I met my husband on line.I was searching for Nigerians in my country for my business so all of them left tel numbers for me.only my husband left yahoo ID and number too.as I dont wanted to communicate with them on phone I prefer to replay only to him.this is how we started.one more queer thing is that.the day we were going to meet each other I saw one black guy standing very close to the cafe we made an appointment.so I thought he is the one.went to meet the guy took him to the cafe and started asking why he is using somebody's pix for on line.he deny that he is not the one just giving me some nonsense reasons.after some min my husband to be lols started calling and giving me apologize that he is late .u must see my face and my voice when I was asking him who is the one sitting around me. tnx God that everything finished with wedding.

I really feel for you.May God help you to bear it.One things I cant understand why ppl get married if they have not finished with their ex.what is the meaning of this.they spoil their own life and affect others life too.what is the child's fault.I have the same problem with my husband.his ex never allow my mind to rest.for all of this I blame my husband.he must finish with her first.after get married.its not good at all but seems its very common in Nigeria.I pray for you and for my marriage too.I dont want to finish like you.