honestly its not easy being an introvert the ppl around u who are impatient conclude you are a snub. for instance i noticed that each time i make conscious effort to initiate conversations i talk too much and almost get myself in trouble. but unfortunately i get bored and need company a times.
question: is it normal to crave company sometimes and want your space mostly?

Attention Ebuetor pls i need ur response. tanx

pepeyoyo:
i have been following this thread for a while i think i am ready to add my dreams too.

firstly as a child i can remember having a dream where someone called my name into a mortar and pounded it the third time and i answered and woke up crying don't know if this has a meaning or its an aftermath of a scary yoruba movie i watched .

secondly i remember when i was in secondary school , i dreamt that my pastor's wife and another woman who heads a unit in the church took me to a river in white wrappers and with a fowl in hand and made me kneel down by the river while calling out to what i dont know. woke up scared and i av never mentioned this to anyone since then this is my first time.

Thirdly will like to know if flying in a dream is good or bad.

Lastly, there is a lady in my office who we don't get along so well, as a Christian i always go out of my way to talk to her even when its not necessary just to be sure i am not keeping malice with her. there was a time i dreamt that i should stop going to her office to gist if i want to be progressive (there are other ppl who i get along with in the same office) cause most times the gists are more of gossip than not. so i stopped she kept complaining that i av stopped coming into their office. the hatred became worse. a few days ago i dreamt that we had a terrible physical fight and i confronted her very boldly in the dream i felt good that i was able to confront her.

my question : is the dream a manifestation of our relationship in the real life or its just an expression of my imagination before i slept?.
Ebuator and Co pls come to my rescue

i have been following this thread for a while i think i am ready to add my dreams too.

firstly as a child i can remember having a dream where someone called my name into a mortar and pounded it the third time and i answered and woke up crying don't know if this has a meaning or its an aftermath of a scary yoruba movie i watched .

secondly i remember when i was in secondary school , i dreamt that my pastor's wife and another woman who heads a unit in the church took me to a river in white wrappers and with a fowl in hand and made me kneel down by the river while calling out to what i dont know. woke up scared and i av never mentioned this to anyone since then this is my first time.

Thirdly will like to know if flying in a dream is good or bad.

Lastly, there is a lady in my office who we don't get along so well, as a Christian i always go out of my way to talk to her even when its not necessary just to be sure i am not keeping malice with her. there was a time i dreamt that i should stop going to her office to gist if i want to be progressive (there are other ppl who i get along with in the same office) cause most times the gists are more of gossip than not. so i stopped she kept complaining that i av stopped coming into their office. the hatred became worse. a few days ago i dreamt that we had a terrible physical fight and i confronted her very boldly in the dream i felt good that i was able to confront her.

my question : is the dream a manifestation of our relationship in the real life or its just an expression of my imagination before i slept?.
Ebuator and Co pls come to my rescue

sick, nauseated, fagged out now i know am not alone

tanx everyone i really appreciate ur contributions, i will certainly proctect myself against any form of std, i was so angry dat i stopped cooking for him, will start cooking again. but honestly it hurts so bad. you can imagine going an extra mile to change even the bedmatics for his sake( normally i will be fine with just once a month or twice in two months at random) but it doesn't feel like its worth it o thank God i didn't put dat thing in my mouth cause the imagination of the dirty places its been makes my skin crawl so bad its just irritating. guess its psychological.

bellong: I am sorry, I don't think anybody has the magic wand to stop a cheating man.

The best you can do for yourself is to stop sniffing him around. What we don't know can't hurt nor kill us. Meanwhile, protect yourself from STD.

Goodluck

yes i used to belong to ur school of thought how do i know if he eventually impregnates another woman someday, dont u think ppl will blame me for not seeing the signs

please i really need tips on how to stop my husband from cheating. am convinced he is but he keeps denying it. some weeks back he traveled out of Nigeria for 3weeks. normally i wanted to see his pictures lo and behold i stumbled on a conversation with another lady about shaving their privates,then he said maybe they should have done that together. i asked questions and he denied having anything to do with her but later apologised . last week Saturday he traveled for a friend's wedding checking the pictures i saw nude pictures of a girl having her bath in his hotel room yes his hotel room cause i saw his shoes in the picture. i confronted him and he denied. first he said the pics were not his then later he said he got them from the Internet like am a fool was his shoe photo shopped into the pics. right now my trust level is zero,am loosing my feelings for him gradually. i really want an evidence so it will be difficult for him to deny. am willing to forgive because of the kids if only he confesses and asks for forgiveness. i have had my share of growing up with separated parents i dont want my kids to experience same . but right now if this issue is not handled with care i may get tired of the whole marriage and throw away the 5 years we have stayed together. please how can i stop him.

@Kanwulia well said i observed my parents quite closely and am sure they really love each other. i was away in school for over a year and he visited just once so we've been apart long enough to miss each other, we had a little catching for a few days but dat was all. so i dont know if staying away will be helpful .

forgive ke? on this matter forgiveness is a long thing. but u can make him an offer to remain as an ordinary staff cuz of the kids

tanx will give it a hard try i pray it works

i have been married for about 5 years and the first two years were fun-filled we were happy and depended on each other to move the family forward. sex was fair, my minus, life was sweet and things moved very fast. the 3rd year we had to be apart for a while (was in school). when i came back everything had changed, it was like cohabiting with a stranger. as i speak we hardly communicate, no family time together(he'll rather stay with his friends) . after work he is mostly glued to his phone chatting with some silly females (he claims he has never seen them he only chats with them) he doesn't even care about my feelings he is just a total stranger. each time i look through his phone i usually see funny messages so i no longer trust him. sex now is close to zero cause my libido is next to nothing and he hardly touches me. when i try i feel like pushing him away. please what can i do to get his attention and go back to how we used to be. right now we have not been speaking to each other for since saturday.

his drive and ability to make things works. unfortunately i don't see these anymore