You're getting some good advice here. For women, the enjoyment of bedroom activities is not as easily achieved as for men. If u think ur woman is boring, then maybe it's up to you to educate her. Many men think that if they're having a good time then obviously the woman is too. This is not the case!!! Make sure she enjoys it. For a woman this usually means a lot of pre-intimacy. While ur doing it ask her if she likes it. Find out what makes her moan and writhe but be prepared to take ur time. Slowly build her up to the conclusion until she's begging u, but even then put her needs first. I guarantee u that a woman who is boring in bed hasn't really experienced the joy that is possible. If she really is everything u say she is then do this for her and believe me, the joy u get from making this a wonderful experience for her will be with u for years. Btw, it's also important to keep telling her while ur doing this how gorgeous and sexy u find her and how much she turns u on. Let her know that u enjoy it much more when she is enjoying it too.

Expect an email

Mr Pres, how can i email u and why should i? Do u live in China? Are u Nigerian? U wanna ask questions, why don't u give some answers.

What? u wanna see my passport? What's it to u anyway? If ur not in China I don't care what u think.

good hunte:

from dikkk to dikkk u will have swollen stomach , better remain with us

don't know what u mean? i've seen my bf once in 2 weeks and that's a lot for him. a woman has needs.

What's ur problem president-wanna-be?

Hey all you gorgeous men in China, I'm looking for a new guy. I'm an Australian woman who's been living in China for many years and loves Nigerian men. I sort of have a boyfriend at the moment but he leaves me alone all the time and the only time I see him is when he wants money. So, if u live in Beijing, are legal and have a job, and like ur women on a large scale then I'd love to hear from u.

A nice guy is someone u like and respect, but who is not necessarily exciting.

Why is it so hard to find someone who is nasty and nice?

Now we're getting somewhere. What do u mean 'African men endure more in a relationship'? Please help me understand. This isn't about me and my self esteem, I just want to have a better understanding.

loleeta199:

ozlove, better stop your rubbish

What rubbish? I'm being honest. Didn't know that was rubbish.

assobroker:

I think I understand what you're getting at Ozlove, you could give me a call and we talk (no hidden agenda) and i'll help you understand more, i'm Seun or you call me Peter 08080588026

Thanks sweetie, but the last thing I need is a 24 yo making my life more complicated. Besides, I live in China so it's too expensive to call.

Blapo, that's not true. My experiences with Australian men are nothing like my experiences with African men. Different cultures and up bringing make for very different people. Why do you think I'm here trying to understand better? Do you really think the average Aussie has any idea what it's like to grow up in Africa? I've been learning over the last few years from the African men I've dated, but I've still only seen the tip of the iceberg. The desperation to get something better for themselves and their families is not something you see a lot of in Aus. I want to improve my relationship, that's why I'm here.

Absolutely. Everytime I see my current boyfriend without his clothes on, I forget all his shit. Most times he doesn't even have to go that far, just his smile has me going weak. What can I do?

I don't care what colour people are, but come on, you know black people are the most attractive race in the world!

You're right. But until you've lived in China it's hard to understand. A woman has needs and I'm afraid I don't find Chinese men attractive and no white man will look at me when there's a billion gorgeous young Chinese girls to choose from. For me it's just an added bonus that Nigerian men are superb to look at and hook up with, I'm just trying to work out the emotional side of it.

Sorry, but that's rubbish. Are you a man or an animal who can't control his actions? Take responsibility for what you do and who you hurt!

I'm not highlighting my attractiveness, I'm being honest. I'm not good looking and these men are HOT! I'm not a fool and these guys seem to have all read the same play manual. You get almost the same lines out of all of them. Guess I just want to be reassured that I'm not fighting a losing battle. Even the men tell me themselves that you can't trust Nigerian men except for themselves of course.

Why does it always come down to race. I'm an old, fat white woman who has been used and cheated on by Nigerian men. Let me tell you, it's not fun! I'm just looking for someone to share my life with, the same as everyone else. Why should my race/appearance/weight mean that I can be used like I'm not a real person with real feelings?

Hi, I'd like some advice please. I'm a unattractive middle aged white woman living in China. Since I've been here I've met MANY west African men and have dated a couple of Nigerian men. So far my experience with them is they are great talkers but basically can't be trusted to tell the truth about almost anything. My trouble is I'm very attracted to these men (who wouldn't be) but need to know are all Nigerian men like this or have I just been very unlucky?