here:
Permit me sound this way.
I am offended by you taking a decision based on what some faceless persons gave you and just because more of yhem seem to agree. What happened tot he saying that no real man tells his fellow to send away his woman,it tells you the age or mindset of the persons here and considering most people have an history like you who posted you are fond of doing with easy women and eanted real relationship,she atleast deserve to hear you tell her what you saw though was wrong to invade her privacy.
I think you need to sit her down and show her what you saw and let her explain atleast if you still dont feel ok you politely do as you wish.It shoes you have maturity even on the face of betrayal.

This post caught my attention. Guy, i would've caught her long before now if i'm the kind that intruding in someone private life. Besides, this is not the first time i'm broken up with girls without hurting them. I came her to seek for opinions because it involve a gift which i think(out of annoyance) she doesnt deserve it.

You talked about maturity, i would've advised you to rather talk of wisdom. Telling her about it at this crucial time will only result to begging,crying and excuses which i may not have a strong heart to but to forgive. How many guys can see a beautiful lady crying and begging on her kneel without having a second thought?

Gurgle:


Ok but why did you reassure her on the phone just now? what was the point

maybe there's something I am not getting here

why not just call her and tell her you don't want to see her and why. then drop the phone

and move on with your life

You dont get it, this is person i once share a wonderful moment with, shared so many things with. I cant just suddenly tell her i dont want her anymore(just like that). Meanwhile, i called her this morning that i received an urgent call from mum that i wont be available. This is what i will be doing till she got the message.

@beautifullll and others that requested for it, i cant post her chats here, it's quite illogical for me to reveal her identity. But if you dont know, she shared her private home address,office and mobile number. She has met few of them from what i read and they had a great fun together. Honestly i dont know what else she want from other men.

thank you all for your brotherly advise!

Gurgle:


youre going to cancel on her at the last minute tomorrow? or what

To cancel an appointment with someone i dont want to see is not a problem. I will just give her a simple excuse very early tomorrow.

Gurgle:


sooo what are you going to do?

Fistly, i will not be available for her tomorrow. As for the phone, may be latet but i wont give her tomorrow because she wont see me.

perhaps the fool has suspected i read her messages. I just ended a call with her now, promised we would have a nice time together tomorrow. That she would go to the market and cook my favourite food for me. First time my girl will tell me that in more than 8 months we met.

Update:

i smell pride....
we all knew yhu bought her a fone b4 u created this thread buh dunt ask us how we knew!!!
(a matured mind will pay her off wit dah fone if m to say buh tenk God m nut gona advice yhu...
yo life...yo choice...yo mistakes....yo lesson!!!

Pride as in? i dont even understand you, do you read my post at all?

We met few months ago, initially i did not want to date her because she's too flashy/fake for my liking. Gradually, she started proving me wrong by being a good and serious one. infact she stopped some of her fake attitude when i started complaining about it. To be sincere i really love her to the extent that i introduced her to my brother(something i dont normally do if i wanna do chop and clean mouth). Just few days ago she lost her phone and wanted me to help her buy a new one.

I bought the one she wants and gave it to her. she called me later in the evening that the one i bought comes with 16g and not 32gig as expected. I collected it back with the hope of returning it today. On checking the phone, i discovered she had forgot to sign out her facebook messager, badoo etc.

I was extremely shocked when i view some of her chats (both old and new ones) with random men. To cut the story short, she is a free giver and a LovePeddler in my own view.

Now i've exchanged the phone and she is coming to collect it tomorrow. i dont feel like giving her again, infact i hate her from that moment.

Guys, i need an unsuspicious method to make her leave me.

FNuel: Good savings, i need to know wat did u do 2 save up 2 dat amount as ur cumulative allawe if saved will not give u 500k

And how is that concern you? Some people runs private lessons or business during their one year service program. If my friend could saved almost #700k while serving in Ibadan,I don't see why he caanot do the same.

@op, do you have any vocational skill? Let me know so that I can advise you better.

fairari022: humm Dr luv,
Bcom a sexy Caleb or ugly politician.
Hum Dr luv

Mad Doctor

So,since I no be sxey Celeb or ugly politician,no hope for me to date one. Oh, what a wicked world!

What if I become a pilot?

fairari022: hummhumm Dr luv,
Okada rider mks friend wit okada rider,
A bus conductor date n marry an ashawo, n wheelbarrow pusher meet his luv in d market.
Bros; all u need is 2 upgrade ur status, then com back I will tell u wat 2 do but, 4 nw u can rock her in ur dreams.
Humm Dr luv

You mean to become a celeb too or what?

Please drop some hints,I'm ok and fully loaded.

@Dr.Luv, I wanted to date this beautiful celeb but don't know how to......... Will you please help me out?

LUPEEY deserve to win this competition. Black and beauty. I vote for her!

Though I've been battling with depression and kneel pains for long with a frequent change in mood and appetite. But this present symptom is different from what I've been experiencing before;

1. Feeling tired and emptiness from inside

2. Bowel movement(always feel like going to toilet, but on getting there,notting would come out/the feeling would just gone). Also, after 5 minutes I'd used toilet, I would start this feeling of uncleaness of bowel(as if I did not wash/clean it).

3. Weak attention. Unlike before,I dont feel like having sEx anymore.

I've been to the teaching hospital when I started feeling tired and empty from inside, but all the test results including ECG were perfectly ok. The doctor gave me anti-depressant drug and some pain killer.

Could this be as a result of depression or joint pains or pile?

Obviously you're still battling with low self-esteem.

pretty-bee:
If u r handsome, u have a good paying job, n of cos a catholic den call my number 08174750806

A good paying job? You don fail, a guy with a very good paying job get many options, so he don't have time to call a faceless girl on NL.

I know many of you will agree with me that, this Garri of a things is getting worst everyday to the extent that no topics/thread would go freely without garri comment.

What are your views about these people? How does these comments looks likes to you;

1. Fun
2. Foolish
3. Hilarious
4. Cools
5. Nice
5. Nonsense
6. Annoying
7. Senseless
8. Helpful
9. Necessary
10.good.

snthesis:
what if the Babe has money- wudnt a job be second fiddle? she can always set up a bizness for me later

do u know the number of unemployed graduates out there- so no hope for them?

Why are you thinking like this for God sake? Must you get white collar's jobs to survive? Think of what you can do to generate income for your self.

@op, the first thing you need is job. Follow by your own rented/builded house or apartment. Even to date decent/serious ladies without job is not a good experience,let alone marriage. Please respect yourself because it's better to remain single than rushing into the marriage without reasonable income.

Man, it's unfortunate that dis place is not a right place to look for gf. All of dem are fake and unwilling to date fellow NL,so my advise is for u to step up ur game in ur immidiate environmnt.

tzooh:
http://www.imf.org/external/pubs/ft/weo/2012/01/weodata/weorept.aspx?sy=2011&ey=2017&scsm=1&ssd=1&sort=country&ds=.&br=1&c=652&s=NGDP_R%2CPPPGDP&grp=0&a=&pr.x=68&pr.y=7
the above link is ghana's gdp both gdp ppp and gdp nominal (which is recorded as current prices / nominal) valuation in 2011 and 2012. The other years are projections IMF expects of Ghana's gdp (ppp) and nominal (current prices). Now this second link is provided by lagos state private partnership office which states lagos states gdp (ppp) as of 2011. Look at the 5th page of the link below where it is stated that lagos state's gdp is 42 billion dollars
http://www.icrc.gov.ng/wp-content/uploads/2011/08/ICRC-PPP-Forum-June-2011v3-Ayo-Gbeleyi.pdf

Now as you can see Ghana's gdp ppp is greater than that of lagos state. So stop misleading yourself

You should be ashame of yourseif,posting a link that comparing your useless country GDP with just a state out 36 in Nigeria.

trimwis: Ghanians are so dumb that's why a presidential candidate in Ghana is promising every Ghanians chicken. only to chop kenkey dem sabi with Banku
http://blog.afrimalls.com/cpp-promises-every-ghanaian-free-chicken-if-the-party-wins-2012-election/

man, you don finish dem.

Pls stop comparing HND with Bsc as d entries requirement for both institution ar difference.I've seen pple who obtained HND cert from federal poly without either mathmatic/english or even with four credit pass in their o'level.So,wat u HND holders ar expectn from labour market if not to take u as inferior.

Base on what i've read abt Ndume&co since dis allegation started in November last year,we see dat PDP(Hausa's),d Northern Elite includn emirs responsible for incessant attack by d BH sect in der region.D purpose of doing dis is to creat fear in Southerners& prevent jonatan from contestn again in 2015 or to achieves higher percentage of allocation from FG.Anyway,future of Nigeria wi b desided in 2015 cos if d power failed to shift to d North,hmmmm,i dnt tink dis fake entity wi sti remain as Nigeria.

Op,although,u're absolutely right to some extence but blif me its what Nigeria men made them to be.Some men can giv anytin in exchange for sex even if d lady involve doesnt ask.2ndly,men should stop overating themself in dealng wit girls cos dis wont help in anyway to sustain their relationshp or make girls love dem more.Also,evry men should kno dat women too need us,dats dey cant do without us nd dat dey enjoy it most wen hvn sex wit us.So if men change their attitude by stopn givn unecessary items or money to d women in order to intimate wit or marry dem,i tink dose women wi change too.

@op,ugly,short,poor,olodo,hmmmm,slim chances of gettn a fine girl.

@inked,wingman,do u mean a friends or big daddy?

@Odunnu,tanx i realy appreciate ur advise.

My frnd introduced me to dis site in order to get some advise from u guys here.I'm 28yrs old,my problem's dat,i dnt know how to woo a lady.Although,i had sex almost every week wit lovepedler but to win a girl heart for a relatioshp is wat seem dificult for me.D reason why i'm so worried abt it is dat,it has bcom shame&ridiculous among my frnd&family as dey all being expectn me to brings my girl to dem.Apart from dis,i want to stop patronizn ashi because of d risk involved and settled down wit som1 who wi b my wife in future.I search,search, search,toast,toast,toast but not yet work out.How long wud i continue to b lonely,pls guys help on wch trick to use.