[color=#000099]bros take the job and u'll be okay. I served in Taraba in 2009 and i got job in Lagos but was transferred to Yola- Adamawa  State. I was latter moved to Taraba and i'm okay. The only thing is that get accommodation where the elites are living like GRA and do not follow there girls or be too religious. U'll surely come back to south. Above all, be vigilant and prayerful. Love u and God be with u. About ur parents, convince them to pray for u and mind u nobody can give u N20,000 EVERY MONTH.[/color]