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Orchid45:
You both have no business being married if you can't iron out your issues yourselves. If you can't make her understand your situation, I doubt her parents can.

Third party intervention in marriages only provide temporary or no solution at all.

The problem is that we approach this third party issue the wrong way. No man or couple is an island and saying they have no business getting married if they can't solve their issues on their own is a very misleading statement.

Has any human being ever solved all their life issues by themselves?

Are they called failures for needing help? No. So why should marriage be different?

Third parties can be of Help if you choose wisely. A professional counsellor can help you guys with your issue. Calling the parents on the other hand might do more harm because family is partisan and will always take sides.

Often in marriage, couples find it difficult to communicate effectively and that leads to bigger problems.

It's not about OP's wife being bad. She may have seen some character traits in her husband that suggests he has more money than he claims to. So let's not crucify her. For her to go to the point of saying her feelings are dead is suggestive of repressed anger that finally blew the lid.

I advice you see a marriage counsellor. Not everything is about kicking your wife out or calling parents.

Send me a DM if you need help getting a Counsellor.

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HAVE YOU TRIED THE HOTDOG?

I remember the first time I summoned courage to try the "hotdog".

I can hear you asking me what the "Hotdog is.

The hotdog is a form of pre-intimacy or non penetrative sex that involves stimulating the man's penis by rubbing it between the woman's breasts. The breasts are pushed close together around the penis to create a tight area for stimulation while the man thrusts.

Back to my story.

I felt awkward about it because I don't have Vitafoam breasts (if you know what I mean), that I felt were a prerequisite to do the hotdog.

In any case, I soldered on. Sometimes, you have to step out of your comfort zone. Right?

Because I felt awkward, I put a blindfold on my husband. The blindfold served 2 purposes.

1. It helped him focus on the pleasurable sensations by heightening his other senses.
2. It helped me deal with the awkward part of figuring out how to use my modest boobs to do the hotdog. (This was the primary reason, the other one was a bonus)

So, blindfold was on and I got down to business. Turns out you don't need big boobs to do the hotdog.

When I was comfortable enough with what I was doing to let him enjoy the erotic picture, I took off the blindfold and the rest, they say, is history.

My point?

When we get married and "life" takes over, sexual intimacy is one of the first things that is gets thrown to the backseat.

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OP, I feel sorry for you. You brought your matter to Nairaland and unfortunately, the people that can give you good advice didn't bother to comment.

Look, instead of giving your wife ultimatums and lectures on how bad sex will make you sleep with other women, why don't you first try to understand what's going on with her?

The marriage isn't all about you and your sexual urges, you know?

Seek to understand what the problem is and be supportive about getting a resolution together.

If need be, see a professional marriage and/or sex counsellor. Your pastor is a pastor not a marriage or sex counsellor.

Get your mind right and stop eyeing women up and down. It almost seems like you have been looking for an excuse to release the Cassanova in you.

Goodluck

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tbliss22:
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The local dispatcher has done is homework coming up with affordable prices for home delivery per 100 tubers.

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Now, I need this services in the following states:

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shortgun:

There is no doubts he heard from God cos d wife confirmed what he said right there in the Church before the congregation.

Let's assume what the Pastor said is true and the wife has truly been praying that way, it's very possible that your brother already exhibits character traits that have made her believe that he will misbehave (even more) when he is more financially well off.

Tell your brother to treat his wife right and be at peace.

ireke:
I swear I have never and will never use any of those lines. I am pretty honest about it, I don't even lie that I want to be your friend.

I tell them straight up - I am married with kids. I'm not looking for a wife and I don't do girlfriend or mistress runs. I'm just looking for friends with benefits. We just take care of each other in different ways.

Generally, You don't have to hope into bed or get down with me but don't form for me either. Don't tell me to go and meet my wife for sex when you won't go and meet your boyfriends or parents for your wants. I can supply your needs if I see that you are truly in need but as a matter of principle I leave girls alone when I am helping them financially. I feel like I'm getting paid for something I should just do for God.

Why am I saying this self? Guess I'm bored

I hope you won't take offense if your wife does same. What is good for the goose ........

coolcatty:
Hahahaha

Guy calm down... You are not alone... Trust me.. So many good girls don't really like seeex like that.... It gets worse once they give birth.... They tend to lose interest in seeex and their husband and dedicate all their time and energy to their kids....... So relax.


We discussed this issue in my office one time like that and discovered that so many men are going thru this same issue of seexual apathy from their wives.

Try and enjoy urself outside... Pls be so so careful not to ever get caught... Always respect and honor your woman by following these rules:

1)NEVER ever bring a woman home

2)Never ever cheat on ur wife with a woman that stays close to ur place.. E.g have chics that stay on the mainland if you live on the island

3)Never deny your wife of love, affection, money and attention because of a side chic

4)Get a young girl that is not ready to get married or one in a serious relationship.... Those ones are in it with you just for fun and will never get jealous or hook with pregnancy.

5)And lastly... Always wear a condom... Don't go and give ur wife disease abeg.

Enjoy ur life bro... It's meant to be lived once... Heaven or hell is not guaranteed.. So enjoy this one that you currently have.

Wow. This advice though
Please Op don't let anyone help you wreck your home.

What your wife is going through happens to a good number of women and I personally know a number of them that have gone ahead to have satisfying sex lives afterwards.

However, you and your wife need to see a Marriage/Sex Counsellor. I hope she agrees to.

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What about Lagos?

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nwarosa:
Where do you stay?

I stay at Ikeja

hotmomma:
Olababymee, that's where i had my son, don't know what you mean by equipped but was attended to by a very professional gynae all thru, and D midwives were top notch, very friendly environment, maybe its my person sha cos am quite lively, but all things been equal God willing, baby no 2 would be delivered there.
You can go and make enquires sha, was a colleague that recommended D place.
Oda mamas, follow put mouth recommend hospitals naa

Thank you hotmomma, I appreciate it.

hotmomma:
Olababymee, try motayo hosp off toyin street, ikeja, quite pricy but very good.

Thanks hot momma. I appreciate it.

Did you use the hospital? Are they well equipped?

Hi mums, I am currently pregnant and live in lagos.

Can anyone pls recommend good hospitals to give birth in lagos?
I'm not a first timer but my first experience in a supposedly 'good n expensive ' hospital in Ikeja is not an experience I want to repeat.

I was given very extensive medio- lateral episiotomy that didnt heal for 5 months!!!!

There was practically no after birth care for the mums, I was discharged without being checked and I began to haemorrhage heavily. All they cared about was money.

Please help a sister out with the name of a good hospital with good patient care services.

Thank you