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Can I sue my former office friend under the penal legal code 419 for not obtaining my consent truthfully before for having sex with me with fraudulent intent? She lied about being on the pill and she got pregnant because she was not on pill. Will I win the case in court?

I met this lady sometime in 2016, at my place of work in the bank when she came on transfer to my branch. We started being casual office friends. I am married with two children. She knew about my marriage, she met my wife several times when she came to collect me from office. The lady was already a divorcee by the time she came to my branch in 2016, she is two years my senior in age and we are all from Delta State. She liked me and I liked her like a senior sister, but we are on same grade level since 2016 and we were both promoted again to same next level last year. In September 2016, we traveled out together in my car for a staff wedding in Abuja. After the wedding we could not travel back as I did not want to drive on Lokoja road in the night. That evening she asked me out, we went for pepper soup and drinks I paid for both of us, we ended up in her own hotel room and we made love. As I no get raincoat, I did not plan to sleep with her at all at all, I seriously refused initially, but I failed to control myself after some kissing and play-play. She begged me not to leave her room that night, we both agreed that nothing will happen, but later she asked for sex, she assured me that she was on pill, and she wanted to do it after more than three years of not having sex. We did it because I believed her. I did not enjoy it as my mind was not in doing it that night. A month later she told me she was pregnant and she refused to terminate the pregnancy. Till date, I only slept with this lady once, that night in Abuja. We are still working in the same bank but at different branches now. She got transferred to another branch last year. Honestly, she is a very good and kind person. If I was not married before this thing happened I would have considered marrying her now despite the fact that she is older than me. She is good looking with nice personality. Her father and mother are living in Lagos, with her two junior sisters who are also married with their husbands in Lagos. I have never met any of her relatives.

I told my wife, before she heard about it outside. Our pastors and our parents helped me to beg my wife and she forgave me. Our office colleagues later knew that I gave the lady the pregnancy. She born a boy in 2017, her only child till date, she has a steady boy friend now. Last year, my wife said i should go and collect the boy from the lady, we went together to visit her in her house to discuss and talk to her. The lady welcome us very well when we got there, when we told her about our plan and ask when we can come back to collect the boy, she refused to the idea of giving us the baby to raise with our other two children (1 boy and 1 girl) in line with our native customs. My wife said I should take her to court, that I should not allow her to keep my child otherwise she would divorce me. I don't want to divorce my wife. And I can not marry two wives. I talked to a lawyer in Benin and he said the baby belongs to the woman and not me. That if the lady does not want to give us the child to raise, we should allow her to keep the baby. To make the matter worse, the lady has been asking me for money to support her in taking care of the boy she tricked me to have to satisfy her desire to have a child. In 2016 she told me that she left her husband because he was jailed for carrying drugs to US. After her pregnancy, she changed her story and she later told me that her husband divorced her after 10 years of marriage for not getting pregnant and that was why she did it with me that night we traveled together and that she was not on pill. I have a recording of her confession on my phone.

Why won't my lawyer agree for us to use the same law as they use to collect money back from Yahoo-Yahoo boys to collect the baby from a woman who lied and deceived me to get pregnant? Scam na scam. No be so? I did not plan for her pregnancy. She tricked me and for that I do not like that part of her behavior.

Any lawyer who can help should provide me his phone number i will call you.