I am astonished with a lot of the rude and immature comments on this thread.

It shows that there are a lot of lunatics who think they are men and are sane out there.

You took time to woo the babe, now you want to call it off and you are going to the extreme. Thats outrageous and devilish.

You are the kind of guys whom after being married would protect your daughter(s) when you remember what you have done to other men's daughters out there.

Absolutely rubbish.

Bertbert:

There in Nigeria or may I say Africa is always a place where it seems that someone's ex will always be seen as an enemy.But its not supposed to be so, you still have the right to help your ex anywhere you can be of assistance to him or her.
A friend of mine married to a white lady who is a divorcee,one day as they were preparing to go for an occation they noticed that their car was not in a good condition,the woman simply called her ex husband and asked him to help her with his car and the ex husband did not refuse but told her to come over and take the car.After using the car the woman just returned it back to her.
How many of Nigerian women or men can do this? Let us all know that its a small world ,so that the issue of an ex will not be a do or die affair.
So poster if you are still interested in him just allow him again and try to be more careful this time around but if you dont want him again please politely let him know so that you guys can be friends and not enemies.

well, it can happen in Nigeria only when an ex breaks up with his/her partner in a polite way. some men r callous when they break up with their girls on the phone or do it in some other cruel way. if u beak up in a reasonable way, although u may still  see face some challenges during that, the ex will later realise that u ve actually been 'good' in ur manner of approach. that way, u can see each other in future and one person will not feel like stabbing u for what u did to him/her.

honestly, facebook will ruin relationships or marriages if people are not careful
why would the guy say it complicated inthe first place. if things were really complicated then he should discuss it with his girlfriend first and sort things out.

the guy may not mean harm but men, l dont know

facebook has cause enough problems in my own relationship already , u get a lot of assumptions , that my guy wont want to explain, like in this case,

I have been running my accounts with GTBank since 2004 and l can tell you their services are still the best. They have the most courtest staff even the temporary staff are not left out.

Zenith Bank is okay to an extent.

hey girl we are birthday mate am also march first being looking for you all this years how are you anyway

@smtprince

yeah, here l am!!! l am good. catch ya later. happy weekend

hey, l am march 1st too.

Pisceans are very lovely people. they care about people to a fault. lt sometimes bites back cos it may not be reciprocal. love anyway.

they are also very smart and creative.

almondjoy,

Perhaps l didnt read over what l typed but l still maintain my stand that Uk is still safer. I am not in anywy confused, u re the one in the confused state becue u don't understand the message l conveyed. I bet u have not been to lagos either before or in a while. I only used that handset theft as a typical example because it is what happens everyday. well, handsets might be the least thing on anyone's mind to steal where you are but its the most accessible item to obtain easily next to cash.

BTW, I think u need to visit lagos one of these days to have a good experience. Then u might have ur lips sealed for once. I have had about two experiences and for a while l had to battle with the fear of been attacked again. so ppppllllllllsssss,

In my opinion, UK is far safer than Naija. I am on vacation here in U.K and was taking a walk around 11pm with my cousin. I was so paranoid cos I felt someonemight just attack us and collect our handsets or something. I had to work on my mind to convince myself I was not in Lagos.

Honesstly U.K would have been worse but they have been able to forestall a lot of crimes by monitoring most of their streets with CCTV. I feel u can only be attacked in dark places and of course, the notorious places some of us already know. But naija! forget it, u can be robbed anytime, anywhere. Thank God for his protection. Crimes that are not monitored are cybercrimes.

My first experience was about seven years ago, on Chanchangi to Abuja. I was travelling with my sisters and we were to meet my parents who had gone earlier. I can't remember being scared or something. Rather I was excited about my dad's book launch that I was going for.

Intuitively, I wanted to seat close to the window to get a good view at the sky and the earth below us. It was fun looking at cities, towns and rivers because they looked so tiny. It shows how great God is and how small we really are. You know? If things can look so tiny to us from up there, how much more, our problems in the sight of God. And, the world is not a bad place at all! It is a beautiful one, we human beings are the ones destroying it with our greedines.  

As per the food, I can never forget the tea they served us, it was terrible!   They had some tiny black stuff at the bottom of the cup. Thank God they don't serve prepared food/tea/coffee any more.

I had a good memory of my first flight because first, one there was no turbulence unlike my last trip from P/H recently. Second, I saw some important personalities in the plane with us. That made me feel somewhat like a VIP.  

I have a BSc in Business Administration and a MBA degree in view. I have 3 years experience (both marketing and operations) in one of the leading Insurance companies.

I like coming up with new ways of doing things. l believe l can do well in marketing research (would not mind trying my hands on that) and proficient in Microsoft office tools except access and infopath. I want to develop a career in business development or management.

I would love to work in either an ICT, financial services, airline or Oil & gas company. Kindly notify me of any openings.

Yeah, some men are not worth the sacrifice.
So if you must go out of your way to do anything for your man, ensure there is very likelihood he will do same for you.

Same for guys too, some girls are not worth sacrificing for.

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