my dear i wil speak to u frm experience. marriage is nt sometin to jump into. ot requires prayer. no matter aw gentle a man is during courtship, he wil stil exhibit some traits in marriage u never believed he had during courtship. there is alyws ds urge to wanna settle down quickly cos our biological clock is tickling fast bt my dear its wen u enter u wil knw dt u r at d mercy of the man.

its better n safer to marry late n av peace of mind than to jump in n start telling stories that touch d heart.
as for ur ex, u a. seen enof red signals. a man dt can do introduction wit anoder lady n dump him wil do worse to u
as for sammy, he is jst a time waster. some guys r lyk dt. they wil hold unto u n yet they wil nt let u go. dnt fall for u. its a scam
finally, none of the two options is gud for u.
a word is enof for d wise.
we dnt want another version of mr lekan shonde n his late wife.
God help women in marriage.
i rest my case.

someone once said wat happend to Abacha wil eventually happen to Bro Buhari. lets jst wait n c aw God wil fight for us in ds nation

i must really say that this thread is very essential especially for would be brides like us to know what to expect in marriage so that when we finally find ourselves in it we would know how to handle some issues. God bless the iniator of this thread

Reiyvinn:

this is the largest load of drivel I've ever seen.

How do u mean?

Huuummm, I was once a victim of being cheated on by my bf.before then he used to tel me aw much he loves me.I just don't knw aw a guy can claim he luves u and yet stl cheat on u.thou he has asked for my forgiveness BT I stl doubt d sincerity of his luv.
Show me a guy who doesn't cheat or has never cheated n I will tel u such exist only in heaven