You not a sensible being!

willingheart:
I'm truly in love with this guy. We are happy together, We understand each other perfectly. With him I'm � myself, No pretence. Same with him. He's everything I want in a man, but the problem is that: he doesn't have money. He keeps trying, but things are not working. no job and he's from a family where everyone are on their own facing their challenges, no support.


He's 35yrs this yr and I'm 30 already. He wants to get married, but he can't afford it.

Lately, I buy almost everything for him, to support him.

Age is not on my side, yet the only man I love and that loves me can't afford to marry me. If we're married, it will be easy for me to share everything with him without my family members putting eyes.

My Aunt called me stu.pid that i should accept a financially stable man instead of being with a man who can not afford to take care of me.
I have little money I saved to support my wedding as well, but he have nothing.

Married people in the house please help.
I want to have direction plan for my life coming year.

Marrying the one you love or the one that's financially stable. What's your advice and opinion?

please let the youngman know what you have already decided in your heart but just waiting for some sort of justification from nairalanders. If u have found someone that is financially stable please go ahead, it's a decision u and u alone can make! Money is very important in marriage, but love and peace are by far, superior. Goodluck

fannybaby:
The bible already has the answer. Wives honor your husband and husband love your wife....

It is your husband that is suppose to love you. If the financial stable guy loves you, please go for him.

If the other guy have some change tomorrow, he won't still give you money to run the house

don't be blinded by your circumstances! How do you know for sure that he wouldn't provide when he eventually gets the money? Money is very important in marriage but don't you think that nothing supercedes a peaceful marriage? I'm not going to come here to tell her what to do, because it's her cross and she must face whatever comes out of her decision. Please let's not be too money conscious

The person in that picture is over 30 and not even 25