tnx all, i have report her to my parent and they have talk to her and asked me to change her sim. that if after that she dudnt stop, she will have to go bak to her parent.

MarvellousGod:
Your wife isn't even sorry for her behaviour, rather she's keeping malice with you.. chaii, I really feel for you op..

Why don't you settle things with your wife instead of confronting the guy?

Then, why isn't your wife staying with you? Is the situation unavoidable? If not, please make provisions to start staying together. . Long distance marriage isn't advisable. .

All d best, just calm down....

she is in her final year, till she finished school before she can come n live with me permanently, i do talk to her, asked her if she love me and she always says yes, den stop all these, she wil promise to stop, am having greats headache, as per DNA don't know how to do dar n d cist i heard us huge. tnx all

theunusualmoon:
Perhaps you should start by doing a DNA test. Some long distant relationships only produce "long distance babies".

You also didn't need to yank the phone off her.The best way to be sure you're not mistaken is to give her a lot of freedom...

Women are smarter than men when it comes to cheating so you need to up your game.The fact that she still relates with an admirer even after marriage means all is not well.

for the baby, everytime i do ask her uf am d owber and she always swear that an the owner.
i do create time for her, anytime i went out i will make sure i buy those things she live for her, always caressing her, touch her and play with her, so i dont knw why she is doing this. and a friend suggest i call her mom and tel her but i dont know if that is the best way

Good day my people,
my wife gave birth to my first child 4minths ago,before then we dated for about 3years but on distance relationship.
now she came to spend Holiday with me with my baby.
she do receive strange calls, i warned her about some numbers i do see on her phone, though the guy is her toaster while we were dating then. i asked her to delete the number, unknowingly they still talk on phone wen am not around.
A guy called yesterday and she was receiving the call though she is not speaking comfortably but responding with okay, ehn, hunmm, i heard etc. so i collected the phone and asked who is speaking, the guy responded with his name, i said do u know she is married, the guy later apologise and i cut the phone and talk sense into my wife head, later the guy called to asked her if am angry and she said no. my wife now keeps malice with me and did not even talk with me.
this night, the number i asked her to delete called but i didn't pick it, after 2minuted i called back and he refused ti pick nor call back, am planning to call the guy with my personal line to know who he is and whats between him and my wife. please kindly advice me. thanks

what is the next move or best thing to do if your house wife deny you sex without any reason.

pls i design a website on local server a month ago, just remain to host it, but unfortunately my system contaced virus which affects all my files including my xampp.
now am trying to design a new one. i downloaded xampp and word press. after the installation, i want to install the plugin (Sympossium), it says the file exceed the upload_max_....... which i later corrected, another problem arise after the installing when i want to activate it, it says it could not be activated, it triggered a fatal error. pls kindly assist me. thanks

pls i design a website on local server a month ago, just remain to host it, but unfortunately my system contaced virus which affects all my files including my xampp.
now am trying to design a new one. i downloaded xampp and word press. after the installation, i want to install the plugin (Sympossium), it says the file exceed the upload_max_....... which i later corrected, another problem arise after the installing when i want to activate it, it says it could not be activated, it triggered a fatal error. pls kindly assist me. thanks

pls i design a website on local server a month ago, just remain to host it, but unfortunately my system contaced virus which affects all my files including my xampp.
now am trying to design a new one. i downloaded xampp and word press. after the installation, i want to install the plugin (Sympossium), it says the file exceed the upload_max_....... which i later corrected, another problem arise after the installing when i want to activate it, it says it could not be activated, it triggered a fatal error. pls kindly assist me. thanks

gud day my people.
pls i design a website on local server a month ago, just remain to host it, but unfortunately my system contaced virus which affects all my files including my xampp.
now am trying to design a new one. i downloaded xampp and word press. after the installation, i want to install the plugin (Sympossium), it says the file exceed the upload_max_....... which i later corrected, another problem arise after the installing when i want to activate it, it says it could not be activated, it triggered a fatal error. pls kindly assist me. thanks

Gud day my people,
pls i have been in deep think as i wish to upload my website (social)
the problem is
how can i upload it easily to avoid hackers,
what will i need and how much will it cost me to finish every thing.
Note: someone said i shud use cpanel.
i rely on the gurus here. pls advice me on how to go about it.
i have finish designing the site. thanks

thorpido:
Are you saying the parents want his wedding and that of the cousin to hold at the same day and venue?

yea, u got it right.

Gud day my people.
A friend of mine has been holding huge disagreement with his parent to the extend of moving out. whats the cause?
he has a cousin sister from mother side who wil wed late dis year, the parent decided to combine them together which my guy detest. saying if they cant separate the ceremony he is nit ready for any marriage.
whats your view on this (marriage combination)?
what do u advice my guy?

joyblinks:
@OP. I hope she isn't a scam sha. Be very carefull of Nigerians.

tnx, i was also afraid of such, but i dnt tink she is. i met her dis morning and i have told her to find way of relocating to any of her sisters house and i have called her sisters friend to handle d rest which she gave me her contact

baby124:
i agree, record him threatening her for it. Call her sister and meet with her sister and the girl then play the recording for the sister. You and the sister can agree to help her get accommodation and a job. I commend you for helping a stranger God bless you. Because you may not be on this earth tomorrow and your daughter may be in this situation. Please don't take advantage of the girl. God will reward you richly. Try and buy her some small toiletries like tooth brush, tooth paste, sponge, soap, body lotion and some deodorant so she can look ok tomorrow.

tnx so much, i will tell her to stand up for her self, on my way to her hotel now. or she tell any of her relatives

Good day my people. i need your advice on this:
I was in a bus going home by 9:45pm, suddenly i noticed this girl crying behind me, but hiding her feelings, passengers were alighting at their various bus stop but dis girl never make attempt of coming down, suddenly her phone rang and she picked, their conversation goes:
girl: friend tanks for calling, at least u encourage me if not i would av kill my self
friend: (cant hear from her)
girl: this is d first time i will dress like this(wearing trouser) i don't dress like dat at home. *phone cut*
after some few minute, i still notice her crying
I apologise for intrude, and ask if she can speak with me which she concur, we both alighted at my bus stop. i took her to d nearest bar, i bought her malt to cool her self.
after long conversation she made me realize that she is staying with her sister but her husband sister is trying to have carnal knowledge of her but she refused which turn to wahala. now the sister husband is beating his wife and threatening to do the thing with dis girl by force.
now she has run away from house to her older sister(they are not in good terms since demise of their mom) house (far from where she is staying) for a week but the sister she is staying with has been calling her to bring her money because she is selling for her.
1. she dont want to tell her sister whats her husband is trying to do
2. she cant go home because of her sister husband.
she doesn't know any where to sleep so as to meet her sister the second day to give her the money and don't know if to continuing staying there, and if she will be staying what should be her action.
i have to lodge her in a nearby hotel so as to meet her tomorrow morning to discuss way out because its already late by 11:45pm, i will go and meet her tomorrow, please what can i advice her to do. thanks.

am very grateful to u all, u really make me happy cos av learnt a lot from d comments n advice. tnx

thanks to u all for ur advice and contribution, she dont even allow me to av private discussion wit my girl dat we might end up having sex which may affect the baby and my girl is not even comfortable anymore because she wish to sit with me and discuss which she now find difficult. d baby is not up to a month is the breastfeeding formula good( morning and evening). tnx

Good day to you all.
pls i count on you all to put me through this:
Am a young guy just finish service and looking unto God for employment but still leave under my parent assisting my mun in her shop.
i have a girl we both love each other and both parent were aware of it, she is still in 300L, suddenly my girl got pregnant which make her sad and i advised her to leave it cos i don't encourage abortion, our parent accept dia faith and my girl mum promised to rake care til she delivered so my mum will continue the rest. Thank God she delivered peacefully a beautiful baby girl and my parent accepted her.
the problem now is my mum she overdo everything and don't agree to what my girl n my sister decide to do like baby friending (only breastfeeding til 6months before giving water) and any suggestion i brought she will never accept it DAT we should leave her to do whatever she likes which always made my girl to cry as her mother in law always go against her wish. it almost cause fight btw me and my mum til i stop looking dia way, i just leave them and stop saying anything patterning to the child.
my girl has start exam this week, having two papers every day starting from 9am til 5pm so my girl leave home by 8am and come back by 6pm because of the distance hoping to finish in two weeks but my mum never allowed her to take the child to school that she Will be looking after her till she come back, so my girl wil only breastfeed her morning and evening which she is not happy about but under compulsion. pls my people is the breastfeeding normal such way? and pls advice me on what to do in my nun aspect.
thanks

i thought i should just call her and asked her whats today's date and wen she realise, i should just say, ok bye. or what do u people sugest

Good day palzz.... pls i wish u could advice me on what to do, Today is my Birthday and i know my girlfriend knows, because we were talking a day and i asked her if she know my Birthday and she said yes and said it because i bear same date with her cousin according to her. she did not call to say Happy Birthday to me this morning, she only call this morning as a usual call and am expecting her to say Happy Birthday but she didn't till we hung the phone. no text message also. pls is it right or what did u advice me to do because i know her birthday and i am waiting to congratulate her (February is her Birthday). thanks.

is it true that we need to regularize our jamb registration number in a cafe, pls kindly put me through, tanx

pals tanx very much with ur advice am so happy, in line with my post last wekk that my girlfriend and i had disagreement after that she called me which i refuse to pick, i later called her she also refuse to pick my call, now she has picked my call and we have settled the dispute, now she call me to say hi and i also call her to hear her voice. pls this is where u will have to put me through so that i wont fall a victim or play childish. pls advice me on how many times i should be calling her a day and what if i call her and she didnt pick my call may be busy or something else, should i wait for her to flash or call back before i could call her?. thanks so much need ur advice so that i will be the one on control. tanx

she was the one who is at fault instead she should apologize when i picked her call she didnt, pls u should tell me the things to do to bring up the relationship to the best one because i cant go to the state she is now till february.

Good day my people. Me and my girlfriend had disagreement for a week no one call each other, after she went to my friend and complain about my attitude towards her, my friend call me to call and apologize with her because am not in the same state with my girlfriend. later she called me on phone but i refused to pick her call, d second day she called i pick the call and she said she just want to say hi and she cut the phone. the third day, she call but i was busy then, wen i later picked the call after 5missed calls from her, she shouted at me that she is not begging me to pick her call but why dont i tell her her offence instead of telling my friend what she did not do and she cut the phone, the third day i called her to settle the grudges because i cant hold it again, i have start missing her but she did not pick my call. pls i need ur advice.

what if i call her and she did not pick it and she did not call or flash back what shud i do?, or if she flash back, will i call her. tanx

tanx to u all, some advice me to call her today and settle with her, is that the right thing to do? if its the right thing cos of my inexperience how do i go about it so as not to spoil all the advice u gave me. tanx very much

k, tanx very much.

tanx very much, the problem now is that we are not in the same state now. till February before i can be able to go to the state she is.

i dont even call her but hardly before i pick her call when she call, she will now say she dont even knw i will pick her call that she just want to say hi, last night she call uncontrollably wen i pick it she said she is not begging me to pick her call but why dont i tell her her offence instead of telling my friend what she did not do and she cut the phone. pls i dont understand and i dont tell my friend anytin

tanx very much, but i leave in Ajangbadi, is there no any other human right around Ajangbadi or u kindly give me numbers of the one u said or their contacts address. tanx

Good day to you all patriotic citizen. pls kindly assist me in this issue, we have only one bathroom in our compound, my landlady daughter want to take her bath a day but she met my water there which means i have to bath before her which i did but the girl was crying that she has to bath before me and am already late in office. when i came back in the night, my landlady just call me and give me quit notice that by ending of this December i have to pack my load out of her house that she want to repair the house. and now i dont have any place to stay for now, i plead with the woman, i sent people to also did that on my behalf but she insist, pls what should i do. thanks