This type of relationship is not a health one... The goods you are buying is for her, what if u are on a sick bed and money is required... My brother u are already dead b4 your very eye... I have been there, am 9yrs in marriage and i can tell you straight to you THAT SHE IS NOT A WIFE MATERIAL... RUN FOR YOUR LIFE MY BROTHER.

zayhal:
Stop telling her about everything you want to do for your brother. Help your brother (and other family members) without informing her. That way, peace will reign.

Thanks for your response, I once have a brother wit similar circumstance, but this man is bent on helping pple, so he will give and warn you not to go thank the wife or do same to him in d presence of d wife... My man apply wisdom, you have not married the wrong person, u married your perfect person, all u need is wisdom & it's natural to experience these at d early stage of marriage.... Learning Process, we all went thru that stage of life too...God bless your marriage.

floragregs:
Marriage is NOT for everybody! That's why I hate seeing nairalanders telling celebrity single ladies to go and get married. Please leave them alone! I repeat, marriage is NOT for everybody!

Just the way u remain single.... Huummmm

adipemcanis1:


Fashion.

While I want to tell people who critiqued this lady to mind their business....it is a fact that people judge you by your outward appearance....not by your inner person.

It is unfair....it is not right....but that's the way it is.

We may make fun of people who dress ''fully covered''...but the fact remains that if i was in a hospital or bank for instance....and a worker came to attend to me dressed in micro mini....or wearing a singlet and boxers........would I agree to be attended to by her or him?

Dress ''properly''. You do not have to....it is your right to dress as you see fit....and it is your right not to be condemned for dressing in a miniskirt. But....sadly...human beings are judgemental people.That's life....and life is not fair.

My guy ur wears say so much about ur inner person & it's also tell people so much about ur personality

living with extremists; islamists

If I call ISIL, you all will deny them, if I say
hezbollah, you still deny them,

if I say alshabaab, you still deny them. If I say Taliban, you still deny them,

if I say al queada, you still dey them,

if I say Muslim brotherhood, you still denythem,

if I mention boko haram, you still denythem.

But when you want to boast about the population of ISLAM, you mention them as Muslims.

Bro, we both know that your religion promotes
violence, its in your holy books. Instead of
denying it, why not talk about how to reform the
teachings of ISLAM to make the world a better
place.
Show me one place in the world where there is
crisis by christians, and?d I will show you 20
countries where your religion is causing havocs.

CastedDude:
no be so naa. Boko Haram members are just bloody killers, they don't represent Islam....before u judge, just remember that Christians too have ritual killers and kidnappers

Who are the people behind the ritual killing... Huummmm, the so call ALFAs... and they all are muslim.... My brother there is some thing wrong wit that believe call islam and those that believe in it call muslim.

sheilak:


Never?

If your husband dies leaving you with two kids, would you still take that position?

What if it were your daughter?

My brother go back and read, she is never married... Not the same as a widow

burnexcessfats:
Hmmmmmmm!

To be candid bro, I will advice you not to go ahead with the marriage.

Firstly, the fact that your parent told you not to do so with the stated facts above, I totally agreed with them.....Though it might be difficult for you to accept that now simply because you are already over crowded with her love...

My dear brother, the love you both have now might or in most cases will not be enough to pull through ups and downs in a marriage..... The years of experience of your parents can never be traded for anything. They were there before you, they know what it takes to have a successful marriage, the sacrifice involved and so many other important things about marriage.

They are in the best position to advice you, and which they ve done. Is now left for you to use your discretion and follow the right step but not totally blinded by the love that will fade away after the reality done on you as time goes on in the marriage.

However, a lot of things is not just right in the first place...
1) she is older than you
2) she already had two kids
3) I believe she must have had a strong connection with the father of her children, of which this connected can never be cut off even after you marry her. The question is are you ready to face all the consequences?

Though she already had two kids, how many kids will she give to you? ...........and many other reasons...


In fact, if you sit down and think about the thing very well, I believe you will see yourself that love is not only enough to sustain you in the marriage as well as going against your parent wish...


There are many and more better options out there, just don't settle for less......go for the best bro. Your love is out there beckoning on you.... listen to your heart and go get her....

Like to know u more, pls

stevegreatest:
Just received this please how genuine is it

DYNARES invites you for interview & work details by 9 am THU 11/02/16 @ 16 Ondo str. Mashalasi b/stop behind keystone bank Apapa Rd. Costain.
CV7220

Sure GNLD, it's close to my house.

Phargbemmy:
Hi @Abraham.

I am in urgent need for a job.

I am a graduate with over 7 years of experience in supply chain mgt, logistics and warehousing.

Qualifications are:
BSc Business Administration
Dip. Finance Administration (C.I.A)
A.C.I.S (Associate, Certified Institute of Shipping of Nigeria)

others are:
Post graduate diploma in supply chain mgt (June, 2016)

C.I.W.M.M ( Associate ofCertified Institute of Warehousing and Material Management, 2016)

C.I.S.C.M (Chartered Institute of Supply Chain Mamagement od Nigeria, 2016).

I will be glad if you can be of assistance.

My numbers are 08186715860 and 08122681325

Check eremy on vacant thread there is a lot of advert related to your field

Guy, there is no way u can over look the place of class work in writing certification exams

alfred_iyiola@yahoo.com Thanks

uselessgoat:
They could just be innocent guys mistaken for terrorist because they are muslims. All muslims are not terrorist. Islam is peace and we muslims are peaceful people May Allah reward them with paradise.

Huummmm, my brother can you stop for a moment and think straight.
True not all muslim are terrorist because I have some as friend and i know they are not terrorist BUT ONE THING I KNOW IS THAT ALL TERRORIST ARE MUSLIM.

I can't believe I'm staying with animals in the zoo, God, I don't deserve this punishment(living with extremists; islamists)
If I call ISIL, you all will deny them, if I say
hezbollah, you still deny them, if I say al
shabaab, you still deny them. If I say Taliban, you
still deny them, if I say al queada, you still deny
them, if I say Muslim brotherhood, you still deny
them, if I mention boko haram, you still deny
them. But when you want to boast about the
population of islam, you mention them as
Muslims.
Bro, we both know that your religion promotes
violence, its in your holy books. Instead of
denying it, why not talk about how to reform the
teachings of islam to make the world a better
place.
Show me one place in the world where there is
crisis by christians, and?d I will show you 20
countries where your religion is causing havocs.

missKiffy:
If your girlfriend is truly sorry I see no reason for you not to go ahead with her, besides all dos things happened in her past

Sorry for what my dear, that her past which is not of his bizness, is her own sister an angel without any past?.
Man move on with your life if only you will not use the known history hurt the Innocent woman when the moment comes, because that moment will come, in marriage that moment of test will definitely come, so check your mind if those info will not one day turned to be a torn in the flesh of the little girl... Huummmm.
Have a great day.

Young woman, please kindly remove your pix from your Dp for now, not too healthy for you.... Huummmm

msjanet:
guys ranting as if they don't do worse

guys ranting is not what the young woman want from you, but solution to the challenge @ hand.... Huummmm.
My little girl please don't tell him, not healthy for your future.

menix:
None for graduates abii I no dey see again

Edo slot should be shared amongst the SS states cous virtually all Edosians re Pilots by nature...

They fly both day & night without using aeroplane.... Hahahahahahaha.
Edosian are truly real Pilots

Cutehector:
Lol brother dnt be deceived.


There will come a time when u will see the other side of her and regret ever marrying her. Please put her to the test, annoy her, get to see her reactions, u will be surprised.

It's very obvious that you don't have any experience in marriage, sure thing, you are not married, hence u lack the necessarily opinion here.
Again, it's not all issues u respond to, learn to be quiet when the need be, have a great day my brother & God bless you.

Am cool with the E

Young woman, going through all your thread, all I see is my mother do this, my mother do that, ask your self what am I doing wrong.
Am a father and know every parent out there love their kids or children, am sure you are not the only child in the house, woman watch your life, all she's doing is for your own good and remember you will one day be a mother too. God bless you as you find a common ground between you and your mother.

agalamanyi:
i have.

Big bro, how did you apply?, tried all I could but unable to access any form.

Interesting...

irunooboo:
Fine woman married to money and political power. I hope u sabi fucck that old man in Edo government's house

Checking thru ur monika, u are truely irunoboo

Seriously

mylordship:
be careful, our GOD is a consuming fire

Say something about me

mylordship:
ure a mother to a beyonce

Say something about me now

mylordship:
it will be like a dream when u discover dat ure pregnant, mark my words.

Talk to me now, still waiting to hear from you.

mylordship:
im seeing a big kind of money come into ur hands.

@mylordship, still waiting to hear from you, ok

mylordship:
YEAH

Talk to me, am waiting.
@mylordship, still waiting for your word