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Good day all. Look beyond my typing errors please. I'm really confused at the moment so I decided to share this here, so as to gather more suggestions. (Please read carefully)


I'm a 20 year old guy. I stay with my mom and little sister. I lost my dad at the age of 10. I registered for JAMB this year, but I couldn't write it because I was 1 hour late to the exam center. I live in Owerri and my center was mbeiri. I couldn't check my center before the exam day because I had no money on me. So that made me to miss the exam. I never told my mum the truth because she's hypertensive, rather I told her I didn't reach the cut off mark.

As a science student, I want to study Computer Science in the University. ( I WANT TO MAJOR IN CYBER SECURITY)

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Truth be told, I want to read the course because that's what my spirit said I should do. (I have no primary experience about Coding or Programming) I don't even have a laptop but I'll soon get one by his grace. I've been getting discouraged by what I do read here about studying the course in Nigeria. I don't know how true it is.

There is this FUTO certification program that is being advertised on the school website (futo.edu.ng). I don't know if it's real or fake. Please I suggest you guys should check it out before I enroll for the program. After making enquires from some contacts I found on the website, I decided to register for FUTO Cisco Certification Program. It cost about 33k or so. I don't have the funds now, but I'm confident I'll pay for it before July.

Another thing is this, I can't stand to watch my mum go to the market everyday (6:00AM - 6:00PM) just to make sure we put something in the mouth. She sells charcoal in the market at daytime, while she sells banana in front of our house during night hours and after that she will comeback to complain that the money is too small to feed us. ( She has suffered a lot)

So I decided to follow our neighbor that's a builder or into building construction (The man knows almost everything about building/labouring work. (Iron bender, Carpenter, Bricklayer, Job work and so many others) To see if I can learn one or two things so I might at least be of help to the family. He asked if I wanted to learn it for the money(only labouring) or for passion(all aspects of building) My mum choose the later. Now am planning on how to reserve it and tell him the former(only labouring) because I don't see the reason why I won't be paid after working. For instance: 1 bag = 700/800. If am to work 1 bag (I can do 2 or 3 bags for now) for 7 days, 700/800 × 7 = 4900/5600. Then multiply it in a month. (21,000/24,000) I think that would really help in the family.

The first day we went to site, I learnt iron bending, how to measure, cut and bending of iron. Next, I also did my first job work(worwor) 2 bags of cement, chippings and sand. It wasn't funny bro, I almost fainted. All my fingers peeled like cassava. It was a fence work, the pillars and cap. Infact, I regretted it that very moment but later picked courage after much pressure from my mum. I've worked for 4 days now(Wednesday, Thursday, Friday & Monday) and am yet to receive any penny


Since last week, I've been following the man to site(8:00AM - 4:00PM) I told my mum I want to be taking tramadol so I can be able to work faster but she discourages me because of the side effects and maybe addiction. I've promised to buy it from any nearby chemist shop no matter what, (if am to start labouring job full-time) because I don't want to be receiving peanuts while my mates are doing far better.

To say I've been a lot, is an understatement (believe me). I did Lotto work last year, August - October. Could you believe I did not eat one naira from my salary? Infact my last salary (10% of my total sales of the month) before I quit was #75,000. I did not receive #1 from the white (Lebanese) people, they said I am to balance them. (I don't play credit neither do I play games for my self) maybe it's from the people that do come to collect change. I just left in peace. God knows best.



I need your suggestions now on these issues below:

1. Should I tell him that I want to focus only on the labouring job (not all building aspects) so I can save up and register for the certification program? (Can I still register for other certifications majoring cybersecurity without any knowledge of codes or programming? (I'm considering this)

2. Should I forget about the program stuff and stick to the labouring job full time so as to make more cash?



If at all I should forget about the certification program (God forbid) and focus on the labouring job, will I later regret it in life?

If I should forget about the labouring job and enroll for the program, how are we going to survive in this harsh weather?.


Thanks for reading.

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