek urz. And doing dis will always cost u something. It is love dat will make u nt to cheat on ur bf or gf, because u know dat will b against his or her interest even if he or she is nt present with u. It is love dat will make u defend ur bf or bf before ur friends or family members, it is love dat will make u stop wearing some kind of clothes because ur partner doesn't like dem on u even wen u love dem. It is love dat will make u as a lady give some money to ur bf wen u know he doesn't av at dat moment nd yet still keep it to urself so dat he won't lose his honor before others. It is love dat will make a guy give up some habit he loves but usually make his gf sad. Love will cost u something. It is d backbone of every successful relationship. If u r nt willing to let go of some things, u r nt ready to love and nt prepared for a happy relationship. So check ur love gauge, for it can tell alot abt hw ur relationship will look like nt many days from now. |
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@jacksparrow, dis is nt an interview or job application, if u r nt comfortable wit d abbreviations, u can move to d nxt post 2 Likes |
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hello nairalanders, I av been aving dis issue on my mind for years now. I am a graduate in my late 20s, but av no gf. I av had just one relationship in my life which I had while in my final year in d university ND we broke up two years ago. nd since den av stayed away from women. d issue is nt dat I love to b stay alone, but am very terrible with relationship. I love too much ND I fear dey will take advantage of me. I am very purposeful ND goal oriented, I currently run a consulting firm, girls hit at me, in fact some ladies do ask me out, but I fear I will f**up. My belief forbids me from double dating ND lieing, so if am dating I put all my mind into it. But my fear is, I dnt want to b called a mugu or be seen as weakling me taken advantage of. I want to settle down two years time ND I need to build a relationship for dat. Pls wat can I do? mature minds pls. |
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@goshen360. we must understand that d written word is not an end to d manifestation of d gifts of d Holy Spirit. dey r for d church den, nw ND d future. |
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fake news always, la click la faint |
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beware of pple including prophets who ban u from questioning their actions or teachings for that is a sign that they r afraid of their errors and dark side being discovered 1 Like |
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d greatest warriors r those who win battle without fighting. Dnt start a war with ur potential in-laws dat u may wage all ur life as their in-law. Why is greeting a big tin? u may av won d battle but nt d war. humans can keep tins at heart for years, so b wise ND down play who greets who? 2 Likes |
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visit my uniben dot org to apply urself ND get all d necessary info. application closes may 30th |
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the uniben 2017/2018 post graduate form is out and will close on the 30th of May 2017. the form costs #21,300. For everyone applying to the department of pol science nd pub admin, send an SMS to 08055159583 to join our wattsapp group for easy information sharing, tank u. |
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Edafe, rockeepeterson@gmail.com |
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Its a nice development. But I will like to say dat we should stop dis attitude of condenming tins because we dnt like or believe in dem. Nobody is d standard. Nothing is bad because u say it's bad. So if u dnt love online dating stay clear let those who do register 1 Like |
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I am a omo peter, i am a graduate, 26 years old, i need serious God fearing lady btw the age of 20-24 for a serious relationship. U can reach me on 09022245540. |
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