austine4real:
Met a married woman on bado& we banged 2wks later. GOD 4give pls me o,cos it was afta d fvck i find out

Amberon:
we have a very similar situation. My bf who happens to be my best friend persisted and disturbed me for years, I finally gave in but I don't love him one bit. The thing is that he's crazy about me, before we started dating we'd sleep over at each other's houses a couple of times but he never touched me nor asked for sex. up till this day, he hasn't asked me for sex.

he's cute, dresses very very very well, neat and treats me like an angel. I told him countlessly that I didn't love him and couldn't date him but he came back begging and vowed that he must marry me. He even told everyone that we're engaged....

Anyways I made a promise to stick with him even tho I don't love him, after all the one I used to love didn't treat me well.

PS: before someone starts saying sh!t, I'm not dating him for money. I know I won't fall in love again, so I gave in simply because he loves and cherishes me, he's purpose driven and has good qualities which so many men lack. he also advises me like a sister.

coolsegun2002:
I still don't get why every one is saying it's too late...is it by force to stay in marriage...these are one of the major causes or domestic violence and murder..when pple marry for strange reasons like I'm getting old or its an opportunity I dnt wanna miss,or d guy is rich. Etc... my point is..she doesn't love d dude...she can always take a hike nd begin again...its not a good thing being someone u dnt love for crying out loud this a for ever, till death do us part transaction...how the hell do u even sleep with someone u dnt have feelings for...u be olosho??...babe waka from that relationship...uve made a mistake marrying him u don't have to live a mistake continously just cos u dnt wanna offend ur folks or u scared to start over...if u don't eventually fall in love with him..there will come a time u won't be able to stand his mere presence in the other room..and if care is not taken,u'll do something drastic just to to be free

missyadorable:
Thank GOD I got married before the year turns over

Any thread insulting single ladies no longer my business

Now,I can walk around with pride,my respect is complete

I have gotten the most prestigious title a woman should have in Africa "Mrs"

Now,its to have a son to add more value to my existence

YerYer:


Is isure trader a brokerage? If so why don't you log in yourself?

YerYer:


I wouldn't mind trading for u with commission if it was virtually possible and without implications. If I were to trade on your behalf, I will get taxed capital tax from any gains you make since I will be using my account. Besides, I can also get charged by the SEC for running an illegal brokerage without the necessary licenses.
In this world where people can share apartments (AirBnB) share cars (Uber) and many other things, I even tried to build a website that would allow folks in nigeria participate in the multi million dollar lotteries in the U.S for a small fee but when I contacted the lottery boards in Nigeria I was told it is illegal to operate a "Proxy bidding" site since its a conflict of interest to the local lotteries. So you see, some things aren't as easy as they should be, but I would suggest u ask others on nairaland how they opened their
brokerage accounts from naija.
Good luck.

all4naija:

It still all boils down to this medieval idea that has become a societal thing. There is no risk if not this attachment of guiltiness and fear like the one you just mentioned in your post. A guy can still change his mind during or after marriage. We have seen that many times but using sex as an excuse to define how a marriage is going to last or judge a guy's mind is completely incorrect. I have seen boyfriends and girlfriends who are closer than many married people. There are many marriages with quarrels about many things including sex and cheats here and there yet people want to use this insignificant religious idea to define both sexes living together as one for life.

Well, marriage is a cultural scheme of deceit that is supposed not to be mandatory at all. It is being forced on everybody. We have found out that the diamond rings people spend fortune on have no value at all. It is a scheme by De Beer to deceive people to buy them for a symbolic reason which haven't been nothing more than triviality.

I recommend it for both genders without carrying that guiltiness. It is not a risk at all excepting for those who are religious and insecure about their relationship. That even proves they are trying to find trust where there is none because they don't have trust at the beginning but just getting along and the reason they are afraid to have fun before the overrated ceremony called marriage!


many ladies think marriage is a gate way to security but the answer is hell no.Like my ex wife was dumped now she understands life better that marriage is not a ticket to a happy life, Its a closed parcel were u accept in good faith the contents.

In your last statement. Are you saying people use marriage to tie others down? It is still the same man that will dump a woman after marriage.