DrSage:
You went too far!
Itz obvious he's nt acting normal at all,you would have taken dz issue to his family members so dat dey could at least talk to him.
But alas,u beat up his supposed girl friend,u went just too far.

make u no make me vex here o.

teelady:
Ok am done reading, let say u grew to love the man u ar married to, and from the begining u were nt inlove. You ar a loyal and faithful wife,please remain that way. Your husby is in a serious infatuated relationship and u feel like breaking his head for such behaviour but i say dont. He is not in his right frame of mind right now and its obvious u dnt want to leave ur matrimonial home, woman be prayerful and dnt give him more excuse to berate u further. Y fight wit a girl he brought home....,she is nt worth it ok. Pls distract ursef from al this mess for nw, just focus on making ursef happy, takecare of ur kids, prove to ur husband that u didnt marry him out of choice bt for the fact that u also love him, pls no dulling take ursef out for a treat no old ursef. Be the person he once loved, love ursef and hopefully he would comeback to love u. IT MIGHT BE HARD FOR U TO BE PATIENT SINCE U ARE THE VICTIM, BUT BE GOOD,PATIENT AND PRAYERFUL. Pardon my poor spelling

Your counsel is so rich teelady.

You married a clown.....deal wt it （・∀・）

The woman is an i d i o t


She must have ''polished'' the man to impress her friends and family, Facebook friends and instagram pimps.

Now those you're trying to impress (girls) have taken their property. Deal with it!


This is the same way a girl changed my 'friend' to a complete drunkard. The girl indirectly insulted this guy, called him several names, including "Jew man," "weak man" etc., simply because the dude avoid alcohol. Today, the guy is completely into all kinds of hard liquor, spends huge amount on parties, drinks, etc. but the same witch who initiated this dude on campus won't stop complaining about his husband's reckless spending, late nights and infidelity.

Women who try to control their husbands end in regrets. Do not try to turn an introvert into an extrovert. If you don't like introverts, get yourself an extrovert or remain single. Don't force it, pls.

We all can not put on the attire of puff daddy, daddy showkey or Timaya.

(Materialism/Spiritualism) x Marriage = disaster. When how pple see you matters more than how God wants you to manage your relationship, result like these are not uncommon. For you to have been the one changing his wardrobe, you have lived a showy kinda lifestyle that has probably left nothing real in your body except packaging. Your man was not fooled for such to realize that you've spent the best part of your life b4 he married u and that he has only paid bride price for only packaging. Men misbehave too but they have conscience.

All you have left now is prayer and counseling. It's now time to get the horse back in front of the cart and move on with a patched wreckage.

This is what u get when u marry a MAN who is not born again... all u need is prayer.. call ur husband back by talking everytime. My dear use ur mouth n tongue well.

HungerBAD:
In the entirety of your story, not once was the word LOVE used. You never loved him, but AGE was on your side and that is the only reason you got married.

I feel no pity for you.

As in , you just nailed it. How did you figure that out?...Amazing!!!!

Op he had gone out of his right senses. should in case he finally realize himself and comes back, make sure you take him to a good laboratory and test him for hiv and other std. It wouldnt be easy but u need to be strong to takecare of ur kids.

Ur husband is just getting back at u for not interested in him in the first place, what he did is to make u have baby for him, then he had plans to suffer u, trust me, this is what some men can do, including me. Have promise to take my revenge on any lady that has no interest in me but because of marriage and age on her side, then marry me, I swear she will regret it. I will do more than ur husband, Op hey lady! U are the one at fault, and u will regret it, this is payback time.

From all indications, i suspect you had told him times without number that you never loved or even wanted to marry him.... He is trying hard to make sure you feel bad for taking him to be a "naive" husband.. Again, playing too hard to get makes things difficult when you finally throw in the towel. I just have one advice for you : take your attention away from him and his girlfriends, love your children more.... He will come back to you. Naturally, he wouldn't cheat on you, he wants to proof u wrong... That he can get hot chicks too even at his age.

Maybe he feels he can do better? Perhaps he has the feeling you never loved him, only just managing because of your initial age in marriage.. He could also be using it as an excuse.. Either way this is very typical, mid way in life, never marry because age is not on your side, it's even worse to let your husband know...

I know of a guy complaining bitterly of how his wife looks down on him, I guess she had like 10 calling her before marriage.. He is contemplating the same thing now.

This is one of the reasons why I always tell people to have courtship first before they marry the person. Courtship allows you to confirm if the person is right for you or not. Jumping into marriage is a terrible idea no matter what your parents say!

Something must have caused the man's change of behavior. I guess you won't tell us if you're at fault. You probably did something intentionally or unintentionally that made him feel fed up of the marriage. For him to bring another woman home without caring how you would feel or react, shows he's no more interested in you. In other words, the marriage is over.

No matter what you did, his actions are uncalled-for. He should have discussed his grievances with you, to somehow resolve the problem. Even if he's tired of the marriage, there're respectable ways to end it.

I don't know why you're still married him after all these. I'm still wondering why you're begging him after he cheated in your face.

This pay back time.The woman should say good by.I am also same situation 2.My wife gamble with me and other guys b4 wedding.Comparing me with some sugar daddies.

Now its good bye 2 her no goings back.i was only an option 4 age.

[b]like a friend above me said earlier,you need to have his head checked out at yabaleft thwn maybe pay for some horse whips so they can straighten him out[b/]

ConfessionsNgr:



Posted anonymously on www.confessionsnigeria.com
http://confessionsnigeria.com/post/120/help-my-husband-is-acting-funny

MAD MAN............
Fury Goat

Woman!!! you have brought all this upon yourself. When you were treating him badly just because he was showing you love no one hears complain from him now that your payback period ripe you can write here. What of those days you failed to cook for him that he sleeps at nite without food,what of days he needs just little assistance from you that you failed him,what of days you scolded him for not washing plates,clothes he has been washing for you. What of days you told him to go and eat outside that you can cook that nite just because he fails to cook since he arrives home before you after the day work. Madam you will not remember but you have exposed him to those that can do all these things for him and also pay him in kind. if you have a daughter tell her no gentle man. I have read it from your write up that you prefer a man you can ride. Don't forget that when you over ride a car it will turn to ride you on highway any day it break down. Sorry you have scattered your home only hope you have is to turn to God,tell him I have misused by chance please reverse back the time fore me to amend my way.

She got married under the influence of age pressure!... #smh

He woke up.

Prayers is all you need now... Fast, prayer, and consult your pastor if you have one .

The Lord is your strength.

ihatebuhari:
Kill him

Kant Infiltrate Limited Lives (KILL)

This is what happens wen u are desparete. U dont someone out of pity or age or case of desparate. U will surely rgret it..........

Marriage is not everything my dear...if the man is no longer interested pack your bags and go home with your kids...worst case scenario this man might murder you one day or infect you with an incurable virus...then had I known will come last.

Cutehector:
This is what happens wen u marry because age is not by ur side anylonger or u marry out of pity... Na ur fault be that

exactly. u took the words outta my mouth

hello my dear writer,

my question is, have you ever speak to your husband in rude manner or
telling him that you never wanted to marry him?

secondly, do you have any form of ego or pride towards your husband.?

if NOT, it means your husband has eaten vegetable or charmed by that bond woman.

you need to quickly go into prayer and fasting for you husband before before it is too late

and for with God all things are possible because it is not by physical fight, but spiritual.

the lord will fight for you and you will be victorious in Jesus name.
please do not leave him because you will be the angel God will use to set him free.

it is well with your soul.

osenidvdg:
Woman!!! you have brought all this upon yourself. When you were treating him badly just because he was showing you love no one hears complain from him now that your payback period ripe you can write here. What of those days you failed to cook for him that he sleeps at nite without food,what of days he needs just little assistance from you that you failed him,what of days you scolded him for not washing plates,clothes he has been washing for you. What of days you told him to go and eat outside that you can cook that nite just because he fails to cook since he arrives home before you after the day work. Madam you will not remember but you have exposed him to those that can do all these things for him and also pay him in kind. if you have a daughter tell her no gentle man. I have read it from your write up that you prefer a man you can ride. Don't forget that when you over ride a car it will turn to ride you on highway any day it break down. Sorry you have scattered your home only hope you have is to turn to God,tell him I have misused by chance please reverse back the time fore me to amend my way.

You live with them?

Men are useless shameless dogs... Even the riffraff that doesn't deserve you that you settled for....see how he treated you. lesson girl....if you settle for less than you deserve, you get less than you settled for.

miky:
Maybe he feels he can do better? Perhaps he has the feeling you never loved him, only just managing because of your initial age in marriage.. He could also be using it as an excuse.. Either way this is very typical, mid way in life, never marry because age is not on your side, it's even worse to let your husband know...

I know of a guy complaining bitterly of how his wife looks down on him, I guess she had like 10 calling her before marriage.. He is contemplating the same thing now.

so damn right.

Pray about it. God will chng his mind 4 good.

Acidosis:
The woman is an i d i o t


She must have ''polished'' the man to impress her friends and family, Facebook friends and instagram pimps.

Now those you're trying to impress (girls) have taken their property. Deal with it!


This is the same way a girl changed my 'friend' to a complete drunkard. The girl indirectly insulted this guy, called him several names, including "Jew man," "weak man" etc., simply because the dude avoid alcohol. Today, the guy is completely into all kinds of hard liquor, spends huge amount on parties, drinks, etc. but the same witch who initiated this dude on campus won't stop complaining about his husband's reckless spending, late nights and infidelity.

Women who try to control their husbands end in regrets. Do not try to turn an introvert into anth extrovert. If you don't like introverts, get yourself an extrovert or remain single. Don't force it, pls.

We all can not put on the attire of puff daddy, daddy showkey or Timaya.

too bad these daft girls aren't reading this. this practically happens to every dude who got married under these circumstances.

teelady:
Ok am done reading, let say u grew to love the man u ar married to, and from the begining u were nt inlove. You ar a loyal and faithful wife,please remain that way. Your husby is in a serious infatuated relationship and u feel like breaking his head for such behaviour but i say dont. He is not in his right frame of mind right now and its obvious u dnt want to leave ur matrimonial home, woman be prayerful and dnt give him more excuse to berate u further. Y fight wit a girl he brought home....,she is nt worth it ok. Pls distract ursef from al this mess for nw, just focus on making ursef happy, takecare of ur kids, prove to ur husband that u didnt marry him out of choice bt for the fact that u also love him, pls no dulling take ursef out for a treat no old ursef. Be the person he once loved, love ursef and hopefully he would comeback to love u. IT MIGHT BE HARD FOR U TO BE PATIENT SINCE U ARE THE VICTIM, BUT BE GOOD,PATIENT AND PRAYERFUL. Pardon my poor spelling

Great Job and a matured response as well.

This is the best advice for any lady in such a situation.

@OP, abide by the advice above, wishing u the best and keep hope alive.

dancok:
Ur husband is just getting back at u for not interested in him in the first place, what he did is to make u have baby for him, then he had plans to suffer u, trust me, this is what some men can do, including me. Have promise to take my revenge on any lady that has no interest in me but because of marriage and age on her side, then marry me, I swear she will regret it. I will do more than ur husband, Op hey lady! U are the one at fault, and u will regret it, this is payback time.

Isnt dat over-reacting?y nt let sleeping dogs lie?wat if in d midst of making her regret she remembers d old tenant @her apartment on connie island and turns it on u wout u knwing?who knws wat follows?watever is worth doing is worth doing well dey say...op u and ur hubby need Jesus seriously 4d sake of d kids,dnt shatter deir tender lives

OP from your storyline, you looked down on your husband at the inception and you only married him because your clock was running late already. To make matter worst, you have the audacity to let him know that he was the least you wanted to marry among the 3 men then. Now he realises this and he is paying you back. It is all your fault. You have to show him that he is the man you wanted to marry and love him, he will come back to you.