GreatVocalist:
Bro, just give her some space and see if she'll seek. If she doesn't, then move on.

Next time, you'll check your tempraments properly so you don't hurt someone with your words. People handle things differently.

48 hours after ignoring her I woke up to her message.... Lol

luvyaself95:
You don enter trap
But nigga give her space mek she miss you and if she doesn't.
Move fuckin on

I ignored her barely 48 hours I work up to her message this morning....
I still ignored her

anthonyuncle:
she has obviously relegated you to the lower league.

stop apologising, focus on yourself and hustle.

Bruh I realised that lately

iInjureHerYansh:
I also have the same experience recently. In this case I didn't drag I just move on with my life. I gave a time space of when she will contact me. She didn't contact tull elapsed.
Case closed.

I ignored her for 24 hours only and I woke up to her (hi) on whatsapp 😂

Afonjacrusder:


Honestly if you chat or plead with her again I won't be happy with you.

Bruh i deleted numbers, pictures
I moved on

ghettochild:
Deep down you know what to do n u r asking us

I knew what to do just throwing it up to know if I'm taking the right step

SenecaTheYonger:


No. Your chat will give us a clue. Most people chat like proper simps without knowing

Very unnecessary to screenshot chats here.
Let go bruhhh

SenecaTheYonger:


Can we see some of your chats? Especially the one she called u insecure

Lmao.... U kidding right

Donvalentino55:
That's a narcissist you're dealing with. Guilt tripping and gaslighting are their trademarks. Don't fall for such antics no more. Move on!
On the contrary, learn to manage your anger. Always keep your shits together especially when provoked by the opposite gender.
There's more to life than fighting a lost cause.

Thank you I moved on already

MechanicMike:


Are u gay sir? So u sayin u r gay BECUZ you behave like female but u need male masculine to help u be like man?....bro we don't understand you!!(no offenscce?)

It's not compulsory to comment... I asked for advise not insults

Black44:
her mind do dey the r/ship again
Bro u have been served breakfast
You need igbo and shayo

I saw it coming... Nah why I wan distance myself G

Sonnobax15:

Bro,give her small space make her brain for reset small..... Because the more you dey try to bring the relationship back to normalcy,she go just dey reason you like say you dey stalk her . Or probably too weak . Na so bannies be...very manipulative in nature..

I've been thinking of giving her the space t focus on more important things. I just wanted to be sure if the decision is right
Thank u

Afonjanistan:
Keep spending.
She will return once you go broke.

Anyway i only bought her stuff to pacify her. I stopped when I noticed it didn't even change a thing.
Already thinking of moving on and giving her space but I just wanted to be sure if it's the right decision for me
Thank u

doggedfighter:
Give her space.



Move on !

Already what I'm thinking of I just wanted to be sure if I'm thinking in the right direction
Thank u

Runnerzz:
U even sound feminine 😏
Anyway she ain't urs... Isn't it obvious? U are just the side nigga now. Quit and stop crying and begging her with gifts. U lost. Move tha fvck on already

I stopped buying her stuffs already... I only did that once sef
Giving her the space is what had been in my mind I just wanted to be sure if I'm making the right decision

donbachi:
End it.
Before she go turn you to alhaji bringi-bringi

I only bought her stuff just once after we had issues and when I noticed it doesn't even change anything. I stopped
I'm thinking of giving her the space I just wanted to be sure I'm in the right direction

Hi guy, so about 3 months ago I met this lady we got talking and enter relationship. She was all sweet and lovely until we had misunderstanding and I yelled at her (WhatsApp chats) tbvh I was at fault maybe I should've been more patient with her but i verbally abused her... I apologized over and over again although she accepted my apologies but it's been over a month now and she's never thesame sweet girl I used to know she's been salty and cold since then.
In desperation to bring back the good old times I bought her gifts and stuffs but nothing changed.
Every time I talked about us how to make us go back to the way we used to but she'll emotionally blackmail me, she's been very very manipulative since then, she doesn't even call, doesn't text
I felt like I'm loosing my self esteem and masculinity trying to get us back.
Everytime I apologize again she'll tag me insecured, obsessive and pretender and say all sorts of manipulative statements.
PS: this is the first time we ever had issues in our relationship
So I'm thinking about just giving her space, and focus on more important things I need to regain my pride and ego pls advise me

Hi Nairalanders I am civil servant but I've taken deep interest in switching career to Tech (cybersecurity) I had started taking lessons few weeks back after completing Python
I want to ask is this career really lucrative in Nigeria and what's the average pay in Nigeria
Is it better to stay back in Nigeria and work remotely or I should relocate after abroad after getting my certificate
Am just curious

Hi Nairalanders I am civil servant but I've taken deep interest in switching career to Tech (cybersecurity) I had started taking lessons few weeks back after completing Python
I want to ask is this career really lucrative in Nigeria and what's the average pay in Nigeria
Is it better to stay back in Nigeria and work remotely or I should relocate after abroad after getting my certificate
Am just curious

2elliot:
Lol. Friend zone things. She loves the way your company makes her feel good. But you are not good for her enough to smash that coochie. Don't allow a girl define what you two should be. Unless you chose to start a platonic relationship, don't allow a girl to decide one for you if your intention was an intimate one. Guy, leave that bitch. She will only drain your energy. Next you will see is another guy with her.

Thank you. Ending up in a friendzone is even more difficult. Tbh
I really loved her and I was thinking of stopping the attention sef and move on.

Ballzproblem2:
The way men easily profess love is appalling,this why they chop breakfast left and right ,guard your

Love doesn't have manual.

Connected1:

E don reach marriage now now now.
🤣
Una no go kill person for this Nairaland.

I date for a purpose. The purpose of this whole thing is to marry if the dating went well

Autobot05:


If she's cool as you claimed Be friends with her ... it's even better that way if a relationship comes up

Just don't engage your emotions 🙃

What if I get friendzoned in the process

fineboynl:
Stil the attention. You will begin to get sense thereafter. Trust me. The more you are putting forward the more you will start irritating her.

How do u mean bro.
U mean I should still the attention?

Bobchucky:
Friend zone her n move on like nothing happened
If she dred u na she go follow u up or give u green-light so u go on her again

Be like this Is the way to go

Kobicove:
You want to marry her?

Someone you barely even know

Wtf bruh!
Did u miss the part where I said we got closed?
After all do y'all go to the street to pick a random girl without getting to know her first?

anthonyuncle:
tilt the attention to the girl working with her, and you will see her

How bro

Hi Nairalanders, so I met this girl. Cool headed, homely, quiet and barely goes out.
She's a lab intern in the hospital I work. We go closed I approached her for a relationship she said she's not ready for a relationship since about 3 weeks now. But I noticed we talk and vibe a lot. If she misses my calls she'd call back when she sees it but she insists on not getting into relationship for now. Should I stop reaching out to her or just keep the friendship or kept asking her out? Am afraid of been friendzoned if I kept being friends with her. Please what's your advice I really want to marry this girl.

I disagree with this. Even the comments on thesame gsmarena says otherwise. Most users prefer the 4xl

DjAndroid:
But phones are almost the same. But the S 10plus is a little better.


https://www.gsmarena.com/compare.php3?idPhone1=9535&idPhone2=9895

Am a big fan of the pixel 4xl though thanks �

Ex0rrcist:

Pixel 4xl has 90hz screen, which is a big difference. The screen color accuracy is also better on the pixel. Go for the pixel s10 plus is outdated, you'll also enjoy the face unlock on the 4xl. I would personally recommend the s20 fe 5g, it's the best in the price category (170k below), better camera, latest software, only if you insist on QHD screen.

How much are you willing to sell? Am interested

marv97:
I've personally used both phones previously. My recommendation without doubt goes to the Pixel 4XL. Performance is nearly identical on both but in terms of camera the Pixel has the upper hand and I personally like Pixel UI over One UI.

Currently want to sell my Pixel 6 Pro by December to get the new 7 Pro, just in case anyone is interested