HALIX16:


The man deserved it. To be sincere, this woman is a good one and rare to find. Shows she is only interested in having a good home. This is so so spot on! Better woman! The man is silly and got what he deserved.

TippyTop:
The military would be on a failed mission if all they're planning to do is just to intimidate.
Until the underlying problem of resource control is revisited there won't be peace.

Anyway the more innocents they kill in the ND the easier it is for the militants to recruit.

hemartins:
Hmmmm.

Those days in Uniben, guys would be calling for protest like "make we dey go"
And I would be on my bed replying
"On make una dey go, I dey come"


I never risk any protest be it peaceful or chaotic.

blueto:
where are those Zombies that colluded with APC to formerly and incipiently lambasted Diezani for utilizing private jets with “redundant” cost, thus not being frugal with expending public funds?

Why are they mute and failing to lambaste the APC's govt over the defalcation of public funds by even transcending beyond that of GEJ's administration via having a perennial contract with copious amount of funds to enable him bask in the prerogative of maintaining an unconstrained access to luxurious private Jets? .

APC is a party of rebarbative sybarites.

Okijajuju1:



For you to call a federal marriage license "just a paper" shows you have no idea what you are talking about.

I advice you to keep quiet and learn from this thread.. A federal marriage license is more than just a piece of paper. Ask men who have suffered the consequence how powerful that paper really is.

macfarland:
Is like dis apc of a party don't get it even if u do election 100 times in rivers stata as long as d election is free and fair apc can never win...SS and SE pple have taken a stand never to have anything to do wit apc so d sooner apc understand dis d better for us all for d sake of peace...is like apc don't know how deep d hate SS\SE have for dat party to even make things worst d confused president call Buhari is not even helping matters wit d hardship he is making Nigerians go thru...wit d way Buhari is going am very sure apc will not be in Aso Rock come 2019 dats when Nigerians will know d corruption under dis Buhari govt...all dis talk about Buhari integrity don't move me dis man don't have any integrity dis is a man Amaechi spent rivers state money to get him to Aso Rock I guess d 5Billion is part of d money Amaechi spent on his election dats wat he is paying back...Mr integrity president...integrity my foot

Truckpusher:
Amaechi can receive the entire Nigerian treasury to rig but we will burn this state down and ensure we burn alongside with it the entire economy.

This fulani iidiot will learn a bitter lesson from this our generation, we've got nothing to lose.

Stupedinluv:
I laugh when i hear some people say she is their role model. She is so clueless she doesn't even know where she belongs.

Hers is a classic case of "Do with me whatever you will"

Okijajuju1:
Only foolish women will accept this fuckery of a suggestion.


SO you marry her under customary laws and leave the woman with no rights or legal protection whatsoever.. You can kick her and the kids out whenever you please and keep all your money and leave her high and dry abi?

Or when you die, you leave her at the mercies of your family to determine what portion of your asset she gets or not abi?

Of you can marry more wives and add to her and she cant do shit about it abi?

Or you can cheat on her with no consequences abi?

This is rubish cos the thinking of the woman is because she has a paper from court she can hold the man to ransom, don forget its just a paper dat can be nulified at any time.Court marriage does not garantee the lady anything. Is only love dat can garantee u .






This Thread is the dumbest thread of the year..

Women, If your Husband wants to marry you, let him do court marriage first to show he is serious before una even go do traditional.


The only protection a married woman has in Nigeria is her Court Marriage license.

Moppsys:
Hi guys, I just want your honest advice as I am new here

My boyfriend recently broke up with me, I really love him (deeply) and he claimed he loved me too. we dated before 4years ago and we got back together in June 2015. Things has been going well between us, he introduced me to all his family and extended and marriage plans were on the way.He promised me marriage ( Don't get me wrong he did not propose) but we talk marriage everyday, future plans, we have planned the wedding and even started looking at venue. We were already planning on getting our first house together, deposit etc.. and things are all in place.
unfortunately he caught me checking his phone (He has been flirting with other girls) and I set him up, even though he played right into my hands he found out that set him up and he got really annoyed and told his family about it and said he needs time to think about the relationship because I invaded his privacy and set him up and for that reason he is not safe with me.

few days later he came back saying he owe me an apology that when we got back together last year it was not genuine, he was bored, he was pressured to get married and he saw that I was available at the time based on my predicament (I came out of an hurtful marriage) so he felt like he should just be with me since we have dated before.

I felt really hurt and used, even though it was my fault for checking his phone I begged him to take me back but he refused, I have been struggling to deal with the pain as I do not want to lose him.
I have been cursing him everyday ( as long as he lives unless he comes back to beg me, he will never experience true love from a woman every again) because he failed in his words and I felt like he used me for those reasons he gave.

please am I right in cursing him or should I just leave him and let him be, I really love him and I am hurting, because he failed to address the fact that he was flirting and his family are so biased as well

xtervaganza:
She brought a guy home? Are you joking?



You have to be joking. I'm married and if my wife comes home with another man I'll kill the man 1st before throwing her out



I would never chest kn her though

sapiosexual1:
Sentiments aside, oshiomole has underperformed in his 8yrs. Edo deserves someone better, they deserve a change of governing party.

Macclane:
Uncle and anty, if you know you used this exercise in your primary or secondary school, biko, pkease go and marry, its owk.

Angelberry:
Until they trace Ameachi and Fashola loot, I am not impressed

Helloflife:
We started dating last year november.
We haven't gone intimate yet and he doesn't even pressurize me.
Truth is, i don't love him, and i think i made a mistake accepting to date him.
I've found out we have literally nothing in common.

Throughout our relationship, i've never said the word "i love you" to him.
He called last night and asked me if i love him and i couldn't give a direct answer cause i didn't want him to get hurt.

Dear romancelanders, whats the best way i could tell him how i really feel?

vague:
Uncle toks2008 you agemates are already sending their children to university and you are here creating nonsensical threads. Leave nairaland and go marry. If they are running away from you like veld fire, you may have to change your attitude towards them.

Charlieubochi:




The lady is clearly one of the gold digging women we see around. She is probably jobless and has a smelly attitude hence her singleness despite her "beauty" up till 32 years. You have no right to complain about a man that saved you from depression and has agreed to carry all that burden for the rest of his life. You should give him an award and get your head out of your ass because it's clear that's where it is.
FYI he probably has atleast two girlfriends. Just pray he doesn't divorce you while you still have your head stuck down there.
Bottomline: Apreciate what you have.

Dat he is ugly dies not mean she wasvd right man for her.Wat of if she was decieved.So many ugly men decieved the pretty ladies with marriage just to hook her up and use her to brag does not men he loves her.

Same with short man marrying a tall lady most times is to claim bragging rights that he has achieved wat a cute guy can.

Coldfeets:
Sorry babe. It's a pity. I can feel your pains because I cannot imagine myself getting married to an ugly girl.

Tufiakwa!

Unfortunately, there's nothing you can do about his ugliness. It's inbuilt and worse still, one or all of your kids is surely going to get 'ugly' gene except if your 'pretty' gene will over ride.

You should have thought about all these when age was on your side but you kept on doing inyanga.

Now, you see what you've done to yourself

For a temporary solution, you can help him do a plastic surgery but like I said it's still temporary.

Orikinla:
Dear Madam, Your God sent hubby is not ugly. Your problem is ungodly. You don't understand what is beauty in the ecosystem of nature. We think monkeys and apes are ugly, but if we all walk na-ked like them, the difference will not be much. What makes us different is God. What makes anyone ugly has to do with personal choice and ungodly character. The beautiful heart of your husband is what matters most to God.

chinedu23:
u don't know what Ladies are suffering all in the name of marriage, what am saying is this even those people u think that are better they are not truth is, many ladies will rather marry an ugly and loving man than to marry a hansom beast. flex or husband gul because u don't know what u have there.