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Re: Help! My Husband Is Acting Funny! by otiigba1(m): 9:38am On Jul 04, 2015 |
Wedon:no need to jump to conclusions, we ve not heard the husbands side of the story, one would assume, While am accepting yes both parties give their commitments and its not always a bed of Roses |
Re: Help! My Husband Is Acting Funny! by Benoxvals(m): 9:44am On Jul 04, 2015 |
Shebi na you wan make your husband transform and trend like tweeter ...you have to welcome the transformation with open arms.. The man don dey trend pass Facebook self |
Re: Help! My Husband Is Acting Funny! by manie(m): 9:52am On Jul 04, 2015 |
manie: It is the wife who initially denied the husband sex for 6 months that is now reporting her husband or flat mate to her pastor, the husband family and colleagues that they have not had sex in close to 2 years. |
Re: Help! My Husband Is Acting Funny! by Femistico(m): 9:54am On Jul 04, 2015 |
So you married someone bcuz age is nt by ur side again and u also marry him out of pity... pls what really takes u long to getting married? u are still playing hard to get.. well, u caused it all...and who knows mayb one of the other two guyz would ave married u, if u behave well...well I fink dose guyz now will be making jest of u....u fu*ked up... nothing can be done..unless u pray and be ready to take a 2nd wife from ur hubby |
Re: Help! My Husband Is Acting Funny! by otiigba1(m): 9:55am On Jul 04, 2015 |
Joy1706:see advert o! i bet you must be expecting her to contact you, lawyer so you claimed.. a beg no sue me o! |
Re: Help! My Husband Is Acting Funny! by otiigba1(m): 9:59am On Jul 04, 2015 |
Op your husband i suspect is, in a deep slumber, urinate on his head and he will wake up.. problem solved |
Re: Help! My Husband Is Acting Funny! by mazerunner(m): 10:05am On Jul 04, 2015 |
My dear wt ws lackn ws love..nt s*x. And evn if u both love each oda dt love ws'nt strong enough 4 matrimony. Some men r such dt aftr proposing n d grl accepts dia affectn reduces...u married bcs of age n bcs he ws serious u neva said u loved him 2 death..u wia building marriage on a wrong footing..keep prayn n wait 4 d Creator's anwr b4 u tk a step..its well |
Re: Help! My Husband Is Acting Funny! by Abithel: 10:09am On Jul 04, 2015 |
OmoEziokwu:Lol... The three big words summarized it all. 1 Like |
Re: Help! My Husband Is Acting Funny! by MarineOne: 10:16am On Jul 04, 2015 |
teelady:. Thank you for this piece. I agree with you on every point raised |
Re: Help! My Husband Is Acting Funny! by gondon(m): 10:18am On Jul 04, 2015 |
My advice to you is to keep calm and behave like nothing is happening nor happened, get closer to God and church activities. Reason why i said so is that, you husband and his girlfriends are trying to push you out from the game, and reporting him to your people or his people is a bad idea; bcoz 3rd parties will come in. Also do not engage in fighting those ladies coming to ur home, welcome them well and even go to the point of serving them if it warrant. But believe me wen i say to you that, those ladies will be the one begging u for forgiveness within a short while. And also, never try been nice to your husband, bcoz it is ur love for him now that will count. As a BUCCANEER that i am , we have a norm which says; PAIN IS LOVE; LOVE IS PAIN..... GOOD LUCK. |
Re: Help! My Husband Is Acting Funny! by Hotguy27: 10:43am On Jul 04, 2015 |
[color=#006600][/color][font=Lucida Sans Unicode][/font] It is obvious that the marriage was not anchored in LOVE. It is only LOVE that easily fixes this type of problem in marriage. Your man ran after you; now you are running after him. Well, my advice to you is to relax and feel as if you are ready to share your husband with another woman. It is a storm and it shall be over one day. |
Re: Help! My Husband Is Acting Funny! by Nobody: 10:46am On Jul 04, 2015 |
abbey621: Since we are getting awards for 'guessing' . . . . S[b]he called herself a loyal housewife with children and based on the way her husband spoke to her about the issue, it doesn't take a genius to figure out who pays the bills.[/b] Housewife is a general time . . . could be full-time or part-time. I didn't see her classify herself as a FULL-TIME HW. I call myself a HW all the time and I have a full time job. Next, a woman with 3 different suitors definitely gave other guys the impression of availability. This is 9ja, most people don't become suitors without some form of dating or socializing. Actually, a woman is AVAILABLE until she ACCEPTS a suitor's proposal. She didn't say they dated. She said he asked for her hand in marriage immediately. Any adult woman is expected to be in a relationship and every suitor is aware of that. Most suitors ask you, are you engaged, not do you have a boyfriend? From her post, she said the other two were only interested in sex, not marriage. She didn't say she slept with or dated any of them. Finally, she mentioned that the husband was a nice guy and did not change till the birth of the second child, this only points to a drastic change in attraction and appeal. IT could also be that he finally got her saddled with two kids, finally realized she was now in love with him and could no longer leave him . . so he decided to drop the act and show his true colour. Also, We all know most men are only after the chase. A man who goes for a woman more sophisticated than him is obviously a 'chaser' . . . . Please tell me he didn't see local girls more his type, before chasing her T[b]he reason I blamed her is because she lacks self esteem[/b], she's basically a liability and a combination of stress with opportunity is responsible for the man's actions. WOW! You got this from her post? Did we read the same post? Most likely he was a cheater from day one . . . he just got tired of hiding it. People just don't change . . . This is why I mentioned in my post that only her can determine if the marriage is worth saving, most men are weak and succumb easily to female temptations, when the one at home isn't doing her duties then the temptations becomes much more. There's no excuse for the guy's actions, he's a pig but for her to think he just woke up one day and turned into a monster is outright ignorance! You talk like men are kids and have no control over their actions. The men I know are not that way . . . Bringing another women into your home is not only a disrepect to your wife, it's a danger to your children. HE made that decision without considering her or his kids, but just himself. These are the actions of an extremely selfish man, if not a psychopath. I sincerely doubt if she could have done anything to change such a man. He hid his true nature for as long as he thought necessary, to LAND her . . AND KEEP her . . . For a man to go to such length over a woman, I doubt if she is the 'LIABILITY' you call her. OF course we could have different definitions of that word . . . Care to explain yours? 3 Likes |
Re: Help! My Husband Is Acting Funny! by Rareg: 10:50am On Jul 04, 2015 |
@op, it must be very tough for you, one thing is very clear from ur story, your husband is under a spell. If u are still sleeping, its time to wake up. You need to pray very seriously. Pls dont fight anybody again, its a spiritual war not a physical one. Pray and pray, join women intercessory prayer groups like daughters of destiny ( www.daughtersofdestiny-ng.com). May God help u, Amen. |
Re: Help! My Husband Is Acting Funny! by andyanders: 11:00am On Jul 04, 2015 |
teelady: In fact, I will say here that you are a responsible woman and I respect your person because among those who has been contributing their own view, you are truly a special woman as you have given the true advise if the woman want her marriage to work. You have giving the woman what she should learn and act as ONLY God can save her marriage. |
Re: Help! My Husband Is Acting Funny! by Nobody: 11:02am On Jul 04, 2015 |
babygirlfl: a really really loooong way! Sometimes I thank God my hubby doesn't come to Nld anymore . . . lest they corrupt him! It's quite shocking that people not only go through things like this, majority of the people here think it's right. Wonder what we are turning into in this country. 1 Like |
Re: Help! My Husband Is Acting Funny! by Nobody: 11:06am On Jul 04, 2015 |
andyanders: Good advice, I agree . . . if one wants to salvage the crumbs left from the marriage. I don't want to get into the whole 'if the tables were turned, what will your advice be' thing . . . so you guys don't call me a feminist. But lets say it worked and he gets over his 'infatuation' . . what next She forgives and FORGETS as if nothing happened So what happened when next he decides to have another 'infatuation' episode? Same cycle This is getting redundant! 1 Like |
Re: Help! My Husband Is Acting Funny! by engrshakespeare: 11:06am On Jul 04, 2015 |
Cutehector: thats not a nice thing to say. |
Re: Help! My Husband Is Acting Funny! by Nobody: 11:11am On Jul 04, 2015 |
just bring anada man home...The guy eye go clear.na insecurity dy worry am 1 Like |
Re: Help! My Husband Is Acting Funny! by zynzyn(m): 11:20am On Jul 04, 2015 |
Complicated! 1. Don't marry out of pity or simply because time is not on your side and if u do DO NOT make it obvious because the person involved WILL NEVER FORGET! 2. The guy probably decided to marry her and get even for the fact that she had made him feel undesirable. By consistently influencing his fashion sense she has been reminding him that he was never good enough for her and needed to be UPGRADED constantly! 3. He now waits for her to get pregnant, losing a little of the figure that made her HOT, and now sees that as his chance to make her feel unwanted! |
Re: Help! My Husband Is Acting Funny! by Johnnoah1st: 11:22am On Jul 04, 2015 |
Emmanuelkant:NO NA UR BRAIN I DEY USE. |
Re: Help! My Husband Is Acting Funny! by andyanders: 11:22am On Jul 04, 2015 |
Wedon: My brother, one thing in marriage is that " No Two Perfect" human being on the face of this earth. Marriage is another University that you cannot Pass out until death because you keep learning everyday. Perseverance, understanding, patience and having God to intervene in all aspect of life that is what one need in order to navigate any marriage. If the man realizes his mistakes and comes back, both must allow God to handle their situation as temptation can make either to derail . |
Re: Help! My Husband Is Acting Funny! by xtervaganza(m): 11:27am On Jul 04, 2015 |
DrSage:nobody said anything about killing you psychotic bastard. drfool |
Re: Help! My Husband Is Acting Funny! by MarieSucre(f): 11:38am On Jul 04, 2015 |
babakol:He just got wiser? after a child? come on. If he wanted to run mad it should have been immediately after they got married. That's why I discourage abuse or cheating of any kind no matter the circumstance because the child is a party to all this. What will the growing child think? what will even tell his child sef. it is definitely a selfish action coz its not just within him and his wife. the child is the grass that suffers. |
Re: Help! My Husband Is Acting Funny! by MarieSucre(f): 11:50am On Jul 04, 2015 |
dinachi:I understand your point of view and I agree with it. But I disagree with the conclusion. yes she was probably mean and selfish about her needs and preferences but now they have 2 children! 2 CHILDREN!! who will he actions help? it will only end up hurting the family. What will his children think? Why is their father behaving like a jerk? Children should not be exposed to such malice in their safety zone; the home. He must think of his children and change his ways before their young impressionable minds pick up something wrong. |
Re: Help! My Husband Is Acting Funny! by KwoiZabo(m): 11:53am On Jul 04, 2015 |
islandmoon:your closing statements just confirmed who you are. Right now I'm hanging on with my "wife" just because of my daughter, if she can leave the girl for me and go I will be extremely happy, as soon as my daughter is mature to receive calls I'll crash the whole marriage at least even if I'm away from her for some time I'll not be so bothered. |
Re: Help! My Husband Is Acting Funny! by MarieSucre(f): 11:56am On Jul 04, 2015 |
happney65:all these kind yeye comments sha! You how many girls have you told 'I love you'? how many have you yansh? then how many have you married? mtchewwwww |
Re: Help! My Husband Is Acting Funny! by propertiesman: 11:57am On Jul 04, 2015 |
Your husband is probably paying you back for a perceived disgrace on his person. I assume you are one of those flippant women that might have uttered to him, the fact that you actually married him because your desirous were not ready for marriage and he was the "unlucky available". You have made your bed with your confessions and please lie on it until you decide to get God involved for the forgiveness of your past since of flippancy |
Re: Help! My Husband Is Acting Funny! by Memyselfu2009(m): 11:58am On Jul 04, 2015 |
sad story my advice to u... just let him be for a while get something doing take good care of your kids and you also rebrand your look and clothing dress sexy and very hot be a good wife sleep in a seperate room... someday he would realize is mistake then its your turn to deal with him cos when he start begging ... you will treate him in a way he wouldnt try tthat shit again for now endure the pain and ignore him totaly the love he has for you has faded.... |
Re: Help! My Husband Is Acting Funny! by Raylight2(m): 12:01pm On Jul 04, 2015 |
hmm..na wa for the man o |
Re: Help! My Husband Is Acting Funny! by MarieSucre(f): 12:02pm On Jul 04, 2015 |
Bluetooth2:She already knows all this. What's your advice? |
Re: Help! My Husband Is Acting Funny! by happney65: 12:04pm On Jul 04, 2015 |
MarieSucre: I havent marries any..Not yet as i need to be ready in all areas of Life for Marriage..But would do so soonest..However i have Yansed as many as over 50Girls..You Dig? |
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