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Romance / Re: “I Stoled Your Heart, I Stoled Your Surname" – Pre-Wedding Photo Goes Wrong by olubode01(m): 9:38am On Jan 11, 2017
Aregs:
lol this one is bad o
There is a look uneducated people put on,that is what has been displayed by the duo. I won't join people in casting aspersions on them. How can you steal ones surname even when you have not been joined together? There is always room for correction.
Romance / Re: “I Stoled Your Heart, I Stoled Your Surname" – Pre-Wedding Photo Goes Wrong by olubode01(m): 9:38am On Jan 11, 2017
Aregs:
lol this one is bad o
There is a look uneducated people put on,that is what has been displayed by the duo. I won't join people in casting aspersions on them. How can you steal ones surname even when you have not been joined together?
Education / Re: Top 15 Lucrative Courses Jambites Should Select In 2017. by olubode01(m): 1:15pm On Jan 05, 2017
ANNOY:
1) Accounting
2) Medicine
3) Economics
4) Law
5) Public Administration
6) Mechanical Engineering
7) Pharmacy
cool Business Administration
9) Agriculture
10) Mass Communication
11) Chemical Engineering
12) Architecture
13) Computer Science
14) Dentistry
15) Hrm& Personnel Management
is it that,you arranged it alphabetically or according to its market value and potentials.
Politics / Re: Group Demands Fayose’s Removal As Ekiti Governor In 14 Days by olubode01(m): 11:35am On Jan 04, 2017
DONSMITH123:


https://www.naij.com/1080747-group-demands-fayoses-removal-ekiti-governor-14-days.html
group of rabble rousers that disguise itself all on the basis of the electioneering processes about to kick start in the state. we know their sponsors and will soon meet their political waterloo in the state.

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Crime / Re: Cultist Murders Girlfriend, Dumps Corpse In Well by olubode01(m): 2:56pm On Jan 02, 2017
oyedun82:
Date responsible and good guy.. They wont hear

They all want someone that can rock their world madly
it is only God that knows us in out. you cannot judge a book by its cover. we have facially gentle guys or ladies that are extremely terrible.
Celebrities / Re: Meet Ikwa Ibom Superman Aged 77: Pulls A Car With Teeth, 15 Men Can't Pull Him by olubode01(m): 2:52pm On Jan 02, 2017
angelTI:
Rubbish! His grandchildren are winning world records while he is there forming local champion angry angry angry angry

At least,he has achieved something that has brought media spotlight to him. it is either one is known for a good or bad reason.
Celebrities / Re: Meet Ikwa Ibom Superman Aged 77: Pulls A Car With Teeth, 15 Men Can't Pull Him by olubode01(m): 2:48pm On Jan 02, 2017
walcut:
grin grin grin... Imagine wooing his daughter and he shows up
na gbege be dt ooooo
Phones / Please,help Me Out On My Low Storage Capacity On Itel 1502 by olubode01(m): 11:14am On Mar 14, 2016
my itel phone 1502 has been giving me recurring signs of low storage capacity despite having a 4gig capacity and an 8 gig external storage. All applications on my phone is less than 2 gig. please, how do I solve this problem. thanks
Family / Re: Nine Reasons Why Some African Ladies End Up Single For Life by olubode01(m): 3:01pm On Feb 07, 2015
anthoniaz:
True

Some, is just because of their character. You see a lady in her early 40s going from one house to other gossiping and and trying to bring enmity between neighbours, mocks men that approach ger just like the one in my former compound.
Food / Re: What Is Velvet Tamarind Called In Your Native Language? by olubode01(m): 3:38pm On Nov 13, 2013
do you know that ASUU has postponed its nec meeting to the 14th of jan 2014?[color=#990000][/color]
Education / Re: ASUU - FG Meeting Successful..., Will ASUU Call Off The Strike Now? by olubode01(m): 4:53am On Nov 05, 2013
Hope that the strike by University lecturers will be called off after the
meeting between leaders of the Academic Staff Union of Universities
( ASUU) and Federal Government officials was dashed on Tuesday
morning.
The about 13 hour meeting which had President Goodluck Jonathan
leading the federal government’s negotiation team ended with ASUU
leaders promising to consult with their members .
“We are taking a message from President Goodluck Jonathan to our
members” ASUU President Fagge told newsmen after the meeting.
He declined to speak further on agreements reached at the meeting.
Labout Minister also simply told newsmen, ” the ASUU leaders have a
good message from the President for thie members.”
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Culture / Re: Ondo Chief Bayo Akinnola Dies At 78 by olubode01(m): 4:03pm On Mar 21, 2013
I don't know dis chief as a person,but the eulogies being showered on him even when dead shows dt,he lived a fulfilled life. Posterity will always judge us for whatsoever we do. Adeiu papa

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European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) / Re: Champions League/Europa League Draws by olubode01(m): 2:40pm On Mar 15, 2013
I forsee realmadrid vs B.Dortmund in the finals
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Massive Recruitment At Akwa Ibom State University (AKSU) by olubode01(m): 3:46pm On Jan 14, 2013
Can graduate assistant appy? I really have flare for lecturing.

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Sports / Re: Tennis Australian Open 2013. by olubode01(m): 11:33am On Jan 12, 2013
If Rodger is fit,i tink he still has d magical wand to turn tins arnd. Well,surprises cant be sprunk. It is a competition btw d top 3 contenders. Bt,D.ferrer might also not be a pushover
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) / Re: Cristiano Ronaldo Stitches Goal Stats On Boots! by olubode01(m): 3:20pm On Jan 07, 2013
Ronaldo: The mind game player. Like Ronaldo,like Mourhino. Sentiment apart, he is worth winning the award.
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) / Re: Cristiano Ronaldo Stitches Goal Stats On Boots! by olubode01(m): 3:20pm On Jan 07, 2013
Ronaldo: The mind game player. Like Ronaldo,like Mourhino. Sentiment apart, he worth winning the award.
Politics / Re: Obasanjo Has No Choice But To Back GEJ In 2015 – Presidency. by olubode01(m): 11:55am On Jan 07, 2013
Gulak is not political enough in his statements. Can president Jonathan win the election for himself? Well,i want to believe whether Gulak has been planted as a spy by major actors in pdp inorder to hold it against Jonathan. But if otherwise........... Gulak might not be a good strategist
Politics / Re: Who Is Better At Leadership? GEJ Or Yar'adua. by olubode01(m): 11:46am On Dec 31, 2012
Yar'adua,despite his ailing health proved more to be a leader than our clueless and puppet-like jonathan. Though,both of den are product of academics,jonathan really disappointed Nigerians that gave him sympathy votes. No wonder,he could not hold a brief for his late boss even wen yar'adua was in power because,his boss never believed in his competency. Moreover,wen presy Jonathan was campaigning,he never had a concrete manifesto. So,we shud nt give room for comparism. I want to believe dt,as a good leader,you must avoid wot made your predecessor fell and consolidating on his achievements. But,reverse is d case for our transformation agenda president. Oh! I weep for my Dear country,Nigeria. GOD BLESS NIGERIA
Politics / Re: President Jonathan's New Year Suprise For 2013 by olubode01(m): 6:27am On Dec 31, 2012
Well to me,year 2013 portrays to me as a year of possibilities and great surprises. Without much ado,I wished our president would consider d fact dt he was once a common man but he had long lost his priority as a man of dignity. A president dt could openly say dt d problem confronting Nigeria is nt corruption but attitude,what good shud we expect from such a person? I wished he could first orientate himself b4 orientating others by living and leading by example. Nigeria will soon be a pride of Africa. Happy birthday to all Nairalanders as we all celebrate together. Year 2013 will be our year of EASE.

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NYSC / Re: Let's Have Your Complaints And Suggestions by olubode01(m): 9:20am On Dec 11, 2012
Nysc plateau state have refused to pay our monthly allowance despite other states had paid theirs. Now,the state have been grounded due to the ongoing strike embarked upon by labour. It is not sure dt we are going to receive ours dis week. This is an habitual character by plateau nysc. Pls,help us broadcast it
Car Talk / Re: Why Do Driving Schools Use Volkswagen Beetle To Teach Driving? by olubode01(m): 7:25pm On Nov 20, 2012
I suggest that,it might be as a result of its complexity. This will enable the learners to adapt to any type of car
Romance / Re: 7 Reasons Women Lose Respect For Men by olubode01(m): 11:54am On Nov 20, 2012
I just thought I should share this with NL dudes...If a woman loses respect for you as a man, she will also lose attraction and begin to fall out of love with you. It might’ve taken you a long time to find “the one” that you’re now in love with, but unless you’re careful about avoiding the following mistakes, she’ll soon be thinking about backing out of the relationship for good. Let's have some clues...

1. Belittling Her in Public

Playful teasing each other in private can be a fun aspect to your relationship, especially if it’s kept light and you both have understand each other’s sense of humor. Too often though, some men will belittle their woman in front of their friends or family in a way that she feels is cruel and sincerely harmful to her confidence and sense of pride and comfort in front of others.

In an effort to “show off” to his friends or because he believes that some “habit” his girl has is silly, some guys will say hurtful things about their girlfriend/wife. Even if it’s done when she’s not there, what the man says about his woman is probably going to get back to her eventually and she will feel betrayed and lose respect for him when it does.


2. Being Too Bossy

Women like to have their man be the head of the relationship, but when he starts getting too bossy and treating her like a slave or a servant, that’s when she will begin to lose respect for him.

Being bossy sets in when it has to do with house chores. If you want your relationship to last, you should let your girl do much of the housework, while you spontaneously help out with the housework, but focus mainly on doing the “manly” jobs around the house, making the big decisions and basically leading the relationship. However, when the man decides that he’s the “boss” and his woman has to do whatever he demands of her as if he “owns” her, she will lose respect for him and want out; especially if their sex life isn’t that fulfilling for her either.

3. Always Letting Her “Win”

On the opposite side of being too bossy, some guys will give in to whatever a woman wants because he is too fearful of losing her if he doesn’t yield to her every whim and desire. While it’s true that a woman will usually “test” you to see how much she can “get away with,” what she really wants is reassurance that you are in-charge of their relationship by seeing that you don’t agree to her every request.

If it gets to the point where her man agrees with her every request or “demand,” especially out of fear of her leaving him, she will walk all over him until she eventually loses all respect for him. She’ll then fall into the arms of another man who will show her who is truly “in charge” of their relationship. Girls may act like they want to be the boss in this new age of independent women who can do whatever they want, but deep down they all want a man who is a man and who can and will continually take the lead in a relationship. Any bros out there fumbling..., c'mon dude you the man, act up!

4. Being Weak or Submissive Around Other Men

This one point you must not toy with. A woman is always watching to see how much of a man a guy really is. One of the best ways a woman can see how strong (mentally and emotionally) a guy is, is to watch him interact with other men. Whether he’s chatting to men at a party or talking to a male shop attendant in a store, the woman is watching to see if he acts submissively and places the other man/men above him in terms of dominance. If he bosses her around at home, but let’s most (if not all) other guys boss him around outside of the home, she will lose respect for him instanta and won’t want to “follow his orders” at home - even akpos no go gree if na you date am!

If you want to learn how to be an alpha male who men respect and women love and lust after,please read wide about being an alpha male. You’ll be surprised at how easy it is to be the alpha male in a situation and how much your life will improve, not only with women, but at work (or study) and around friends and family. I no say make you turn commando...abeg na nigeria police go carry you shine! Life is completely different when, everywhere you go, people look up to you and respect you. Good things will just start happening to you all of the time. Doors open up for you and women just naturally want to be with you. There’s no need to try to get a woman attracted – she already is because you’re alpha bravo - just saying

5. Being Suspicious of Her Every Move

Trust is essential for the health of a relationship. Without it, all sorts of problems begin to emerge. One of the fastest ways to erode and eventually destroy the trust in a relationship is to become suspicious and overly protective of your woman. Regularly accusing her of wanting to cheat or of doing things behind your back will only lead to a breakdown of trust and a halt to the flow of love in the relationship.

Whether she’s legitimately working with a male co-worker on a project, going out with her friends to the movies or to do some shopping or running errands, some guys will find it difficult, if not impossible, to trust their woman unless they are with her. In an effort to control and keep tabs on her, some guys will stay in constant contact with their woman to find out where she is and what she is doing, snoop on her e-mails and phone messages to see if any guys are saying anything that could mean she wants to be more than “just friends” with them and so on. Women find this to be a major turn-off because they aren’t attracted to men who desperately need them for their emotional security and feelings of self-worth. My advice get yourself busy looking for money.

6. Whining Like a Victim

For a variety of reasons, a man might find that his life plans are suddenly in jeopardy (e.g. he loses a job, his shares/stocks/investments plummet and lose tremendous value, he gets caught up in heated disagreements with family or friends, etc.). It’s understandable that when things go wrong like that, a man might want to talk about his problems with his woman, but when he whines and complains like a victim without looking for solutions, a woman’s respect for him will quickly dwindle not every lady though but it good you brace up. Everyone has disappointments and problems that have to be dealt with, but some men will let it destroy them by dwelling on it and acting like a “victim of life.”

When a man is in a relationship, he should sometimes seek his woman’s advice to see how she feels and what she thinks might be a good way of tackling a problem. Even if he doesn’t follow her suggestions, but instead weighs them up as a possible solution against his ideas, a woman will greatly appreciate that her opinion matters to him and that he is actively trying to find a way to resolve his problems instead of moping, whining and complaining, but not actively seeking a solution. Boys complain and whine, while men decide and act.

7. Lying

Being able to rely on you to be truthful and live with integrity is one of the most important things to a woman when in a relationship with you. It doesn’t matter if it’s a “little white lie” to “keep out of trouble with her” or a major fib that, if discovered, will have life-altering ramifications, most women won’t tolerate their man routinely being dishonest. In fact, once your woman has caught you lying, she will never be able to fully rely on you again. She will not be able to see you as her “rock” or her man of stone and her respect for you will diminish.

Personally speaking, I’ve been able to consistently win arguments with my girlfriends and consistently stop women from putting heat on me about something, simply by saying, “Hey, have I ever lied to you? I always tell you the truth, right?” and the woman then has to give in and smile. From there, she can rely on you to lead her with the integrity and strength of a true alpha male. So, as a general rule, I recommend you just tell it how it is with women. Don’t lie, don’t cheat and don’t pretend to be something you’re not. Be the straight up, cool guy that you are and everything will be fine. but some girls like lie lie sha don't fall deep into it least you turn a pathological liar - just learn how to garnish it..

Finally - get money man, bc I have seen some men who are trespassers of the above but bc of how heavy their pockets are they however succeed in sustaining relationship........................well,not all ladies abide by this
Romance / Re: Would You Date Your Ex's Lookalike? by olubode01(m): 11:50am On Nov 20, 2012
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Romance / Re: Would You Date Your Ex's Lookalike? by olubode01(m): 11:49am On Nov 20, 2012
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