I'm planning to write IELTS exam early next year and I need someone planning to do same as study partner. Pls only serious minded persons are welcome.
Any sex is welcome

The truth is that she loves u and cares for u although she's taking it too far. Hearing God's word regularly will at least reduce the chances of one being sold out to darkness.

There is more hope for a sick man in the hospital than a sick man in the house. Call her jare. it's not abt who's right or wrong but peace and love.

At times it happens. It'll however evaporate when the marriage doesn't come immediately.

Over the years we av always heard pple say "vote your conscience ", "vote your conscience ". But the question is how many pple actually av gud conscience? For someone to decide that he'll vote for a fanatic, a religious and ethnically biased person, does such a one have a gud conscience?.

I think it's high time we start advertising and campaigning for those who we know will serve us better especially based on their history and ideology. I'm not a member of any party but I think it'll make sense for me to help those who don't know the implications of their vote to understand and make a right choice. It's time for us to take a stand for the future of this country.

D problem comes from aving a faulty reason for going into a relationship. Most pple date with d mind of getting not actually giving or adding value to anoda person so d end result is always disappointment, heartbreak and regret

The earlier we make up our mind about losing dis match d better for us. because our defense to mid-field is zero

Dating is not a sin or sign of worldliness. D Jewish culture of d bible xters may not permit it, but our culture now permits it. So we should try to distinguish btw d culture of Bible xters from actual biblical principles which av universal application.

Depends on d guy nd d parents

Many believe being born again makes a guy non romantic nd a weakling in bed. But that's an uninformed judgement. Some of d serious xtian brothers were once street guys nd have experience in d other room...... No try some o, na ambulance u go need wen he finish working on u in the other room

Most pple who do dis so called spiritual enquiries before marrying their boo are jost looking for an easy way out for their laziness. All through d bible nobody did it, not even Abraham. Ur spiritual leader can advise u based on d facts u place b4 him or her but not d way many r going about it these days

I've been with dis babe for some months now and she has been nice and caring. She doesn't allow me spend on her for she'll always say she has more than enough (aldoe she's from a well-to-do family). She buy me clothes, jewelries, sponsor our outings and even at times offer cash gift. And whenever I ask her why she doesn't allow me spend, she'll say I should use my money to plan for our future together. I've loved her and trusted her.
But some days ago I got a shocker of my life wen I learnt tru her friend that she went to spend d eight days she told me she was traveling to her uncle's place at a guy's place. I was heart broken and kept it to myself for eight days with pains. After d eight days she came to my place and I confronted her with wat I heard with evidence and she began to cry.
My investigation from her friend and other sources revealed that she was actually cheating on d other guy with me and not d other way round. D guy is based in Europe and sends her 100k per month for her upkeep. Dey have been together for five years and d guy jost came to propose to her which she declined with a flamecy excuse.
D guy was d one who sponsored her university education and other things.
When I asked her why she cheated on d guy she said I'm d one she loves. Dat her plan was to take as much money from d guy and give me to aid all my plans so we can settle together. Unfortunately for her, d day she broke up with d guy is d same day I knew and broke up with her. She has been calling me and crying.
So pls pple, wat should I do? My conscience is Judging me for spending anoda guy's money. Aldoe I love her, but my feelings for her died d day her friend exposed her to me.
Pls I'm I being too hard?

Sure I can.. But she must not have more Dan one child. If she has all d qualities I need in a woman I can marry her.

There's this neighbor of mine whose friends usually mock as a "35 year old virgin". And my concern here is dat dis guy is a motor spare parts dealer living well, yet he doesn't have a girlfriend not to talk of serious babe. He has been like dis for years now although wen confronted he'll make mouth about all d babes he has had. Yet once he sees a babe all his legs will be shaking - warri boy for that matter. But at his age is dat normal?

Sleep with ur belly to d ground, dats it.

U funny Sha (lol).

Thank God for peace o. In times like dis, no body thinks about enemy, being broke or rich or finding a Bae.

Hello everyone,
I av been following threads on relationships and marriage for a long time now and one thing I discovered is dat d advice most pple get when dey come for advice is "pray so that God will tell u if d person is urs or not" and stuffs like dat. Even d op who complained of being a virgin at 33 and wanting to settle down also got d same advice from some pple who commented.
Aldoe I'm faith based, yet I av not seen anywhere in d bible where anyone went to pray first to check if a person is God ordained Bae or not. I've read my Bible front and back, I saw no one do it. From Abraham to Isaac to David even to d apostles. So I keep wondering where dis notion came from.
To me Sha, I believe most of pple are jost seeking an easy way out of what their mind is already telling dem about d person. D only criteria d bible gave for choosing a spouse is dat d person must be of d same faith with u. Every other criteria is nw left for u to decide. And secondly, there is nothing like "everyone has one God-ordained wife or husband for him or her" . If dats d case, re-marrying won't av been permitted in d bible if ur spouse dies. So d bottom line of dis topic is dat we should stop putting our responsibility on God. It's ur duty to recognize if a person fits ur future plan. And ur responsibility to observe and study d person for red or green lights. Follow ur heart because most pple who claimed to av prayed before choosing never actually heard anything from God. Dey r jost deceiving themselves.

D truth is dat u r fighting ur conscience. dats where d hate comes from. Chat me up lets talk. Av seen cases like dis before

Don't let him know ur mom's opinion concerning his tribe cos it can av a long term consequence. However, d ball is on u to do all u can to talk ur mom out of her tribal fear and bias. It may take time, but be patient and try to get ur siblings to side with u first.

Nice one @op. But I believe dis is something dat should commence from courtship. A guy should start d process of grooming his woman to wat he wants at courtship. But at d same time d woman must be willing to be submissive. Except two agree, dey can't walk together.

Pple Judge by wat they see, so, aldoe u r ok u av to try and make some adjustments. U can begin to try and socialize doh moderately because dis attitude of yours can cost u alot because pple will always misinterpret ur attitude.

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I dnt think it's a bad idea if she's sexually attractive to him, and if she is submissive, and nt a liability in all ramifications

Weda it's spiritual or mental it can be fixed. In fact if it's spiritual it's easier, but if it's mental it's gonna take a little time of systematic adjustment. But if he truly needs help he can send me a message on rockeepeterson@gmail.com. So we can talk Better. Am a preacher too and av met and counselled lots pple with related issues before by God's grace.

Op, it's easy to be judged without being understood. I know how u r feeling right nw, I av met and counselled several ladies with related issues before,... Pm me let's talk better. Rockeepeterson@gmail.com

Open, it's nt a problem. At times some things are jost coincidental. And as for d breakup after d making it thing, I believe it's one of d very unpredictable and selfish nature of man.
Can u pm me so we can share more light. On dis? Got a friend who was in d same position before. Rockeepeterson@gmail.com

My broda don't think her up as a wife yet o. Wait till d pressures of sex and yahoo boys start falling heavily on her den u will knw if she's truly loyal or not. I will always go for 24 and above.