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Career / School Entrance Examinaton by ONYEKAfra(m): 11:36am On Jan 09
I want my daughter to change her school, do performance issues, that I am not satisfied.
So, I took her to another school for entrance examination.
She did the test and I was told she failed their entrance exams
As such, the school wants to place her in Jss 2, instead of Jss 3.

But I am doubting the process,
that the school want her more for the money,
What kind of question that is ideal for entrance examination,
Or they want to show that their standard is better.

Considering paying 130k per term.
I am thinking of finding her extra lesson teacher would be better than waste a whole one year and money.
House, what do you think
Properties / Building Two Bed Room And A Mini Flat, by ONYEKAfra(m): 2:19pm On Sep 12, 2023
Please house, what budget can one have in mind to build two bed room and mini flat at Abraka, Delta State to roofing level.
Builder in house, kindly advice.

How many block estimate, each N300 and Land available
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Who Knows If This Company Exist In Lagos by ONYEKAfra(m): 8:39pm On Apr 12, 2023
Run

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Romance / Expenses At Home Between Husband & Wife by ONYEKAfra(m): 10:55am On Jan 30, 2023
Please house do one manage expenses at home, the man working , while wife have shop
what area would the man or woman cover
Three children presently in private school
Kindly share your mind
Jobs/Vacancies / Monthly Salary Of A Job In 1300 Usd by ONYEKAfra(m): 5:07pm On Oct 04, 2022
1300 USD JOB
Please how do you advises on taking a job of 1300 USD on three month training outside Nigeria
On coming back to Nigeria contract would renew to permanent

Kindly advice

Thanks
Jobs/Vacancies / Gross Salary Of A Job by ONYEKAfra(m): 4:24am On Apr 26, 2022
My gross salary , telephone money was included.
But, My Company have stop paying it
Is it a breach of contract of employment.
Also an Increment of salary was done to all staff,
But my was later remove, that I am not in Union

Please kindly advise me
Romance / Re: Am I Not Making A Mistake? by ONYEKAfra(m): 6:17pm On Mar 07, 2022
i am from that side. It is not true.
what would happen is this,
The girl father family have to pay the price
Else, the girl bride price would be paid to mother family
that is the tradition .
Ask her what is the meaning of Aje sir or Oto ofe, ime ife then you know I am from there

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Jobs/Vacancies / Job Advice Needed by ONYEKAfra(m): 10:14pm On Mar 03, 2022
Please kindly advise me on this situation
i have been working in company for four now, construction company in port Harcourt.
They have been deducting my pension and no remittance
My employment letter says, two pay in liu of notice either ways.
Now they have been looking for way to sack me, due to company low turnovers.,
of which one Chinese told me

If I should resign , i will not get two months salary in liu of notice, and my pension deduction, i may have issue collecting all.
But if I am sack, i can sue for pension, employer and employee deduction, including interest.

kindly look at it and advise me friends
Jobs/Vacancies / Argon Welder Needed by ONYEKAfra(m): 6:14pm On Nov 10, 2021
Vacancy for Argon welder, around Ogba, Ikeja axis
Send Cv to onyeka@vitalproductsplc.com
Family / Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by ONYEKAfra(m): 7:55pm On Jan 08, 2021
As a man, things like this should be avoided.
Do not visit in law to be empty handed. This is Nigeria
If you do not have anything on you, make the visit short.
If they give you kola, do not take
Try to avoid it and leave in style, If you must drink, kola should be reciprocated.

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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Organizational Management And Union Chairman Conflict by ONYEKAfra(m): 6:09am On Dec 15, 2020
what is the reason for the threat
Please, explain. No smoke without fire
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Organizational Management And Union Chairman Conflict by ONYEKAfra(m): 8:45am On Dec 10, 2020
Is the union chairman under production
Romance / Re: She Said She Can't Marry Me Because I Am A Tailor by ONYEKAfra(m): 4:06am On Apr 29, 2020
Never chase a butterfly, mend your garden and the butterfly will comes"
Crime / Re: Woman Accuses St Raphael Hospital Ikorodu Of Stealing One Of Her New Born Twins by ONYEKAfra(m): 7:44pm On Apr 28, 2020
when my wify did scan. we were told that the baby was one
But on delivery. one came out while placenta never come
I was some how afraid, knowing what would happen afterward.
Lo and behold another baby.

I do not trust some of these scan

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Crime / Re: Woman Accuses St Raphael Hospital Ikorodu Of Stealing One Of Her New Born Twins by ONYEKAfra(m): 5:23am On Apr 28, 2020
How, your husband was not around there
Properties / Cost Of Plastering A Two Bed Room Flat by ONYEKAfra(m): 5:42pm On Apr 27, 2020
Dear friend in the house,
I need the estimate/cost of plastering a two bed room flat and a room & parlor self contain in Agbara area of Lagos/ Ogun state

Thanking you
Romance / Re: Runs Girls Are Getting Better Husbands Than Church Girls - Lady by ONYEKAfra(m): 5:24am On Apr 23, 2020
Never chase a butterfly, mend your garden and the butterfly will comes".
A great future doesn't require a great past".


"The moon taught me it's okay to go through phases.

The sun taught me that no matter how many times I go down, keep on rising".


Don't you agree?

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Family / Re: Lesson And Experience With My Wife And His Elder Brother, Kindly Advice by ONYEKAfra(m): 5:02am On Apr 23, 2020
Lack of boundaries invites lack of respect.”


In life, you do not get what you deserve.
You get what you believe, expect & you deserve what you tolerate!

People will only treat you the way you invite and allow them to treat you.

"The way we treat ourselves sets the standard for others".
No one can take advantage of you without your permission.

We are all here equal! We all have value to share.
Never treat yourself less than others & never put anyone on a pedestal!

The most difficult thing in life is to know our worth!

People who have high standards, a high self-esteem, who love & value themselves, will never tolerate abuse, rudeness, & being taken for granted.

We have to set healthy & loving boundaries for other people of how we want & expect to be treated.

"In business as in life you do not get what you deserve, you get only what you negotiate”.

When we are offered terms that do not meet what we want, or we are treated less than what we deserve; we have to be able to walk away and mean it.

That means that you should walk away and never look back from everything & everyone who violate yourself, your standards and your dignity!

Respect is earned~.

Wish you a peaceful day & night~.
Romance / Re: Runs Girls Are Getting Better Husbands Than Church Girls - Lady by ONYEKAfra(m): 4:44am On Apr 23, 2020
When there are many brothers in your church to marry, you are looking for signs of wealth like good jobs, car, throw money everywhere.
You do not want start small, but big time. You want arrive once and for all/ So that people would clap and hail you. You want already made.
Riches can fade away.
If you marry somebody because of good job and after a while, the job is no more, what would happen.
If you marry somebody because of good car and after a while, the car is no more, what would happen.
If you marry somebody because of good house and after a while, the house is no more, what would happen.

Nothing is permanent in life
So Look for someone you can plan life, focus and future together
wealth have wings, it can fly and after your LOVE FLY. Read the book of psalms very well in your Bible
Career / Urgent job Idea by ONYEKAfra(m): 9:47am On Apr 21, 2020
Dear HR Professional,
How much annual leave for an employee that have spent Nine Months entitled to by law in an annual calendar and when can I take it?
Romance / Re: Is She Right by ONYEKAfra(m): 7:21pm On Apr 14, 2020
I just finished discussing my observations with her, by asking to tell the reason She made such comment to her husband: Who is talking to you.
No good reason, but I see the level of her respect for her husband
Though, I advice her on how not to do that again

Am I taking side
Romance / Is She Right by ONYEKAfra(m): 3:03pm On Apr 14, 2020
Friends,
I visited my younger sister in her matrimonial home. So, we were discussing and I noticed these:
1) Her husband was contributing to our discussing, what I heard from my sister was : Who is talking to you. I felt it though, but i discovered her husband no longer talk to her, to the extend of serving food himself

2) My sister would allow me browse with phone, but her husband. Immediately her husband want to use the phone, my sister would just come dragging it

How you see it. Should I talk to them
Family / Re: Lesson And Experience With My Wife And His Elder Brother, Kindly Advice by ONYEKAfra(m): 8:10am On Mar 12, 2020
I have sat her down and discovered something;
1. she want to show up that it is well with us
2. Not defining boundaries
3. Not practicing what she preach. Sometime I would buy pop corn for the children and she would be asking for hers. Saying Do I prefer the kids more than her. I reply no that your Ice cream is in the fridge
Family / Lesson And Experience With My Wife And His Elder Brother, Kindly Advice by ONYEKAfra(m): 12:22pm On Mar 10, 2020
Hello friend, one never know the kind of wife he married until situation show up

My wife's elder brother came to stay with me for Job, so I fix him up in where I work as a temporary staff
To my surprise, my wife abandon me, diverted all attention to his brother.
I normally got home around 10 pm everyday and my wife would just go and sleep, my food will be in the kitchen
Sometimes, she will give me food, no water. I will take it my self.

But when his brother came, She start serving him food, provide water in glass and stay with him late in the night, talking and gist till late in the night

When he would be going to work, she wake up and would escort him around 4 am

My surprise, they normally gave her milk from church, she would hid them for me not see and take
But now, her staying with me, she would gave him the milk, the left over bread I normally take, gave him. I never talk
His brother started sleeping in our office in order to reduce expenses, since I normally pay the fare and feed him in office, since he just start

Today as I am going to work, my wife quickly woke up, prepare rice and put in cooler, that I should gave to his brother,
Then I ask why she was doing that. She said to reduce expenses on me
I reply No, I do not carry rice because since i married her for almost years, she never gave rice to work. why should I carry rice to her brother
She said I am jealous

Kindly advice me in handling the issue

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Jobs/Vacancies / Urgent Job Idea by ONYEKAfra(m): 2:24pm On Jul 30, 2019
Good afternoon Everyone,



How is work and family, fellow Nairalanders



Please i need your take on this:



I left a company some Month ago. I did my clearance and everything needed.



The company also paid me my entitlement



But yesterday I got call fro my former HR/



He started by saying If i am surprised that he called. that He want to know where I am working now.



So, is it wise to tell him
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Appointment Letter Urgent by ONYEKAfra(m): 4:07pm On Jun 06, 2019
So that I can know my basic pay, how the salary is distributed, tax to pay, pension,transport, feeding etc
Jobs/Vacancies / Appointment Letter Urgent by ONYEKAfra(m): 1:55pm On Jun 06, 2019
please is it proper to have salary breakdown to be done after employment confirmation. as well as
Vacation/leave to come after confirmation of employment .What is the implication of receiving job offer with basic breakdown till after confirmation
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Net Salary And Consolidated Salary Negotiation Offer. Urgent by ONYEKAfra(m): 6:00am On Jun 04, 2019
NGO
Jobs/Vacancies / Net Salary And Consolidated Salary Negotiation Offer. Urgent by ONYEKAfra(m): 10:48pm On Jun 03, 2019
Please, who knows the difference between Net salary and consolidated salary in an offer letter. urgent
Health / Re: Ask Me Anything On Drugs And Supplements by ONYEKAfra(m): 7:23pm On May 29, 2019
essential forte what is the use
Health / Re: Ask Me Anything On Drugs And Supplements by ONYEKAfra(m): 11:25pm On May 27, 2019
A Doc recommended essential forte for me.

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