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Jobs/Vacancies / What Is Empowerement Officer All About? by otunbakhakiz: 2:57pm On Aug 29, 2014
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Dating And Meet-up Zone / What Is Your View About Online Date? by otunbakhakiz: 2:40pm On Aug 28, 2014
Mmmmmmmmmm, this life sha, despite nt bn able to reach out to ppl u are seeing daily, I wonder why ppl come online lookin fo a date. Well, does it really work and wot are d adverse effect u eva encotad tru such medium. As for me personally, I frown at such and feel bad seeing ppl givin dft excuses fo such act
Romance / Re: Sex On A First Date by otunbakhakiz: 10:24pm On Aug 27, 2014
It all depend on the parties involved. I am a living witness of this kind tin. I bleep my fiancee on our 1st date and she felt like cryin cos of her knowledge abt my past,bt to b honest wt u, my love fo her grew stronger there aftr and promised her from dt moment nt to let her dwn. Next month will make it a year of our courtship. Praise the Lord!!!!!!!!

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Phones / How To Download Bbm Version 7( Old Version) by otunbakhakiz: 10:04am On Aug 25, 2014
After deleting the new version8, I cudnt dwnload the old one so, I wl b gald to get d link of downloading d old version7
Romance / Re: Between My Ex And My Gf by otunbakhakiz: 9:48pm On Aug 22, 2014
Imagine ppl. Ds gf of mine dts bn scared of what's goin on, I travld to see her today and while chekin tru her fb chat, I saw her conversation telling her male frnd in abroad that she cares after few emotional conversation and wen she noticed I was readin her messages, she collected the fone from me, cud she b hiding somtin from me?
Family / Re: Cry For Help: Two Weeks To Introduction by otunbakhakiz: 12:27am On Aug 22, 2014
@ op, I may b sorry to say this, bt I pray u wunt regret this action yah naggin abt.say amen. Marriage is abt sex and love fo fact bt, wc one is satisfaction we human being complained abt? Is there a place in bible or quran where a woman was complaining abt nt bn satisfied on bed by the man? Pls dear, I was a very bad good boy in the past, despite wt my 6inches prick, no lady eva complained cos am always open to learn and adjust to any style dt wl suit d woman. U can try google sex styles and position and send to ur fiance tru bbm or whatsap. Jst tell him u were readin it and find it funny.am sure he can surely change. Dnt because of sex lay off a guy of gud attitude cos u neva can tell d next person u wl meet. Abi u wan dey sample dft dishes befo getin d one dt wl suit u? Tink abt this pls
Romance / Between My Ex And My Gf by otunbakhakiz: 11:36pm On Aug 21, 2014
It myt truly b hard to blf. Got my present job tru my gf and the pay is nt upto 6digits bt jst last week, my ex called and linked me up wt sm1, wc I was asked to resume the job come sept and the pay is thrice my present earning bt my GF is nt happy wt d fact dt I got the job tru my ex tinkin mayb we are stl very much in touch. How do I make her realise my ex is jst a God sent fo ds job. Come to tink of it, this present job is over 100k much more than my present job gottern tru my GF. To the ladies in d aos, is my gf reaction normal and if u were my GF position, ow wil u react and what advice wl u gv me as par ds job
Family / Re: Crack In The Wall by otunbakhakiz: 12:19am On Aug 17, 2014
Idowuogbo:
Otunba jokes aside, you got issues.How can you date a woman for 11 months and y'all only meet up in public? Come ooooooooooon! Are you married and living with your legal wife? What are you hiding? U dey sleep under bridge? No offense#
I appreciates ur effort a lot, perhaps u didn't read my write up quite well,I'm from a background where bringing dft ladies home is seriously frown @, I have my MEng and MBA(in view) bt stl without a stable job wc makes marriage nt my priority for the moment and u shd knw wot ladies can b upto. My babe is jst a year adrift of mine and God forbid, if tins dosnt shw up timely, she myt go wt a guy wt beta status of the moment, will I nw go back home to tell them my relationshp wit her didn't work out? Sure I will be asked if I didn't pray abt it earlier on.............wit all av seen from ppls comments, tink am well pleased and let me from here appreciate everyone for their contributions, things are nw back in place. I wil try absorb whateva shame dt myt come wt it later in life if at all she did other wise
Family / Re: Crack In The Wall by otunbakhakiz: 10:11pm On Aug 16, 2014
Idowuogbo: Ogbeni,you are immature. Don't go proposing if you aint ready to introduce the babe to your folks.what are you hiding sef? Na shrine u dey live? undecided
tnx for ur comment bt I mst say this, av always blvd ah one of the most inteligent ppl on nairaland bt wt this comment, u provd me rng. I want to blf u read that I detest insult bt why such a horrible comment.
Family / Re: Crack In The Wall by otunbakhakiz: 6:34pm On Aug 16, 2014
Elantracey: 11months is a long time and there's nothing wrong with her wanting to see your parents , its not as if you guys just meet , I don't think she meant to insult you she might just have been puzzled by your refusal to her request and is beginning to doubt your sincerity but op do you have plans of getting married to her at all?
to your question, capital YES. If I'm able to hit my landmark today, then walking dwn d altar wt her is my next plan. I LOVE myy babe with the whole of my heart bt that statement hit me much more than trailer cos I totally detest insult since I dnt use it wt ppl
Family / Re: Crack In The Wall by otunbakhakiz: 6:30pm On Aug 16, 2014
donroxy: she is right you aint mature even the fact that you brought this crap issue here means you aint mature !

My advice , go get matured ..... @27 you should be able to let your girl realised what it is .... The babe should dump your sorry a:s:s !!
plssssssss, I seek for advice and not insult,
Family / Re: Crack In The Wall by otunbakhakiz: 5:01pm On Aug 16, 2014
To make it clear, I didn't travelled dwn wt d mindset of meeting her parents. What apnd was dt, I traveld dwn to see her and while we were togda @ eatery, her mum called and she asked abt her where abt and she told her mum am arnd den mum said to her we shd com togda to her place
Family / Re: Crack In The Wall by otunbakhakiz: 4:46pm On Aug 16, 2014
Have been into a relationship in d past and am sure she Is d best ever, the question abt if I wl marry her isn't the case, and am nt d type that play game wt a lady, what am tryin to avoid is getin to introduce her to my parents and later on an unforseen issues apns and she bid me bye bye. I'm from a christian home to sa where introducing dft ladies to my parents is frankly frown at. I was forced to gave my mum her number to call her for me jst for her to b sure am real and she is my number priority
Family / Crack In The Wall by otunbakhakiz: 4:20pm On Aug 16, 2014
Hello landers, am here to seek for advice from well mannered landers. I'm in a relationship of 11months and tins av bn so good to say cos we av our ups and dwns dealt wit in a matured way. Just. In the month of june, I met with her parents while I travelled down to see her and since then she has bn so so much on my neck of meeting my parents or coming to my house to know my abode. She has bn to lagos several times to visit me bt we stays out in cinema, beach and sometimesat my frnds place. The main issue nw is dt, sinx av nt taken my babe home, she said to me am nt "matured" or perhaps am nt nt man enof @ 27 to tell my parents abt my fiancee. To be honest, everyone @ home already knw abt her bt I jst dnt tink its time to take her in bt the statement she altered that am nt MATURED got to hit my nerve and since then av nt bn myself(loving her as of befo) cos am ds kind of dude that hav zero tolerance for insult. Since then, our relationshp hs bn swingling down. What advice will u gv to a guy in my situation. Reasonable response pls

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Politics / New Voters Card Registration Updates by otunbakhakiz: 12:10pm On Aug 15, 2014
Heard this morning new voters card registration hs commenced in some state, let's come together to know how the situation like @ ur own location. Any foul play notificatn @ any centre will be hly appreciated. I'm in lagos bt notin of such ryt nw in gidi
Romance / Re: Ideal Way Of Ending A Relationship by otunbakhakiz: 10:48am On Aug 08, 2014
Ivanspring: The guys she dated before you were all from broken homes... Now you're in her life and also from a broken home. I see where your concern is. You are right to be afraid. I think both of you should seek counselling and prayers if you really want to marry her. Don't take it lightly.


thanks a lot. Tink u av d idea of wot am goin tru
Romance / Re: Ideal Way Of Ending A Relationship by otunbakhakiz: 10:46am On Aug 08, 2014
dre11: *There is no realtionship without its up and down
*no marriage without conflict
*no two people agree for a long time without a bit of disagreement
*no friendship with some dispute because it does makes the connection strong


but, what keeps marriage and relationship going is the ability to respect each other, know ur limit, understand the other person, the maturity to reslove issues and say sorry when ure wrong.

So, ur fear is not out of place...... but, do you and her have what it takes to break the jinks and make the relationship work.....
U and her should do an appraiser of urselves and see if u can weather the storm when it does come.


Because the storm will come
u need to get this rt, we dnt av any issue wt our relationship, our 1yr so far hs bn my best relationshp ever, av even met wt her parents.bt gettinh hooked up wt 3dft guys from broken home and even she calls fo worries
Romance / Re: Ideal Way Of Ending A Relationship by otunbakhakiz: 10:43am On Aug 08, 2014
andromida:

You mean you are worried because she is from a broken home?
every of her ex and even I myself are from broken home
Romance / Ideal Way Of Ending A Relationship by otunbakhakiz: 9:06am On Aug 08, 2014
Please if u dnt av somtin reasonable to contribute, just step aside. Iv bn in this relationshp for almst a year nw. We av our ups and dwns and d lady is carin, open minded bt av som past am finding dificult to do wt aside that's, I appens to b her 3rd BF and every of her ex. Bf and even I myself are from broken homes (as well as the gal) nw am gettin scared of this cos I didn't pray to experience a broken home. Does this not av spirirtual claims or what did u see to this. We quarel a lot bt we get along so easily notin bad abt the gal anyway bt am scared of all these broken broken homes issue

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Phones / How To Delete Old Messages On Facebook by otunbakhakiz: 1:47am On Aug 08, 2014
Please I use bb Prch and av bn tryin to delete my old messages on facebook over the time bt to no avail. I need help pls
Religion / Palm Wine Good For A Christian? by otunbakhakiz: 5:55pm On Aug 06, 2014
Hello Landers, I'm in a relationship with a lady that sometimes drinks alcohol and all sorts of drinks but since we started our relationship, have made it known to her if she really wants me, she has to stop all such habits which I can attest to that she has truly let go of all those tins not until she asked me das back if drinking palm wine is also bad? I am a guy that neva for once tasted any alcholic drink bt av tasted palm wine while I was a kid, so am of the opinion that palm wine is also bad but she asked for biblical proof of this. Pls I need ur assistance on this matter
Religion / Re: Sex(s) With My Fiancee:a Xtian Brother by otunbakhakiz: 9:47pm On Aug 03, 2014
durella4: I understand hw u feel,wat u nid nw s intensive prayer cos u ve given urself 2 d devil n he nw ve access 2 u.U don't nid d prayers of any man of God s only u dat can deliver urself and dat involve personal determination n decision.
Since both of u re nt married and u constantly ve d mind of sex anytime u re with her,wen u want 2 visit her again try nt 2 visit her alone do dat with most of ur brodas in christ,if u continue it in dat way d mentality of fornication will b away frm u. Also try preaching 2 ur gf about christ.

Finally,in paul voice 'let any 1 who can't control his/her get married less he/she fall in2 temptation'*edited*
tnx bro
Romance / Re: I Love You: 15 Ways Guys Say It Without Saying It by otunbakhakiz: 7:56pm On Aug 03, 2014
;DWish my own Abike is on nairaland to make comment about our love ;DWish my own Abike is on nairaland to make comment about our love
Religion / Sex(s) With My Fiancee:a Xtian Brother by otunbakhakiz: 7:47pm On Aug 03, 2014
Mmmmmmm, should I call it confession time or what? I'm a bible study teacher both while on campus and even after school till now. One battle I'm facing is furnication, I met my GF while I was 25yrs of age and I had my 1st sex at that time and since then have not been able to look back. One spirit do tell me that " as long as its with one woman, no sin" but my kowledge abt the word of God says contrary to this. I strongly wish to bring an end to this but I need the advice of great men of God to to overcome this great trial. I'm sure people will crucify me but am ready to start a new life not even with my knowledge of the word. Pls help me out.
Family / Sex Skills Or Sex Positions by otunbakhakiz: 3:41am On Aug 02, 2014
Strictly to the married couples, I had cases where people complained about their partner not good in bed and some do say his/her partner is not satisfying enough. Now, my question is this, what are those sex skills that drives men and women on in marriages cos am sure sex has set apart 45% of divorce cases. So, let's open up to educate ourselves and save some marriages having this challenge
Family / Re: How Honest Should You Be About Your Past When Marrying Someone? by otunbakhakiz: 12:44pm On Jul 30, 2014
dayosaurus:


What would you tell your partner when he finds out??..
do u tink a lady will feel comfortable wit u gettin to knw yah once a player or the type that goes arnd wt sugar mami
Career / Re: Towards A Better Engineering Graduate(letter To N.S.E) by otunbakhakiz: 12:32pm On Jul 30, 2014
tolutweety:
SPY ...i hail oo !

Your boy is loyal oo cheesy wink

#tolu #BetaByFar#ElectEngr
yes boss. How are u doing and what do u see to this article?
Career / Re: Towards A Better Engineering Graduate(letter To N.S.E) by otunbakhakiz: 12:26pm On Jul 30, 2014
0rex: SPY how far? Abeg which company asked you to solder components together? I have an interest in such companies.
elektint @ gbagada

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Family / Re: How Honest Should You Be About Your Past When Marrying Someone? by otunbakhakiz: 10:20am On Jul 29, 2014
orirebaby:

You can only be sure of ds wen yu r still in yur early twenties my dear. When yu are in yur late twenties yu don't wanna let him go. The fact is there are things beta kept as secret.
Family / Re: How Honest Should You Be About Your Past When Marrying Someone? by otunbakhakiz: 10:15am On Jul 29, 2014
orirebaby:

You can only be sure of ds wen yu r still in yur early twenties my dear. When yu are in yur late twenties yu don't wanna let him go. The fact is there are things beta kept as secret.
Tolulope; tell them make then hear. Not even wen yah in ur thirties. There are some past that are rather kept than bn told. Talking from experience anyway.
Career / Towards A Better Engineering Graduate(letter To N.S.E) by otunbakhakiz: 8:24am On Jul 28, 2014
Good day to my fellow Engineers. I hereby stands to discuss few issues which I belief will transform our great calling. After being to several job tests and interviews, have come to realised that lots still need to be done in order to equip the engineering graduate and makes them employable rather than employers preferring technicians or quack engineers in lew of a graduate personnel. I remember sometime ago after scaling through lots of huddles of rigorous tests and interviews, I then got to stage where I was given the disjointed components to soldiered and makes it work but due to my faint knowledge of practical skills, I could delivered that much and those men in charge said to me they can't put the blame on me but am wondering if not on me then on who? This makes me to call on our great professional body to please come to our aid. Lots of things are not going right and companies no longer ready for training graduates except few ones. First on my transformation agenda is; changing the number of years we spent in school. I am of the opinion of making engineering courses four years without the so called industrial training where some students don't even have chance of getting a place to practice or some do not even wish doing it at all and still presented a report at the end of it. The way out to this is that, after spending four years in school, I am of the opinion that each school should send them to industrial institute (IITA/one of ITF) where they are expected to go through practical for complete two years. Don't know if I'm making sense here. I strongly wish to hear more from great thinkers and am so sure something will be done soon. Tired of producing unemployable engineering graduate,unskilled graduates and the likes. Nigeria solemnly depend on this profession for a better productivity and economical growth. Thank God for making me realise my dream of becoming an Electrical Electronics Engr. Thanks to all my lecturers in Unilorin. Dr. Amuda, Dr omeiza,Dr Bakinde and my project supervisor Prof Ibiyemi. God bless you all. Please, ignore any grammatical error u myt com about. Thanks to you all.Akindele Joseph(SPY)

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